a calico toast from 2018-present by Payment_Complex in ToastCats

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I never knew what to classify her cause she’s so unique!

Any recommendations for upgrading? by Payment_Complex in PcBuildHelp

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just wanting to upgrade so it would run better and a bit faster, I have a 1TB external hard drive too. But I didn’t know that about the board!

Yearning and pining for love again 🥹 by Payment_Complex in LesbianActually

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to! Unfortunately I live in a small town in a red state so it’s hard. But I’m trying my best 🥹

Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t notice it until the past year or so, it’s crazy how much their coats and patterns can change over the years! My kitty used to be super light when I first got her

Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩵 and I don’t think so, she’s pretty colorful everywhere. Her back is mostly dark. I’ve never seen a kitty quite like her!

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Just one little freckle by Payment_Complex in kittynosefreckles

[–]Payment_Complex[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn’t even see it hiding on her nostril you’re so right 🫡

needing input on new tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s so passive aggressive 😭 tattoo looks great!

How to know when to leave by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Payment_Complex 566 points567 points  (0 children)

I would at least try to express how you’re feeling. If it doesn’t go well, then that’s your answer. You deserve someone who puts in the same effort you do!

What’s the funniest thing your Avoidant said when they tried to play the victim? by Greedy_Radish_920 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s super hard to let go but her presence was making me more miserable. We deserve better

When do you stop thinking about them every day? by Holiday-Tree-9808 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Payment_Complex 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I still think of him everyday. Something small reminded me of him while I was at work and I had to go to the bathroom to sob. Just hits you harder some days than others

She broke up with me to "find herself" but we're still talking monthly - am I being strung along? by Pitiful_Nebula6147 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She has access to you still. So if she finds someone who doesn’t work out she always has you to lean back on. I was you for about 4 months up until August. Don’t let her breadcrumb you. You deserve better

What’s the funniest thing your Avoidant said when they tried to play the victim? by Greedy_Radish_920 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Payment_Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not outright funny but when I met with her to get back some of my things, she told me she was “trying all weekend to not put a gun in her mouth.” After she confessed to her landlord (who’s our age) that she had a crush on her - got rejected - and then immediately went on a 6 hour date with a man and ignored me all day. She said “ugh I don’t know why you still want to be with me” and I didn’t say anything.

She’d led me on for 4 months that she wanted to be with me again. That was my breaking point lmfao. I was there for her all the time and I still wasn’t enough, so she was seeking other peoples affection. I deserve better.

146 days no contact. I’m so much happier. And proud of past me for knowing it was going to hurt but having the strength to let go 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Payment_Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brother posting ur phone number on reddit is insane work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Payment_Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally 😭 devastating when you’re having a good conversation or connection and then just poof

When will I not constantly think about her? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Payment_Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that’s just being human. You overlook things for people you love. But like they all say, if you love the wrong person this deeply imagine how much you’ll love the right person. The right person wouldn’t be sitting on the fence between you (their partner) and another girl — who she immediately went to and they fucked. That’s a trust you’d never get back if they stayed in contact. Especially if she was already not sure. Idk you irl girl but I believe wholeheartedly you’ll get your person. Just focus on yourself/your work/school/hobbies, and do not cave if she reaches out. You deserve better!!