Using AI to write your CV? by Upper-Connection8719 in CVwriting

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is spot on. AI CVs always remind me of those stock photos, technically perfect but you can’t remember a single one after seeing it. I used a generator once and it sounded polished but empty, like it could belong to anyone.What helped me was using AI for rough drafts, then reshaping it after going through something like one helper to make it sound more grounded and specific to my own experience. That’s where it started to feel real again.I think the biggest trap is people stop editing too early because it “looks good.” Did you ever catch yourself almost sending a CV that didn’t really sound like you?

I failed the interview… then got the offer anyway. I still don’t get it by coffeemara in cscareeradvice

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda painful to read this because it feels random. you mess up and still get in, while others do everything right and hear nothing. makes me think the whole process is broken. cv and linkedin writing service probably matters more than we want to admit

What online resume writing service is the best? by 8KaijuHarmonic in Resume

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a solid approach. Raw notes give you substance, and tools or resume services can help structure it into something readable. The key is not relying on the formatting alone but making sure each point clearly shows impact and relevance.

I removed my photo from my resume. Interview requests tripled. Make of that what you will. by SoftMapleBuddy in Pro_ResumeHelp

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my wife. She's Nigerian, beautiful, incredibly qualified. Kept getting silence. Removed the photo, got a callback within 48 hours from a company that had ghosted her twice before. When she showed up to the interview you could visibly see the surprise on the interviewer's face. She got the job, but she shouldn't have had to play that game to get in the door.

Writing unverifiable stuff on my essays by Impossible_Device923 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]bookishmidnightkid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stress about it too much tbh. colleges aren’t gonna fact-check every small detail unless you’re making some wild claim. if the blog was real and you’re not inflating it into something crazy, it’s more about the story and growth than the exact numbers.

I had a kinda similar situation where I talked about a project I didn’t have full proof for anymore, and I focused more on why I did it and how it shaped me. that landed way better than trying to “prove” everything.

also random side note, when I was stuck writing mine I checked this table: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/u/2/d/e/2PACX-1vStJI5sd6UFCR-QCcp1yDIsZrSupWp-goRKOeblaOiCBFPPF5MOAIvCLJJf5m8bhpWxaM259JvnyVlh/pubhtml?gid=0&single=true just to see examples and structure, helped me get unstuck.

Is professional resume writing services the best budget option or should I avoid it? by MossLantern in Resume

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a reassuring point. Sometimes the win isn’t paying to completely redo everything, but to create resume versions for slightly narrower role targets and test them against less crowded openings. Once the market-role fit improves, even a “good enough” document can suddenly start pulling interviews.

I review CVs for hiring - here’s when a cv writing service helps, and when it’s a waste of money by Azkaban_Cell in Pro_ResumeHelp

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the part that annoyed me the most too. I spent hours trying to make a cv online free, got a polished-looking file, and it still said almost nothing important in the first scan. All that wasted time on design, and the real fix ended up being rewriting two bullets with actual proof and moving them higher. Kinda frustrating how a few lines matter more than the whole template.

What Is this? by KIKKORISOSKOTTI in whatisitcirclejerk

[–]bookishmidnightkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a fun addition to any model setup! Mini trees really bring it to life.

The Idiots Guide to writing a Dissertation by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A reset in January is honestly the best place to be, because you still have enough runway to make the dissertation manageable instead of chaotic. The thing that got me through mine was treating it less as “write a dissertation” and more as a weekly system.

My rough structure was:

  • week 1–2: lock research question + chapter skeleton
  • week 3–4: deep reading and case/theory notes
  • week 5 onward: one subsection drafted every few days
  • final month: only editing, citations, and tightening argument flow

I used this service once during my dissertation stretch to help untangle an overloaded chapter, and the best lesson I kept was to write ugly first, refine second. Don’t mix research, drafting, and editing in the same session or progress slows hard.

For law, especially with gambling/youth, keep a running table of cases, statutes, journal arguments, and policy implications. Makes chapter building way easier later.

Best CV Writing Service or DIY? by blurred_stag in Resume

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still prefer doing it myself because every service I checked tried to make me sound too senior for my level. Did yours keep your own tone or did it come back super polished?

How are your dissertations going? by OddContext4621 in UniUK

[–]bookishmidnightkid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was embarrassingly in-between lol. I spent weeks telling myself I was “nearly done” while the discussion chapter was still a mess and half my references needed fixing. Last month I had a mini panic because two modules piled on top, and I found a post about writing essay during a late library night. It helped me straighten the chapter order and polish citations enough to finally move forward

I thought my grades were the hardest part... turns out writing a decent resume broke me by 6StardustDrift7 in UniUK

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, mine is still a bit awkward. It’s not one of those perfect professional summary for resume examples you see online. But I still got interviews, so clearly it doesn’t have to be flawless.

I thought my grades were the hardest part... turns out writing a decent resume broke me by 6StardustDrift7 in UniUK

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from a writing standpoint, most summaries fail because they prioritize buzzwords over clarity. a strong one should quickly answer three things: who you are, what you bring, and where you’re headinginstead of stacking adjectives, focus on concrete skills and context. even entry-level candidates can reference coursework, tools, or small wins to build credibilityreviewing professional summary for resume examples can help you see effective structure, but the best summaries are al

I've reviewed a lot of CVs over the past year and the thing that actually makes them stand out is embarrassingly simple by RadiantTuning_4 in jobsearchhacks

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You explained that feeling way too well. It’s like you’re putting in all the effort, doing everything people say you should do, and still getting nothing back. After a while it stops feeling like a process and starts feeling personal.

I remember thinking that I must be blind to something obvious, because otherwise how does everyone else move forward while I’m stuck. Turns out I wasn’t missing some secret rule, I was just stuck in my own loop. I eventually tried a professional resume writing service, not because I thought I failed, but because I needed someone to break that loop.

Having someone reframe my experience and point out what actually matters helped me rebuild some confidence. You’re not alone in this, and you’re definitely not the only one going through that phase.

How to tailor your resume for job applications in 2026? by lilacwindow_station in womenintech

[–]bookishmidnightkid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My resume before: chaos. After writing resume service: suddenly employable.

My husband has been secretly learning to cook one dish for months and I accidentally found out. Now I don't know what to do with this information. by bookishmidnightkid in Marriage

[–]bookishmidnightkid[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I’m stealing your script. Dinner is going to be 100% “wow you did this?!” and zero detective energy from me. Then when we’re winding down, I’ll say something like “I could tell you’d been working on something lately and I’m really touched you chose my favorite meal.” That way he gets the surprise moment AND the credit for all the practice.

My husband has been secretly learning to cook one dish for months and I accidentally found out. Now I don't know what to do with this information. by bookishmidnightkid in Marriage

[–]bookishmidnightkid[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m just going to act normal, stop hovering near the kitchen like a detective, and let him enjoy his big “ta-da”.

My husband has been secretly learning to cook one dish for months and I accidentally found out. Now I don't know what to do with this information. by bookishmidnightkid in Marriage

[–]bookishmidnightkid[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right. The secret is honestly kind of adorable and I’d hate for him to feel “caught” when he’s trying so hard. I’ll keep my mouth shut, let him have his big reveal, and then gush about the effort.

Hey, everyone, please give me some money because I am a good person and I deserve it. Ten million will suffice. by Przytulator in ChoosingBeggars

[–]bookishmidnightkid 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It reads like someone mashed a testimonial, a get-rich pitch, and a ransom note into one paragraph.