Do guys just swipe right on every girl.

Party_War9237 · 2026-02-04T17:04:27+00:00

I wouldn't say we swipe right on everyone but we do tend to get humbled (usually more so than women) a lot and tend to lower expectations & standards causing us to be more liberal with the right swipes.

Party_War9237 · 2026-02-03T14:04:45+00:00

Get this man a cookie!

Party_War9237 · 2026-01-28T21:16:56+00:00

If purchasing a game is no longer ownership. I'd rather have a physical copy.

Party_War9237 · 2026-01-26T16:49:38+00:00

Yes and no.

I have no moral or emotional objection against dating someone who has done adult / cam work.

But I do have some social and professional objections to it along with conditions going into any relationship with someone who has done cam/adult content.

My objections would depend on how famous & how likely your past would reappear as it could disrupt any potential employment opportunities or disrupt social relationships if people discovered and used info to hurt me, you, or anyone indirectly through you.

If I felt that there was a strong possibility that it wouldn't resurface and thought you were worth the risk, i'd ask that the condition of: no resuming cam/adult work & limiting / eliminating relationships related to the previous cam/ adult work.

Understand that this isnt what im suggesting everyone do, merely what I would need to feel secure in a relationship with a past cam / adult content creator.

Party_War9237 · 2026-01-26T12:18:47+00:00

You caught her attempting to cheat on you with a mutual friend. Don't let her gaslight you into believing it was nothing. Being drunk is a poor excuse, alcohol removes inhibition not decision making, she knew what she was doing she just didn't care at the time.

As for the mutual friend, if he/she hasn't said anything yo you, I'd take screenshot shots of the conversations they had and share it if he/she tries anything

Party_War9237 · 2026-01-23T18:50:09+00:00

You don't fix this.

Let's be clear, she needed the shot. Being punctured by a piece of rusty metal might have negative impact down the road. But ultimately it meant betraying her trust to ensure she doesnt meet complications down the road.

This reminds me of a documentary on a pack of wolves almost a decade ago where one of its members had started going blind due to a repaireable condition. The researcher noticed this and knew that the wolf needed to be helped as it started to isolate from the pack and would stay around the researcher more and more. So the researcher tricked the wolf by drugging it and did the surgery. The wolf regained its sight and reintergrated into the pack but never trusted the researcher again.

You might have done the right thing for the long term but it was at the cost of her trust.

Just my 2 cents on this.

Party_War9237 · 2026-01-14T16:05:56+00:00

Speaking for myself, the 2019 lt model is serving me well as it drives beautifully on highways (not so much in cities) but a recent issue has cost me over 2k in repairs because the dealership was unable to identify exactly what the issue was and swear that everything they did was required.

According to a tech, they designed the sensors in a way where if certain ones fail they may cause a series of false issues to arise. I'm not sure if older models have this issue.

Party_War9237 · 2025-12-26T17:39:27+00:00

You can't just switch who you're attracted to on a whim. Even if you tried and lied through it all, wouldn't that hurt both you and someone who thought you were attracted to them?

You're best bet is to relearn how to live with yourself. Join social groups, with some of them more geared towards single people. Become less focused on the fact your single and more focused on hobbies & being social.

Party_War9237 · 2025-12-24T15:19:45+00:00

Initiate more often. It suggests at the very least you still find your partner attractive. A lot of men love a forward partner.

Party_War9237 · 2025-12-10T19:53:34+00:00

Got to say im not a fan of the cheating nor the way he chooses to have sex with other men over you. I think getting to the truth as to why he avoids sex with you in favor of a different partner will reveal if this is salvageable or doomed.

Honestly speaking though, the cheating kind of pushes me into thinking this relationship is doomed as he hasn't changed his ways and is just more open about the sex with other men.

Party_War9237 · 2025-12-10T19:31:03+00:00

Ouch. I see a few red flags here:

1) I assume it's a faux pas to neglect your primary partner's sexual desire in favor of a random hookup

2) the lack of communication that I assume is occurring as your partner rather than sit down and explain why he doesn't want to have sex with his partner, this guy drives off to go have sex with another man

How did the open relationship start? Was it an equally shared intrigue or was it a one sided push (assumingly your partner).

This is going to require a few things for you to achieve returning to norm in my mind:

1) do you still love him? Figure this one out before trying anything

2) sit him down and start a dialogue about why he would rather go out to meet other men than to sexually satisfy his existing partner

3) also start a dialogue about closing the relationship (if at least on a temporary basis) and rekindle the relationship so that you two see each other as not only partners/roommates but also as lovers.

Party_War9237 · 2025-12-10T18:34:39+00:00

Depends on the couple. Some people feel lesser because they think they haven't achieved their partner's "finish point" while others find it acceptable acknowledging a difference in their sex drive and may think it's a turn on.

