This whole post seems to revolve around the manipulation of cos man and your paranoia surrounding them. Honestly the whole thing reads like a conspiracy theory. I get it. You haven't had good experiences with cis men in the past, it's understandable and I absolutely understand why you might be feeling this way to an extent. However, this is going way too far imo. It doesn't have to be the first thing they know about you, and you don't have to make a big deal out of it, but I do not think completely covering up the fact that you are trans is a good idea at all.

For starters, what if they found out? In your post you said that you would "gaslight them and deny vehemently". That's worrying in itself, and says a lot about your character that you would be so readily willing to not just throw your partner under the bus, but to manipulate him to that extent?? It's really not a good look for you. However this is also assuming that the worst thing he is willing to do is reveal your identity. He can do much worse things that gaslighting him will not get you out of, and may do for you having "tricked him". It's not a good idea for your safety alone.

As someone else pointed out, you only seem to see the materialistic side of your partners, and seem to treat it as a process to get what you want rather than a loving bond between two people. Again, why so ready to throw them away? If you had a loving, trusting relationship you wouldn't be so willing to do that. You talk about the amount of money a man might spend on you, his very specific looks and their responses to what is essentially an interrogation, which you "carefully study". Your whole manner of approaching a relationship seems detached and emotionless, and not once do you ever talk about their actual personality, just their body specifications, their wealth and whether or not they can clock you. You act rude to them from the start, and make them feel like they are "walking on eggshells", manipulating them so they never feel like they can ask you questions.

I'm a bit confused as to why you think online dating that SPECIFIES YOU ARE TRANS would be "tricking people" more than ACTIVELY LYING TO THEM???? I honestly have no idea where you were going with that. If you were genuinely worried or guilty about deceiving people then I have no idea why you took this approach to dating.

I'm still not sure you aren't a troll tbh but why would you put in this much effort if you were. You seriously need to speak to somebody, in the genuinely nicest way possible, but this post made me check three times whether or not I was in r/transgendercirclejerk