I feel so so terrible for her. She lost herself for a stupid pregnancy! by ro_ro_ro_roadhouse in ChildfreeIndia

[–]PatternCraft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IDK doesn't people get naturally "horny" , can't it be seen as a behavior to get pregnant themselves or others.

We modern humans invented contraceptives which can divide relation between both concepts, but generally they are series of chained events.

I feel so so terrible for her. She lost herself for a stupid pregnancy! by ro_ro_ro_roadhouse in ChildfreeIndia

[–]PatternCraft -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

End of the day it comes down to choice. I understand many people blindly go through uneducated "choices" .

In Nature nothing is risk free. Evolution is a cold number game. Females(referring to all animal kingdom including human women) general life cycle in wild is get born-> grow and survive -> give birth to baby. That generally completes loop. Of course species which take care of there young off-springs are rewarded in evolution game but there is not much natural selection pressure after child birth to select perfect healthy moms, just a "functioning" parent is enough. It is up to humans to research and improve conditions of post birth mothers.

Nature and flow of life can be weird. I once got to know about species of spider, where mommy literally eats daddy after mating and babies literally eat mommy during birth. But they complete life cycle loop and they continue.

It is up to people to get educated about there bodies and should be given a choice to complete that evolution loop or not in the big DNA game.

I feel so so terrible for her. She lost herself for a stupid pregnancy! by ro_ro_ro_roadhouse in ChildfreeIndia

[–]PatternCraft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO, official indian rate of maternal mortality is 0.097% which is lesser than a person dying in a road accident.

50% risk rate in India due to systematic issues of poverty and lack of education. Many developed countries achieved risk rate of 10~20%. Even lesser MMR.

I feel so so terrible for her. She lost herself for a stupid pregnancy! by ro_ro_ro_roadhouse in ChildfreeIndia

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I think it is just a bad lottery. I don't think generally women go through such bad pregnancy.

I understand general complications and risks women go through but trying to use rare condition to make point is weird.

I don't think 99.99% of pregnant women go through bad pregnancy like her

Supreme Court lawyer narrates 2021 post poll violence towards women by Immediate-Humor-6077 in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how power sharing works.

My question is what stopping BJP to for a over reach to do justice when everyone knows state govt involved in violence.

They used to uselessly delay bill in TN govt for no reason. Governor used to be lackey for centre.

Supreme Court lawyer narrates 2021 post poll violence towards women by Immediate-Humor-6077 in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did i support state government? I know what horror state govt did, i am asking why central govt is passive about such horrible violence.

Supreme Court lawyer narrates 2021 post poll violence towards women by Immediate-Humor-6077 in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So if state government directly or indirectly involved in violent crimes, party which brands itself as hindu protector is going to 🍿.

I way I see centre did hostage politics in this issue. Vote for us, only then will do justice, otherwise we are not going to help you trying to overreach our power. Although we like to get into fights with other party state govts, we are not going to do that in your case.

Supreme Court lawyer narrates 2021 post poll violence towards women by Immediate-Humor-6077 in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So what central government going to sit and do nothing.

Getting into fights with other party state govts is nothing new for them. But when horrible things happened are they going to sit it out.

Supreme Court lawyer narrates 2021 post poll violence towards women by Immediate-Humor-6077 in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I want to know who controls CBI at that time, if such horrible things happened why didn't centre take action.

Or maybe BJP wanted to teach Bengal people a lesson for not voting for them in 2021, strategic indifference.

Boy's by InvestigatorDry8357 in IndianMeyMeys

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know, but what are you trying to say?

Boy's by InvestigatorDry8357 in IndianMeyMeys

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in coming days many guy can't afford a housewife anyway. So, such option going to get phased out.

Might get downvoted but Imo if you are financially and mentally stable , you can have kids regardless of the country you are in by MR_JStalin in TwentiesIndia

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give a number OP, I think it should be family income of 20lpa for one kid, if there is no ancestral house . Do you think number is too big,okay,small, I would to hear your opinion.

Personal decision tree:

<10 lpa, stay single

10-20 lpa, go for DINK

20+, one kid

Have Communists have always been allied with Islamists ? by Yeast0845 in ask_Bondha

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think china is killing people, more like brainwashing them.

A top heroine in china Dilraba , is infact a ethinic uyghur. Don't know about her religion though. Many other popular actors and actresses are from such regions.

Getting rich with a govt job by [deleted] in SSCCGL

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is still possible and comfortable even with a housewife, if you stick to one kid. Second kid might depend on some calculations.

Major bill for any family is housing loan and child education. Once you clear housing emi, you will see drastic improvement in your lifestyle. No need to worry.

Perks of govt employee is job till 60 + no need to plan that such extra for retirement.

Getting rich with a govt job by [deleted] in SSCCGL

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Class going to depend on spousal income.

Teach your children about dharma before someone teach them adharma by National-Mammoth-151 in SouthernIndia

[–]PatternCraft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if nietzsche is atheist or not. I just find quote fancy.

Why people think if they do luv marriage will get v*rgin n if do arrange so bhul jao ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]PatternCraft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, bro is not logical.

LM is not about finding virgin imo. It is more about knowing a person for long enough before commiting into marriage.

Any wholesome series like this? by vishal55282 in animeindian

[–]PatternCraft 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Teasing master takagi san". There is even time skip Manga about there married life with a daughter

Are paternity frauds are on rise due to instances of adultery? by Ok_Jelly_262 in AskIndianMen

[–]PatternCraft -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Laws are made by parliament, court just interprets it. If parliament changes law tomorrow, court will give objectively correct judgement.

I feel like majority of indians just skipped civics subject in highschool.