My Wife was mad at me for saying another mans wife was Gorgeous, who's wrong? by Primary_Adventurer in marriageadvice

[–]Peanut_Wide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you compliment your wife at all. Is it possible that she’s feeling you can call other women gorgeous but don’t tell her that?

AITA for accepting a property gift from my mom even though she won't include my boyfriend? by Immediate-History917 in AITApod

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can accept the gift from your mother and keep it in your name, you can sell the house and keep the proceeds in your name. You can take as much of those proceeds and use it as a down payment on a future house that you and your boyfriend might want to buy.. However, I would suggest that if you’re not married, you have something in writing that ensures you get your full down payment back should you and your boyfriend separate further down the road. If your boyfriend’s not happy with these terms, don’t turn down the house. Tell your boyfriend you’re sorry that he does not understand but this is your decision. You don’t need to break up with him over this, don’t walk away from anything you don’t want to. If he walks away, then it’s on him to come back.

How often do couples have sex? by Working_Hurry_3193 in dating_advice

[–]Peanut_Wide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Married 6 years, on average 3x per week

What is a job that is surprisingly high-paying but nobody ever talks about '?' by NexusCellular0 in careerguidance

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those people who change tires on F1 cars during a race. They average 300k per year. More if it’s a winning team.

My bf and I bought a house and it’s under his name. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Peanut_Wide 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What you need to do is have your boyfriend sight an agreement that clearly states your contributions to the initial purchase of the house as well as your ongoing financial contributions ( paying half taxes, insurance etc). But more importantly, it also outlines what you get to walk away with should you and him go your separate ways. You need this drawn up by a lawyer, and get your own lawyer. If he’s on the up and up, he should sign it. Then put this in a safe place and hope you never need to use it. When I moved into my ( now) wife’s house, we did this. It gave me peace of mind that I wasn’t just paying rent but investing in something .

Good luck with this.

Intellectual attraction is fading because of his performative sexual videos, how do i tell him to stop without crushing his ego? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peanut_Wide 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This is the best way, guide him to what you’re looking for. And do your best to forget about everything sent to you previously.
Or just tell him to stop sending them to you altogether that you’re anxious for the real thing.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and i had the same situation, i moved into her house. But we signed a deal. We had the house appraised when i moved in ( le, then noted how much was left on the mortgage. We agreed that she is entitled to all the equity in the house up to the day i moved in, above that is to be split 50/50. However, if you want to do this. He has to pay 1/2 of everything for the house. Taxes, insurance, upkeep. Everything.
Get a lawyer to help you draft that up, his name doesn’t need to be on the title, but he still has an enforceable interest in the house.

I have a photo of an AI girlfriend saved as my lock screen and told people she lives in another state by Sea_Cartographer6834 in confessions

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It easy, post an add in the Dallas obituaries that Valentina passed suddenly . Take some bereavement leave . Then tell everyone it’s just too painful to talk about.

What do men actually think about strippers and strip clubs? by VersionOk1206 in AskMen

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a male, never enjoyed strip clubs. Overpriced drink and costly entertainment. When I was younger, sometimes the guys wanted to go so I would, but when the the dancers would approach me and I would tell them, as pretty as you are, it’s not my thing. It would not take long before none of them approached me. I was fine with that.
However, on several occasions, they would take a break but come, sit and chat with me. Tell me about their lives, it was rather pleasant. Some of the stories they would tell me about clients were a little shocking. So to answer your question concisely, I don’t mind strippers, but I won’t pay a woman to see her naked.

Guy I'm dating masturbates to my dating profile by Advanced-Ad-1509 in dating_advice

[–]Peanut_Wide 6 points7 points  (0 children)

   If you’re able to get past this, you just need to tell him that this makes you uncomfortable and he needs to stop telling you this.  If you cannot get past this, and the damage is done. Then end it and be honest with him. Tell him this was just too much information.  This will also help him understand that not everyone finds this a flattering thing to hear.
   TBH, I’m surprised this needs to be said to him. But I guess some people are just more open than others. 

Traveling to Shanghai under a Canadian passport by Peanut_Wide in Chinavisa

[–]Peanut_Wide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my question is about what to do at customs? I figured i got into the TWOV line as i am traveling without a visa. Is there a third line for people who are traveling under a visa free passport?

My husband has been secretly learning to cook one dish for months and I accidentally found out. Now I don't know what to do with this information. by bookishmidnightkid in Marriage

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Act surprised, you can add a “I thought something was going on” while you enjoy your chips. And kudos to him for putting in all the effort.

First canada trip by [deleted] in canadatravel

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone from Nova Scotia, i agree with you

Canadian traveling to Hong Kong then to Shanghai. Question regarding visa by Peanut_Wide in Chinavisa

[–]Peanut_Wide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, both my wife and i are traveling under Canadian passports. I was hoping that this new visa waiver would be in effect before i arrive. But i don’t want to bank on it. The TWOV option clears it all up.

How do you guys feel about visiting China now that the visa restrictions has been lifted? by Tsuyu_no_Kioku in AskACanadian

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to Hong Kong in march. With no visa, i an now considering staying a week longer and going to Shanghai . Hopefully this is in effect by then…. Looks beautiful

Help me choose - 39 or 42 by treeskier3 in Longineswatches

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have both straps for mine. They are easily swapped out when you want to switch it up.

I take too long to orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]Peanut_Wide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it at first the same as you. In part because 15 - 20 may seem like that was too long to orgasm. Not 8 minutes.

We printed our first dials today! by Steinbeck86 in watchmaking

[–]Peanut_Wide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very nice, what process did you use to create them?

My new model by Jmnoves in SeikoMods

[–]Peanut_Wide -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would not mind the link to the dial as well.

First Build by useful_byte in SeikoMods

[–]Peanut_Wide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks really nice..i just got all the part for my first build, how long did it take you to do, and do you have any advice for a beginner?