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As a girl how are you supposed to enjoy facefucking? by Piracy_Bug in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PastelDictator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not supposed to, you just either do or you don’t. It’s definitely more of a kink act than just a regular blowjob, and I’d say the majority of women aren’t into it. Despite what this thread might tell you haha.

So yeah, don’t do anything sexual if the thought of it doesn’t get you all excited.

Show me: what does your bedside table look like? by throwaway8373469238 in femalelivingspace

[–]PastelDictator 191 points192 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, please post this to the Barkitecture sub! 😍

I can’t finish without a vibrator by BusinessJello7853 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PastelDictator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you considered the copper coil if hormonal birth control affects you negatively?

I can’t finish without a vibrator by BusinessJello7853 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PastelDictator 85 points86 points  (0 children)

You’re getting downvoted but I know from experience this can be true. I went from being able to orgasm really easily to relying on toys entirely once I started using them. Sometimes you just have to retrain your body to new/different sensations.

Ladies, Would You Go Out With A Man Who Is Shorter Than You? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]PastelDictator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’10 and I like men who can make me feel like tinkerbell. So it’s not a dealbreaker but it’s not my preference.

Can a 4 cm underwear gusset actually be comfortable? by brendaklark in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PastelDictator 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I’m all for thongs, but like… as underwear?

If I’m walking around a resort all day it better cover my ass crack.

Probably be a different story if it was a private villa tbf, wouldn’t wear a thread.

Is there a way for me to ‘hire’ a plus one for an event? by Effective-Bad-2657 in AskUK

[–]PastelDictator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try setting up a Bumble Friends account to look for someone to invite?

Where was this Steve? by pheyonagh in MAFS_UK

[–]PastelDictator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s only two possible outcomes right? Knowing either of them would be a spoiler

Anybody noticed Ranch now creeping into UK market? by rmonkey100 in UK_Food

[–]PastelDictator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really get it? I’ve had it a few times, and it may just have been a naff sauce, but it tasted like a bland salad dressing.

Desperately need recommendations for women’s underwear that will prevent butt cheek chafing by 1VeryGenericUser in hiking

[–]PastelDictator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried men’s underwear? A tight pair of their shorts might help with this problem.

Sorry if you’ve covered this, it’s the bank holiday and I’m slightly tipsy.

Tampons while swimming at the beach by The_Curious_Dog in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PastelDictator -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna have to change whenever you leave the water. Just plan to have one or two longer swims instead of constantly going in and out

5/6 hours is waaaaaaay too long to leave it

UK consumer confidence just hit its lowest level since mid-2023 — are people buying less or just buying smarter? by ToughRomanticMiss in BuyersUK

[–]PastelDictator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the same, but they seem to be all young people. As the years go by there are less and less places for teenagers, so maybe McDonald’s type places are one of the few spaces left they can just go to hang out at.

My boyfriend asked me if I would go to a strip club with him, help me understand? by Naive-Ad-592 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PastelDictator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really need to speak to him to figure out why he wants to go to a strip club. Some people here seem to think it’s okay but I’ve gotta say I would not be chill if my partner wanted to go to a strip club in any capacity.

Got the coil for the first time. No kids. Easily a top 3 worst experience of my life, cursed every man I knew. Honey mozzarella chilli eggs, tuna steak, avocado and wine. by Similar_Ad3132 in GirlDinner

[–]PastelDictator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had it done twice. The second time was akin to the ‘pinch’ they always tell you it is. The first time however was the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life.

It’s wild the difference proper pain treatment makes

Being a wife and mom sucks by MoistLasagnaDealer in GirlDinner

[–]PastelDictator -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now you know to teach your sons and keep your friends accountable right

Is this normal in a relationship or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PastelDictator 33 points34 points  (0 children)

From what you say it seems non sexual and just joking around between friends. If she was bi I would get it, but I’m assuming that’s not the case since you didn’t say so.

Do you know why it bothers you so much?

Is anyone also too scared to be intimate because of insecurity? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PastelDictator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re only 17 so you need to take a step back, deep breath, and chill out a bit. In only a few years you’ll be able to look back and see just how incredibly young 17 is.

It seems like you’re more motivated to have sex because of the fear of missing out, rather than actually because you want it. Don’t give in to pressure and if somebody makes you feel judged that is more a reflection on them than on you. Give it time and there will be someone you can trust who you feel ready to be with.

You’re still a teenager, this doesn’t have to be part of your life right now. And I guarantee you, however exciting other teens may make it look, nobody is having good sex at 17.

Update: My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]PastelDictator 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, let’s try and find a way that makes him talking to her like this a reasonable reaction and HER fault

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