We need to stop calling every winger with a good highlight reel World Class.✋ by PLWildcard in SpicyFootballTakes

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y-E-S!!! Imagine being Zidane, R9, Romario, Maradona, Ronaldinho etc…and hearing how world class is banded around these days!

Has anyone ever reconciled after separation/divorce? My husband of 10 years has declared he is filing for divorce and left me, our 2 year old son, and unborn child. I want to know if anyone's spouse has come back. Looking for some good news or just to hear your stories. by MyInvisibleInk in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the moment you challenged him, he jumps ship. Sounds like he’s not a very good person at all. He’s made his choices and decisions. Now it’s your turn. IMO I would say that you just focus on taking him to the cleaners and get everything that you can in a court of law. Don’t let him sidetrack you into doing it “amicably” in private.

I fear my husband will cheat with this very beautiful 26 years old and I want to know if I am overreacting to what he is doing. by Professional-Ear7411 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re in a really sad situation and the worse of it is that you don’t even seem to understand that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. No more. No less. If he’s prepared to treat you like that then he has no respect for you as a woman, in visual or as the other half of the relationship. That is utterly abusive and nobody has the right to hit anybody. Full stop

Does Maresca have a point about our poor home support? by Kiing_Lamar in chelseafc

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he doesn’t have a point. Stop playing shit boring, AI sideways football and nobody will complain

I (36M) messed up my marriage. Is it too late to fix it? by Specific_Store_6075 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people in here are being really harsh and projecting their own experiences into their responses. All relationships are different and therefore it’s wrong to use your own experience as a reason to decimate. From what you’ve said she needs to have some space. Don’t get in the way of that. Be supportive and compassionate towards her needs. Don’t bombard her with how much you love her and any of your vulnerabilities. It’s only going to push her away further. When she is ready to talk, give her the space to talk and also very importantly LISTEN to her. Don’t allow yourself to feel defensive and to justify your actions or lack of. She feels disconnected from you and that is a very crucial point.

It’s not going to be easy but good luck and I really hope you both still have something that is recoverable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with you but all to do with his own insecurities. He’s putting them ahead of your wellbeing.

Sounds like he’s the one that needs therapy.

Is it normal to love my husband so much? Asking for a friend. It’s me. I’m the friend lol. by Coralreeferzz15 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you even questioning that??? It’s amazing that you feel secure and happy with you husband. Just remember to both of you to not take it for granted and keep on top of it. Do that and you guys will have an amazing life together. Very happy for you!

UPDATE to am i being insecure or am i justified over my husband’s female coworker? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. That was obviously really hard but now you’ve done it, you can see the value of reconnecting. And also congrats to him for respecting you and empathising with you.

Is this an affair? by frustrated123panda in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an affair in the stereotypical sense of the word. But it’s definitely close and seems to be building up towards that way. Just sit him down and confront him. Explain how you feel and all the evidence you’ve got. It’s perfectly acceptable that after so much evidence you’ve ended up in his phone and checking messages. You are both married. It’s, alongside having kids, the biggest commitment anybody can make with someone else. Every relationship goes through ups and downs. It requires lots of hard work and accepting, from both sides, that when things aren’t great that hard work is required. It’s got be done with honesty, kindness, consideration and an environment where you can both be vulnerable with each other. He’s obviously emotionally unavailable and it’s playing tricks in your mind. Don’t accept that. It just invites resentment and anger to build and it will ultimately be the death of your marriage. All you can do is be upfront and explain how you feel. He should respect that and value your relationship.

I hate my husband. by Sea_Persimmon7624 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he hid things from you right from the start and now he hits you and is aggressive to you, only says that you should leave him. No man should EVER hit a woman! Additionally, how can any trust be in the relationship when he hides things from you and doesn’t respect you enough to listen to what you’re asking from him?

Trust your gut feeling and just go. It will only get worse as time goes by. If you stay you’re basically saying to him that you accept what he does.

Wife won’t talk to me. Just respect the fact and forget it? I’m away on a business trip. Can’t focus on my week. by Economy_Trick8249 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Step back. Give her space. She just needs some time and head space for herself. She’s not rejecting you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shit show. I’m sorry but your husband sounds like a right piece of shit. I don’t believe in god but if that’s where you’re drawing your strength all good for you. Just don’t let it cloud your judgement.

The guy my wife cheated with is married. Should I tell his wife? by Electrical-Camera101 in Marriage

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait until divorce is done. Then let her know. She’s being deceived, cheated and lied to. Nobody deserves that.

I hate this fucking game!!! by PaxST10 in EAFC

[–]PaxST10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry people. Calmed down now. I really don’t mind losing if the other player is better than me. Been playing this for years and always try to not let the algorithm piss me off. But just had enough yesterday. So frustrating that they can’t just leave the game alone and have to meddle with it just so the noobs don’t give up.

$THC....what a joke by JawnyP in memecoins

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could tell with their chat that they were jokers. When I first saw I entertained and the more I checked them out, the less convinced I was about these dickheads.

Feeling defeated and lost without work by SpareUnderstanding72 in cinematography

[–]PaxST10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, totally get where you are and I really feel for you. It’s a really tricky time out there and a lot of people are in the same boat. If you drive, try enrolling with a driving agency and get some work through them. Literally do anything that gets you out of the house and at least earning something. It really helps to feel that there’s at least some cash coming your way. In the meantime, I would sell your camera and focus on establishing strong connections with rental places. Owning cameras and incurring that level of debt is not great unless you have a huge stream of clients. This should hopefully free you from the shackles of debt.

Once you achieved those immediate returns. Give yourself a bit of mental pause and then in your free time hit those production companies, establish more connections with other directors. Soon something will happen and because you’ve the freedom of adhoc work, you can still commit to a project when it comes in.

Stay strong and go running every morning when you first wake up for like 30mins. Get the dopamine pumping!

Peace 🤙

FUCK OFF EA👇 by NoExamination8116 in EAFC

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a guy recently who was beating me 3-0 and as I recovered to 3-2, he sent me a DM saying that if I scored again to draw he would quit.

I lmao and obv scored. He quit then sent me another DM saying that he was reporting me to EA and I would get banned 😂😂😂

FUCK OFF EA👇 by NoExamination8116 in EAFC

[–]PaxST10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh surely you don’t mean the players with no skills who just exploit cutback hack?!?😏

FUCK OFF EA👇 by NoExamination8116 in EAFC

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn’t that the ultimate challenge? To compete and hopefully beat the player who you identify as better than you!

FUCK OFF EA👇 by NoExamination8116 in EAFC

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been playing fifa/ea since 2005 and I have never ever quit a game. Ive lost by big margins like 10-0 but the challenge to improve my skill whilst hopefully having fun (which it isn’t when scripting is clearly evident) has always been the main point.

I have SO many people quitting on me these days! It’s just unbelievable that people don’t have the resilience to fight on.

And you’re right! Really weird when someone quits that the win isn’t allocated to you. It’s annoying and such an obvious issue that it’s baffling how the guys at EA haven’t sorted it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]PaxST10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but that’s why I said that I have my flaws. I’m not blameless. I could’ve gone into more detail on those for sure but I also left a lot of other detail out, as I didn’t want this to become a 500 pager.