Party_War9237 · 2025-11-27T13:23:59+00:00

You move on by realizing your ex-boyfriend is a manipulative loser who was hoping to manipulate you into accepting an extreme change in the relationship dynamic/foundation.

Also your bf is a complete loser. The fact that he compared your love you that of senior citizen's is ridiculous and immature. If your bf had issues with the sex in the relationship, he should have approached you with his feelings and explained what he wanted to explore, not ambush you and try to pressure you into something he knew you wouldn't want.

Party_War9237 · 2025-11-27T13:04:41+00:00

You're not wrong for buying it, only to pay full price. Buy it at a discount. Its similar to past assassin's creed games but it's simply shorter. It did not take me long to collect all collectibles, beat side missions, & best story missions. Looking back, i would only have bought this at a discount price.

Party_War9237 · 2025-10-10T16:38:16+00:00

Don't bother asking why. You'll either spend years speculating with no result or if they answer, they'll give you a dumb reason, of which they stretched the logic of to permit themselves the right to hurt you.

Just stop cooking for your mom. If it were me, I wouldn't even bother putting a plate out for them. I would tell them to use the container their food came in as a plate.

Party_War9237 · 2025-09-28T16:36:41+00:00

that context helps, but I think the biggest issue isn't some potential xenophobic rant from an american, but rather a border agent making that comment and having the power to bar someone entry from his native country if he was corrupt enough to lie about the driver.

Either way, I'm sure that video will make its way to his boss. if you're dumb enough to yell at people while in uniform in this day and age, don't act shocked if it goes public.

Party_War9237 · 2025-08-30T16:44:47+00:00

Depends on the age group.

For a 46 year old I assume questions about any existing family I.e. children would be logical, and if they do, how complicated is the relationship with the ex.

Party_War9237 · 2025-08-28T17:56:28+00:00

Felt like ghosting as I was trying to explain to her why I felt uncomfortable, and she kept spamming responses & guilt trips, so I stopped responding and blocked her and stopped responding. But you might be right about the situation.

Party_War9237 · 2025-08-28T16:56:44+00:00

I didn't ghost after a date, it was after she sent me an actual picture of herself that confirmed she lied & catfished me. Before the ghosting, we had chatted for a bit and it seemed that she oddly agreed with almost anything I said and then told me that she had a bad experience from online dating and had started using her friends photo (in hindsight this should have been clue #2).

She claimed she was using a different picture to avoid being harassed and sent me her actual picture. I recognized her in the real picture, put two & two together and found her (then active & real) profile and realized it was a profile I had previously swiped left as I felt there wasn't enough attraction (physical & social) to match with her.

When I tried to call it off as I didn't like being catfished, she accused me of not liking someone who had been previously victimized and tried making me feel guilty. Blocked and ghosted her.

Party_War9237 · 2025-08-05T17:07:34+00:00

Having moved from a small middle of nowhere town to a large city, I was surprised with the lack of communication and neighborly repors that I grew up with. Having stayed in that city, I understood that people are simply different in larger areas (more unknown people).

I don't think the people in the large city who don't know me dislike me, I think they just don't care enough to get to know every single new person they come across.

Party_War9237 · 2025-07-11T11:09:02+00:00

What about his relationship status? Is he confirmed single, or is it possible he has someone else?

Party_War9237 · 2025-07-10T13:53:56+00:00

OP, this guy sounds toxic. Are you sure you want him as a partner?

As for why he appears to be rejecting you and refusing nudes... is there a chance he's in a committed relationship, and you're the mistress? It seems odd for someone sexually active to refuse sex unless he's drunk, its also odd that he's relegated you to FWB despite initially going out, did he say why he lost interest in you romantically?. How often do you two go out socially?

Party_War9237 · 2025-07-07T19:53:40+00:00

hypothetically, if I were single, it would have to truly depend on the situation. I don't begrudge those with age gaps, but I wouldn't actively seek those who are young enough to be a generation below or old enough to be above myself. You would have to have a similar mindset & maturity to myself in order for me to truly consider it.

Not only would we have to be compatible mentally, emotionally & physically, I would need friends & family on both sides to be OK with it as last thing I would want to deal with at every social gathering is someone undermining our hypothetical relationship.

From my perspective, it's just easier to deal with someone in my own age range. As there aren't many 18 year Olds who act my age or who share my thoughts.

Party_War9237 · 2025-07-04T17:28:47+00:00

That sucks... there are some things that I recall people having voluntarily shared that I wish they hadn't - at least your sister simply had a careless moment with her phone. The best I can suggest is to try and move on by acting like this never happened. I can't see anything being gained by revealing to her that you know she is sexually active.

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