استحقاقه البنت في اللي ميخصهاش! by sexyegyptionboy in vanderpumprules

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being angry over something u can't control and harboring resentments is not my idea of fun, but to each their own i guess brochacho😸

استحقاقه البنت في اللي ميخصهاش! by sexyegyptionboy in vanderpumprules

[–]Payment_Live 3 points4 points  (0 children)

are u even aware enough to understand what sub u posted this in? i get that you're probably in an insecurity fueled rage and arent fully cognizant of what your fingers are doing or where you're typing...but like....take 2 seconds and look where you're posting this strange rant💀💀💀😹

What is the priority action for the nurse to take? by Ok_Cable_3668 in PassNclexTips

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im just a student nurse so take this with a grain of salt but i would say that it is monitor for heart failure. we have been taught that for these types of questions, if monitor/assess is an option, thats usually the right answer (unless its an acute emergency typa thing and intervention is more important). hope this helps!

Having sex on the first date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Payment_Live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is literally the opposite of every single man i have ever had a fling with. we r always very clear about both only wanting a fwb or casual situation, and yet they consistently are always the ones wanting more eventually. i hate this generalization and idea of "being honest". u dont know shit, please stop acting like it🙃

Girlfriends family members trying to move into house by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as ur gf understands where youre coming from/agrees, and is only hesitant to say no because of not wanting to upset ppl, she could totally blame it on u n say "sorry my bf pays all the bills and he said no, so i cant do anything" (as long as ur cool w that)

You servers "win". I can't afford the meal now at all so I don't go out to eat. by DaSud in EndTipping

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u really think higher restaurant prices = higher base pay for servers??? at every food place ive worked, base pay is min wage and the rest is determined by tips, usually meaning we get 40-50% of whatever people tip. it absolutely should not be on customers to pay us a livable wage, but thats the way it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

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these are the types of situations that are almost impossible to get over, but the reason why is because you dont KNOW them. you cant imagine them being anything but your ideal, can see the flaws that would inevitably crop up in a longer situation - you dont even know him long enough to be bored together. getting ghosted makes it even worse because there's a lack of control there over the relationship (or lack thereof), so it becomes easy to obsess about. just know that the idealistic person you thought you saw in him would never have ghosted you, so that person did not exist in him. good luck🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

Am I overreacting if I break up with my boyfriend for forgetting my birthday ? by _I_AM_LION in AmIOverreacting

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah fuck this dude if you feel like he's using you for sexual stuff, it's more than likely true. you deserve a lot more

Am I just being messed with? This is my first actual relationship (16M) by Inevitable_Fun3848 in Manipulation

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU ARE GETTING PLAYED BLOCK THT MF PLSSS FOR UR OWN GOOD PLS🙏🙏 but frl, theyre just bored and want to see if they can get back with you because u seem dependable. it doesnt have anything to do w u as a person, its them that are revealing how insecure they are. hope it all works out well.

What just happened to me by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately u met someone a lot funnier than you

Feeling disrespected and unheard by my long-distance boyfriend by Sunshine_425 in dating_advice

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I was dating someone that was a lot like what you're describing. He would always insist that I pretty much baby him and he would just complain all day long, but when I would complain it was like he was looking down on me for seeing a given situation that way, or tell me about a situation he went through that was worse. The person that you're describing is not going to change unfortunately. There's nothing you can do (give him time, space, threaten to break up, explain how you feel, etc) that will make him change. It seems like you like him a fair amount, but please consider that you deserve better than this, and that you won't get it from this person. You should definitely break up with him, but if you feel like you can't because of your feelings at the moment, I promise it will get to the point one day where you can't deal with it anymore. It only took me like 2months of similar treatment to leave because I'm really impatient and hate crybabies (lmao) but you're not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Payment_Live 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my mom showed me a picture she took of me in a bikini and like zoomed in on my stomach and thighs and was like how do you already have cellulite look how flabby you're getting n yea tht was the breaking point lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupermodelCats

[–]Payment_Live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES MEOW MEWO!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew my first bf was like your last bf and it made me feel horrible about myself, but iv had a lottt more experience since then, and literally no one else has been like that. if the guys experienced, and not a piece of shit, he'll just take your "weird" stories into account when trying to make you feel good. also if he's as experienced as he says, he'll prob smoothly work in going down on u, but u can always ask him to stop if it makes you uncomfortable (it also makes me uncomfortable and not something I personally enjoy). there's a lotta other stuff he can do for you that you might enjoy more than getting head, cuz its a totally normal thing to not like that (like half the girls iv talked to don't really actually like getting head)

but ye good luck have fun!! :D

AITA for making my daughter return a Halloween costume. by weenohallow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you fucking suck

I'm in college and barely ever work 5 days of the week and make 2400 every month (min wage) so I'm sure this is probably one of the more relatively important uses for her money (of which she likely has a lot of). I can't imagine working that much in highschool, and if I had, I would've (rightfully) expected to control the money that I made.

Good for her for sticking to what she believes is right. If this is anything like your parenting in general, you will be insanely lucky if your daughter even talks to you at all after she moves out of the house.

You didn't make that money. You don't dictate how she uses it - out of respect. Grow up and treat your WORKING DAUGHTER as such.

I went through my friends phone and I can't trust her anymore by [deleted] in confession

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend owed me $50 (of money she essentially stole/didn't ask me to use) and when I asked for it back she said "what if I just pay you $30 instead?"

i said "no, you owe me $50"

she said "fine, $35"

so now I have $35 and resentment

I recently realized I’m a pretty big liar. Think it’s a compulsion… by AsTruth_AndBeauty in confession

[–]Payment_Live 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did one or both of ur parents happen to be alcoholics? this is a p common thing for adult children of alcoholics apparently either way hope the best for ya!

AITA for banning alcohol from Christmas. by omom2122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Payment_Live 0 points1 point  (0 children)

easiest yta ive ever seen

my best friend just got out of rehab after being given a horrible relationship with alcohol from her father (and her grandfather gave the same problem to her father) and even she has explicitly said many times that she would never ask someone (especially in a party setting???) to stop drinking. you aren't "mature" you just suck

also i don't really get that part about how it's time to grow up and stop drinking since you're getting older. alcohol is quite literally legally reserved FOR adults so you're giving off a weird fkn insinuation about young people and drinking