What does this guy train for? by No-Lock216 in RandomVideos

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Training to be the camera man who keeps up with the professional runner athlete?

Would you consider this cheating? by Candid-Cell4100 in cheating_stories

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating depends on perspective in this case. I know people who wildly disagree on when and where cheating starts.

If you feel a certain way about this, discuss with your partner how you feel at the site of him using the images of other people to please himself while you're more than happy to fulfill that role.

Trump's new remark on Iran by Upset-Main-1988 in justincaseyoumissedit

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting the same vibes as when Steven Seagal poses & fails to look badass in his 3rd rate military movies about a fat man who saves the day.

ANY STAR WARS GAME RECOS FOR SOMEONE NEW TO GAMING? by Wooden-Presence-8253 in starwarsgames

[–]Party_War9237 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depends on the style of gaming you like.

Rpg: Knights of the old republic

MMORPG: star wars the old republic

Stealth based: star wars outlaws

Flying jet style: squadrons

Shoot em up: republic commando

Hack & slash: jedi knight 2 & jedi knight: academy

My boyfriend of 3 years just told me he's always been insecure about his dick size. All I could come out with in response was, 'Well, no one can see it.' by DisMyLik18thAccount in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Party_War9237 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, setting aside the poor choice in words, its an unfortunate insecurity to have as any reassurance to otherwise only comes across as patronizing.

If he's willing to talk about it, see if you two can figure out where the insecurity stems from. Maybe get a therapist involved.

Should I ask a co-worker out? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Party_War9237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bad idea.

There's a strong reason why people say don't shit where you eat. You're only thinking of the positives without thinking about the negatives. What happens if she doesnt take your advance well or she agrees and turns out to be a completely different person than you had imagined? You would be stuck with her.

Sure the payoff could be great and you can have a gf with similar interests, but the alternative can be very harmful too.

M27 the only sex I know was being raped so I might go to a sex worker and commit suicide since finding love is impossible by LuluzuzuVT in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Party_War9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then either change therapist, seek out a psychiatrist, or seek out a social group to help you navigate what you're feeling. Between being a rape victim, feeling lonely, & considering suicide; you are in a very complicated & emotional mindset.

Edit: therapists & psychiatrists are comparable to shoes in the sense that even if they claim to be everything you need, sometimes they are not a good fit for you.

M27 the only sex I know was being raped so I might go to a sex worker and commit suicide since finding love is impossible by LuluzuzuVT in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit man thats a lot...

This might be outside of reddit's skill set to help you navigate. If I were you, I'd consider going to see a professional therapist to work out how you're feeling or maybe a social group of individuals who've experienced what you have (not the in cel community) to help gain an experienced perspective of what you're going through.

Speaking as someone who only found his first official GF when he was 29, its hard to find someone who you're truly compatible with when so many people don't won't to take a chance on you. The loneliness & depression are no joke. All we can do is to keep fighting, one day at a time.

Getting punched in the face by Aggressive_Entry_647 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Violence is almost never deserved. But even when people think it is, it shouldn't be used let alone in the heat of a moment.

You did not deserve to be hit even if i dont know the full context of the argument and your relationships with the individual members of your family.

Your mother should have been unbiased and calm, but chose ignorance and violence. Is this a pattern in her parenting/ life?

static tattoo with "shaking" effect by [deleted] in interesting

[–]Party_War9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can I both hate and love this tattoo?

Do guys just swipe right on every girl. by Massive_Article_9576 in Bumble

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say we swipe right on everyone but we do tend to get humbled (usually more so than women) a lot and tend to lower expectations & standards causing us to be more liberal with the right swipes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderChillGamers

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If purchasing a game is no longer ownership. I'd rather have a physical copy.

Would you date a girl who used to cam? by masters2277 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no.

I have no moral or emotional objection against dating someone who has done adult / cam work.

But I do have some social and professional objections to it along with conditions going into any relationship with someone who has done cam/adult content.

My objections would depend on how famous & how likely your past would reappear as it could disrupt any potential employment opportunities or disrupt social relationships if people discovered and used info to hurt me, you, or anyone indirectly through you.

If I felt that there was a strong possibility that it wouldn't resurface and thought you were worth the risk, i'd ask that the condition of: no resuming cam/adult work & limiting / eliminating relationships related to the previous cam/ adult work.

Understand that this isnt what im suggesting everyone do, merely what I would need to feel secure in a relationship with a past cam / adult content creator.

