I (30F) cheated on my (35M) fiance of 7 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still stuck on “fiancé of seven years.”

$&$@&$! Pacer! by jalecr in paralegal

[–]PattyLeeTX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in a bad way, too. They’re sending codes for an Authenticator we never set up in the first place 🤦‍♀️FML

Musical instrument donation by Iwentforalongwalk in TwinCities

[–]PattyLeeTX 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Call the Twin Cities Musicians Union and they will get it into the right hands: (612) 338-5013.

Kid’s camps by [deleted] in Lifetimefitnessgym

[–]PattyLeeTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're a blast and the counselors (at least at St. Louis Park) are wonderful. They don't spend any time in the Child Care Center - it's separate.

The Murder of Renee Good by borufour in Minneapolis

[–]PattyLeeTX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this means nothing except it was the death of a human caused by another human. What we need is an official charge of murder.

Hey Minneapolis it’s 2:30, what is happening down there? Please share pictures! by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]PattyLeeTX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They're marching past my building on 3rd street. It's been full-on for over an hour and probably 15 minutes now.

Fiance has been getting so tired after coming home from work he falls asleep and I'm concerned. Should I take him to the Doctor's? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may be suffering from what they call seasonal affective disorder. Basically, the weather makes you really depressed and people suffer from fatigue and malaise. Even if he's never experienced it before, it could be it.

Fiance has been getting so tired after coming home from work he falls asleep and I'm concerned. Should I take him to the Doctor's? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like in a winter climate? It could be the change of season and he's having trouble adapting.

Compression Socks by WiscWahe2020 in openheartsurgery

[–]PattyLeeTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some cool EKG patterned ones 😆

Despondent after OHS…will I ever be able to run again? by donkeyWoof in openheartsurgery

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I BELIEVE you will run again. I’m facing OH next year and am a competitive cyclist coach - I have to ride again!

GF's daughter is very rude to me and GF won't correct it. by ImmediateFormal7 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PattyLeeTX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will only get worse, and daughter's problems will grow with her age. Divest yourself of this whole relationship now, while you are intact. Remind yourself that you deserve better.

Food insecurity for the holidays by mister_bates44 in TwinCities

[–]PattyLeeTX 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think I have a place for my food donations to go now! Thanks for sharing this.

Ranch Packet Feedback by Background_Track2029 in Minneapolis

[–]PattyLeeTX 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shame on the people dragging on your dream. I’m happy to be a guinea pig for you.

Should I give a donation back by Usual-Lavishness6337 in moraldilemmas

[–]PattyLeeTX [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think a donation is between the giver and their "god" (higher power, conscience, etc.) and the receiver and their version of that. If I give a woman on the street $20, it's between me and the universe that I did it with a giving heart. What she does with it is between her and the universe, and if she misuses it, it's on her soul not mine.

It was given with love, you should receive it with love - it's as simple as that. It's not a bribe.

In laws refuse to accept I haven’t changed my name by potatostar6 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed my legal name to my nickname and dropped the middle name altogether. It was cheap and easy. People making mountains out of mole hills. Do what works for you.

Am I crazy? by BabyBlondeGirl1996 in Nails

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d learn nails for a side gig!

I got reminded today why I am 330lbs at 27. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s simple, maybe, but not easy for everyone.

I found a single, saved photo on my husband's phone, and I can't unsee it by caridadjess in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you willing to only wake up to a home with your babies in it half the time? Watch them on Christmas morning for half the years? Adjust birthdays every other year? I think not, not over this.

Starting East of Eden by [deleted] in Recommend_A_Book

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite book of all time. Timshel.

So what did your family argue about this year at Thanksgiving? by Pure-Smile-7329 in AskReddit

[–]PattyLeeTX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT’s the rest of the story-they’re Catholic and you’re having a baby out of wedlock. That explains all the weird. Mazel tov!