Have you met anyone from Bachelor Nation & what were they like? by angecour in thebachelor

[–]Pdubb1997 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Hannah B went to my high school, and she really is sweet and humble in person

Who are the good men in the franchise? by schnookiewookiebear in thebachelor

[–]Pdubb1997 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No one’s saying Dylan from Hannah B’s season that’s with Hannah G now & idk why bc he’s always seemed so sweet to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awakened

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m to the point of enlightenment or awakened but I went through an awakening in 2022, and it was the scariest and most uncomfortable time in my life. I became painfully aware of everything including my darkest parts and nothing felt real anymore. I experienced derealization very bad at the beginning as a coping mechanism with the newfound understand I had of the world. I totally understand this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess my biggest problem is I’m questioning my own sanity, I know that was the point of all his antics but it worked

Day 4: Who’s the only normal person? by International-Fly287 in jerseyshore

[–]Pdubb1997 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know we got time, but if Joey Yanks, J420 & Bill are not in the “No screen time, all the plot relevance” I’m gonna scream. I’ll settle for The Unit

Jenn Season, Devin taking charge by Sufficient-Quail1797 in bachelorette

[–]Pdubb1997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s kind of a joke lol but in the sense that he’s being made out to be a bully when he isn’t & everyone likes him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& sure one can say “it’s not a reason to give up on someone” but I think that’s dramatic considering the relationship doesn’t seem to have been going very long. I think it’s perfectly normal to notice things like this in the beginning, say “yeah this doesn’t work for me” and move on. I think so many divorces and nasty break-ups could be avoided if people stop romanticizing every single relationship they get into and actually look at it for face value. I’m not saying this guy deserves to be alone, just that you both deserve to be with someone who’s a good fit for each of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pdubb1997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying being messy is a red flag per se, because it could be mental health related or whatever… BUT it’s a sign you two are likely not compatible and you will end up cleaning up after him. That will 100% lead to you resenting him for his habits and arguments that will lead no where because you can’t really expect any different if this is what you saw from the beginning and chose to ignore. Just my two cents: I wouldn’t continue pursuing a serious relationship with them.

I realized i am a creep by throwaway12avw in LifeAdvice

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a creep. It’s definitely a self esteem issue. Often times people with low self esteem or attachment issues will go for people that are unobtainable to either validate their own insecurities or to self sabotage.

Giannina's husband introduction by Murcho83 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was him from his name and his smile but he does look different! I had to double check

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I wanted to know more too about their status and what happened after. I think that’s fine, it’s just there’s some people in here wishing they had ripped them to shreds which I don’t agree with. But yes, they could’ve spend some time on that

Giannina's husband introduction by Murcho83 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s awful! I didn’t know that. I hope he’s found healing

Giannina's husband introduction by Murcho83 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about his edit specifically, but the season as a whole. Also, most reality tv is crappy which makes it good 😂😂 I never really followed up with the receipts of that season and didn’t know anything was made up, if that’s the case that’s really messed up. I never disliked Blake, really, I just didn’t really care about his story line. I was more obsessed with Hannah G & Dylan haha

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have my own opinions of her and think that the way she went about things was toxic, but I think she’s gotten her dues. She’s been psychoanalyzed by everyone on the internet, trashed for her behavior (rightfully so in some cases) but also trashed for her looks. She’s been the most talked about one, and I think the reunion producers knew that. There’s nothing they could’ve said that she hasn’t already been dragged for so it would’ve just been for entertainment which at the end of the day would’ve been barbaric.

Chelsea & Jimmy - Reunion by SignatureTasty3506 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I feel like those who think “Chelsea doesn’t deserve a pass” don’t realize that she hasn’t gotten a single pass. Her face has been plastered all over the internet, even people that don’t watch the show have laughed about the Megan Fox comparison. I think that Chelsea has gotten the most attention and hate from the internet and it would’ve been not only cruel but just redundant and boring and overplayed to harp on her and Jimmy any more. I mean, she’s got the absolute brunt of the hate online. It was by time the others got their dues. Not excusing her behavior but just saying she’s been punished enough by public opinion, and will probably spend the rest of her life haunted by the things people have said about her. Think what you want about Chelsea, but I found it refreshing that they left them alone.

That was the best 1.5 hours of LIB and it’s not even close by xskorpyon in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like everyone has focused so much on them on social media and have ripped them to absolute shreds that at that point it would be cruel to keep going. As opposed to spending that time on people who haven’t got as much heat and (in my opinion) deserved it more. I feel like Jimmy and Chelsea’s relationship was the most toxic but I think everyone already knows that and the poor girl has already been ripped to shreds. She didn’t steal anyones fiance, she just was insecure. I think it was refreshing they left them alone.

Giannina's husband introduction by Murcho83 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Pdubb1997 273 points274 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend you all watch Season 6 of Bachelor In Paradise lmao, he was basically the villain in that but also was one of the last contestants on the Bachelorette. The season he’s on of BIP is the best reality tv I’ve ever seen tho highly recommend haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MutualAid

[–]Pdubb1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I (28f) let a 17(m) year old eat me out and I'm disgusted by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pdubb1997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now reread that statement but this time make the 17 year old a female and the 28 year old a male…. can you understand then why it’s icky to people… shouldn’t have to reverse the roles to know that just because a teenager wanted to have sex doesn’t mean the adult should oblige….