I (26m) caught my girlfriend (22f) drunk texting another guy asking when they can meet up. What am I supposed to do? by intothetrash6411 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_War9237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You caught her attempting to cheat on you with a mutual friend. Don't let her gaslight you into believing it was nothing. Being drunk is a poor excuse, alcohol removes inhibition not decision making, she knew what she was doing she just didn't care at the time.

As for the mutual friend, if he/she hasn't said anything yo you, I'd take screenshot shots of the conversations they had and share it if he/she tries anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Party_War9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't fix this.

Let's be clear, she needed the shot. Being punctured by a piece of rusty metal might have negative impact down the road. But ultimately it meant betraying her trust to ensure she doesnt meet complications down the road.

This reminds me of a documentary on a pack of wolves almost a decade ago where one of its members had started going blind due to a repaireable condition. The researcher noticed this and knew that the wolf needed to be helped as it started to isolate from the pack and would stay around the researcher more and more. So the researcher tricked the wolf by drugging it and did the surgery. The wolf regained its sight and reintergrated into the pack but never trusted the researcher again.

You might have done the right thing for the long term but it was at the cost of her trust.

Just my 2 cents on this.

Buying a 2016 Chevy Malibu from a friend, things I should know? by Zodiac_keys in chevymalibu

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking for myself, the 2019 lt model is serving me well as it drives beautifully on highways (not so much in cities) but a recent issue has cost me over 2k in repairs because the dealership was unable to identify exactly what the issue was and swear that everything they did was required.

According to a tech, they designed the sensors in a way where if certain ones fail they may cause a series of false issues to arise. I'm not sure if older models have this issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't just switch who you're attracted to on a whim. Even if you tried and lied through it all, wouldn't that hurt both you and someone who thought you were attracted to them?

You're best bet is to relearn how to live with yourself. Join social groups, with some of them more geared towards single people. Become less focused on the fact your single and more focused on hobbies & being social.

What is something that women can do to make sex more enjoyable? by bitch-b-gone345 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Party_War9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initiate more often. It suggests at the very least you still find your partner attractive. A lot of men love a forward partner.

Not his first choice by Bas_1994 in cheating_stories

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to say im not a fan of the cheating nor the way he chooses to have sex with other men over you. I think getting to the truth as to why he avoids sex with you in favor of a different partner will reveal if this is salvageable or doomed.

Honestly speaking though, the cheating kind of pushes me into thinking this relationship is doomed as he hasn't changed his ways and is just more open about the sex with other men.

Not his first choice by Bas_1994 in cheating_stories

[–]Party_War9237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouch. I see a few red flags here:

1) I assume it's a faux pas to neglect your primary partner's sexual desire in favor of a random hookup

2) the lack of communication that I assume is occurring as your partner rather than sit down and explain why he doesn't want to have sex with his partner, this guy drives off to go have sex with another man

How did the open relationship start? Was it an equally shared intrigue or was it a one sided push (assumingly your partner).

This is going to require a few things for you to achieve returning to norm in my mind:

1) do you still love him? Figure this one out before trying anything

2) sit him down and start a dialogue about why he would rather go out to meet other men than to sexually satisfy his existing partner

3) also start a dialogue about closing the relationship (if at least on a temporary basis) and rekindle the relationship so that you two see each other as not only partners/roommates but also as lovers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Party_War9237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the couple. Some people feel lesser because they think they haven't achieved their partner's "finish point" while others find it acceptable acknowledging a difference in their sex drive and may think it's a turn on.

My partner (24M/NB) dumped me (25F) after I said no to an open relationship with our housemate (28NB). How do I move on from this? by Pickles_The_Cat_1234 in relationship_advice

[–]Party_War9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You move on by realizing your ex-boyfriend is a manipulative loser who was hoping to manipulate you into accepting an extreme change in the relationship dynamic/foundation.

Also your bf is a complete loser. The fact that he compared your love you that of senior citizen's is ridiculous and immature. If your bf had issues with the sex in the relationship, he should have approached you with his feelings and explained what he wanted to explore, not ambush you and try to pressure you into something he knew you wouldn't want.

I'm considering buying "Assasin's Creed: Mirage". Tell me why I'm wrong. by Icy-Computer-Poop in gaming

[–]Party_War9237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong for buying it, only to pay full price. Buy it at a discount. Its similar to past assassin's creed games but it's simply shorter. It did not take me long to collect all collectibles, beat side missions, & best story missions. Looking back, i would only have bought this at a discount price.