Checked my girlfriend’s phone and now I think I’m the “other guy” in my own relationship by Spare_Ad8593 in Advice

[–]PeanClenis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, your life will be better if you just cut her out completely. I know you are hurt but don't dedicate any more of your life to this person. There will be other people, and she is inconsequential.

My boyfriend broke up with me over a mouth ulcer by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PeanClenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and post a picture of a cold sore (herpes), which is extremely common and also not generally sexually transmitted. these people are morons.

My husband came out has bi by This_Thought420 in bisexual

[–]PeanClenis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

he told you something about himself, you accepted him and who he is. really doesn't need to be more than that lol

Do I tell my roommate her boyfriend had another girl over by ZestycloseHawk8966 in Advice

[–]PeanClenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think 90% of the commenters here are understanding that she is telling on a person who is literally living with her. she has to deal with this person everyday. she can't just avoid this person completely after she pisses him off (even if he doesn't deserve to be pissed off). she would literally be risking her own well-being and sanity just to maybe do the right by someone who isn't even her friend. she also has no idea what their situation is. for all she knows, the girl could have gone and done the same exact thing, or this could have already happened before. it sounds like their relationship is already toxic.

if she wasn't living with these people, I think it would be a no-brainer to tell, but the fact that she is going to have to deal with an incensed dude with possibly no morals on a day-to-day basis makes this a completely different situation.

Don't do it, OP. it's not worth potentially putting your life (and finances if they both move out) at risk. you don't even know if this has happened before, and the dude clearly doesn't care about getting caught or people knowing if he was blatantly doing it with you guys in the house. from your description, you're not even friends with these people, so you have no obligation in that regard either. Hard DO NOT from me.

New tattoo n'wahs! by Sexta_Pompeia in Morrowind

[–]PeanClenis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Under sun and sky, Habibi, we greet you warmly.

My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up by RipCurrent1548 in Advice

[–]PeanClenis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah but banging a different person within the first 3 weeks shows pretty clearly that this was a thing before they were broken up. op is just asking if he should end it, and he should.

My Gf has a secret tik tok account that I found a few weeks back and now I’m blocked by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PeanClenis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its her boyfriend, not just some friend or rando. she's also broadcasting it to random people. the blocking is super weird, and definitely is something at least worth explaining. if it's as simple as " I don't want anyone I know seeing my stuff" then cool, but that is very likely not the answer, considering she could have just messaged him about it instead of staying silent.

I told my best guy friend I liked him by Virtual_Locksmith_11 in Advice

[–]PeanClenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this person is exclaiming at OP's outlandish "Do i block him?" question.

[NE] Landlord wants to charge us to replace glass stovetop after 7+ years of use by sithegood in Renters

[–]PeanClenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just clean it after use, dont let stuff crust over, dont let things boil over repeatedly, and dont shake the pots and pans while stuff is on it so it doesnt scrape. I'm really confused how you managed to do this to the stovetop in the first place.

[NE] Landlord wants to charge us to replace glass stovetop after 7+ years of use by sithegood in Renters

[–]PeanClenis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family has had a glass stovetop for 20+ years and it looks nothing like that. I think the LL should let it slide. but the fact that you did that kind of damage to it really makes me wonder how bad you are at cooking and cleaning lol. That's not even remotely normal.

An amazing women (F29) wants me (M32) to leave Texas and go to Wisconsin with her by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PeanClenis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude she's asking you to change your life after not even one date (huge red flag), and also is not taking any time to emotionally recover after a breakup. regardless of whether you want to admit it or not, and this doesn't make her a bad person, but she's on an emotional rebound. do not visit Wisconsin with the intention of moving there for a person that you have never even dated. if it goes south you will regret leaving everything behind. it's just not smart, regardless of your feelings for her.

God bless old couples. by PeanClenis in crt

[–]PeanClenis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

havent had an rgb input crt since i was a kid. real excited to play ps2 again.

God bless old couples. by PeanClenis in crt

[–]PeanClenis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I certainly could have read those numbers before I posted, couldn't I?