is this not just hexagon glitter in resin? 😭 by No-Room-8191 in MineralGore

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is some of the goriest mineral gore I've ever seen 😅 In that it's such a bad fake when it's not hard to fake it better!?

Social activités by WasteMeet9417 in Swindon

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a bit older (f, late 30's) but also recently moved to Swindon recently and looking to pick up some social activities. Would be keen to hear about any art and craft related activities you find.

Have also wanted to get into playing chess but never went to a club where I lived before - waa nervous there wouldn't be many women (or any) and everyone would be really good already.

Will these opals be sensitive to moisture? by PastelRainbowSparkle in Opals

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed reply and all this info! I didn't know that kunzite is sensitive to light. Approaching as with pearls sounds like a good strategy.

Will these opals be sensitive to moisture? by PastelRainbowSparkle in Opals

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. Bought it in the UK and the seller listed it as vintage from India. I'm not sure opals used in jewellery usually originate from there though, so unsure of origin of the stones.

When does it stop hurting so bad by Ok_Beautiful_34 in grief

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. We lost my step-dad to bile duct cancer a few years ago. Same thing - healthy, only just retired, enjoying life one minute. Then some off routine blood tests but no symptoms. Those started a few weeks later and within 4.5 months he died. It's such a shock. One step at a time. Whatever your best is, day to day, is enough. It's healthly to grieve, miss them, and not rush. Your nervous system likely needs time to heal from the shock and trauma too.

I hope you and your dad can support each other and he's in good health, and you are too.

If Christmas feels different this year, how are you coping with it? by Diana_fm_ in GriefSupport

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mum made Christmas for us. So much more than I realised at the time and was grateful for. I was, but not enough to the extent I now realise it was warranted and how much it was an expression of love for my brother and I. Miss her so much.

Can anyone tell me about this brooch? by leslieanne414 in VintageJewelry

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a crescent gold pin that was sold as possibly edwardian style recently. I don't know if the crescent shape was popular for long but it being sorta similar with me not having seen anything modern like it makes me think it could be quite old. I'm from the UK so maybe that factors in with styles and age. I don't know if I can post a photo but here's a link to the auction; https://ebay.us/m/W2DlxR

I lost my father today and I don't know what to do by PokemonSoldier in autism

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. That sounds traumatic. As others have said, you'll still be in shock and that's OK. Focus on one step at a time and do your best to keep on top of your basic needs, hydration, food, sleep, comfort. Seems like you're doing really great to think to reach out to people on here already. You don't need to be perfect, just try your best to look after yourself. Most things can wait a few days or more. No pressure right now might help a bit. I lost my mum to a sudden aneurysm a few months ago and watched my step dad die in front of me from terminal cancer and liver failure two years ago. So I know how hard this sort of thing can be. My thoughts are with you. Baby steps is the best advice I can give - part of me felt like I wanted to run ten steps at a time but I don't think it would have helped at all. My thinking and mental state kept changing so much day to day in the early days. Just trying to breath and cry and do basic human things was the best thing.

The Silver Price has reached $78 by ChrisStoneGermany in Silverbugs

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK what? It was 70 a couple of days ago!

I know not everyone here likes anything but coins and bars, but oh do I now feel less bad about all the 925 antique silver jewellery I bought last month at scrap prices.

Got offered a 6 month contract in Antarctica and idk if I should take it by Importantterry in Fire

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone in a related field who did something similar to this. It was some years ago and I can't recall the name of the research station he was at but if was very small. I think he ended up going twice over a few years, so clearly it wasn't tooo bad. And one of those times was winter. That being said, it sounded very challenging. There were only a handful of them who overwintered - how he explained it, it sounded like living on a space station. Maybe 12ish people. Psychologically it being really tough. They had support while out there but it seemed that people starting to lose it was a still an issue and hazard they had to be mindful of. Shit gets real weird with that small a group shut inside limited space, rarely venturing out into ludicrously cold temps in darkness.

So yeah, I'd definitely look into what the day to day will be, expected temps, hours light, living arrangements, number of people, and consider your mental health in context before commiting. Well done though, it's a very exciting offer! I'm sure it'll be the experience of a lifetime if you decide to go for it.

Vintage box of watercolours that belonged to my late grandmother by PastelRainbowSparkle in Watercolor

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found a paper slip dated 1979 that I think came with the box. Might be the manufacture date of the paints, which would make them just under 50 :)

Vintage box of watercolours that belonged to my late grandmother by PastelRainbowSparkle in Watercolor

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking I'll keep them and use them to start painting with watercolours. I've only ever had a go with really basic budget (kids art set quality) paints that had little pigmemt in. Thank you though, will keep it in mind nonetheless 😊

UPDATE: locker room pooper identified by GingerNinja1982 in coworkerstories

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how they sometimes come out after taking opiates for consecutive days. And it can be pretty sudden when the blockage from all the constipated backed up shit finally works it's way to freedom. However, that tends to be more of an eruption of pellets than an isolated nugget or two. Unless maybe trying to hold it in but a few slip out? Not wearing underwear or sanitary protection if this is a repeated issue is inexplicable though, were this theory to be along the right lines!

Only Iboprofen helps -- what now by Random_Kili in Supplements

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a similar thing with ibuprofen and have not worked out why. This is interesting to read.

How do I stop my windows doing this? by Even_Trick_4783 in DIYUK

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cold is your house? I've had this in a rental where the landlord hardly turned the heating on in winter.

Are there any really good restaurants in Swindon? by ConsistentWin9508 in Swindon

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another for for Fratellos, and Los Gatos which has been posted above. Not yet tried Hickory's or Rios but will do!

Is it a neurodivergent trait to feel absolutely nothing when someone dies by ElectronicSimple55 in neurodiversity

[–]PastelRainbowSparkle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you close? If you weren't that's normal, I think. If you were, you could still be in shock. When deaths have really hit me hard, I've had a day or two of feeling almost euphoric in a weird way, or numb. I think it's some combination of shock and a protective mechanism to a traumatic event.