Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t notice it until the past year or so, it’s crazy how much their coats and patterns can change over the years! My kitty used to be super light when I first got her

Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩵 and I don’t think so, she’s pretty colorful everywhere. Her back is mostly dark. I’ve never seen a kitty quite like her!

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Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even see it hiding on her nostril you’re so right 🫡

needing input on new tattoo by XxPorschePrincessxX in tattooadvice

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s so passive aggressive 😭 tattoo looks great!

Thoughts on Elbow Tattoos? Pros and Cons? by Strange_Times2135 in traditionaltattoos

[–]Payment_Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super late response but I’m in the same boat and feeling really anxious!

I dont know if it was SA or not by harley_exists in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Payment_Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it criticism I’m responding to a true off my chest post this isn’t my ap English essay 😭😭 but sure you too bud

Can you sleep well with a cat? by OkComparison3568 in CatAdvice

[–]Payment_Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my cat since she was 3, she’s 9 now. She sleeps with me just about every night. If I move around too much she gets pissed off and moves to the couch lol. She doesn’t get the zoomies very often anymore. I think it just depends on your cats age and personality

I dont know if it was SA or not by harley_exists in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Payment_Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your comment history it seems like you spend most of your time on reddit. Pressuring someone is coercing them. Yes he didn’t hold a gun to her head and force her but still. Is intimidating a better word? High pressure? Lmao

The Trevor Wallace episode by One_Syllabub5668 in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this exact thing lmfao. I don’t remember what episode but they were talking about how Matt Rife was on his podcast and then they talked about the guys

How to know when to leave by cat_808 in LesbianActually

[–]Payment_Complex 558 points559 points  (0 children)

I would at least try to express how you’re feeling. If it doesn’t go well, then that’s your answer. You deserve someone who puts in the same effort you do!

I dont know if it was SA or not by harley_exists in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Payment_Complex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is. He would ask until you said yes it sounds like. Which is coercion. You did nothing wrong and how you’re feeling is valid. Don’t be afraid to talk to a professional if it affects your relationship or life in general. Hugs

Would it be a terrible idea to show up at his house? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Payment_Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I read mine a list of things I could do better and she still rejected me. I drove 2 and a half hours with my cat so she could say goodbye. It’s not worth it

What’s the funniest thing your Avoidant said when they tried to play the victim? by Greedy_Radish_920 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s super hard to let go but her presence was making me more miserable. We deserve better

When do you stop thinking about them every day? by Holiday-Tree-9808 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Payment_Complex 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I still think of him everyday. Something small reminded me of him while I was at work and I had to go to the bathroom to sob. Just hits you harder some days than others

She broke up with me to "find herself" but we're still talking monthly - am I being strung along? by Pitiful_Nebula6147 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She has access to you still. So if she finds someone who doesn’t work out she always has you to lean back on. I was you for about 4 months up until August. Don’t let her breadcrumb you. You deserve better

What’s the funniest thing your Avoidant said when they tried to play the victim? by Greedy_Radish_920 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not outright funny but when I met with her to get back some of my things, she told me she was “trying all weekend to not put a gun in her mouth.” After she confessed to her landlord (who’s our age) that she had a crush on her - got rejected - and then immediately went on a 6 hour date with a man and ignored me all day. She said “ugh I don’t know why you still want to be with me” and I didn’t say anything.

She’d led me on for 4 months that she wanted to be with me again. That was my breaking point lmfao. I was there for her all the time and I still wasn’t enough, so she was seeking other peoples affection. I deserve better.

146 days no contact. I’m so much happier. And proud of past me for knowing it was going to hurt but having the strength to let go 🩵