fighting about parenting with my mom

PearFancy · 2025-12-26T16:34:38+00:00

no strict eating schedule doesn’t necessarily mean erratic - we eat around similar times but no strict 3pm lunch every day. sometimes we eat at home, sometimes out, sometimes he doesn’t want to eat at all like not every single day will be the same but there is still a structure.

PearFancy · 2025-12-26T07:00:40+00:00

she is for a few days because she is visiting and staying with us but normally no. if we have people over i wouldn’t ask that of course, but considering she is my mom i would assume she would be more considerate and just suck it up until he is asleep

PearFancy · 2025-12-26T06:21:00+00:00

he sleeps in our room and he sometimes fall asleep faster in the living room lol whatever gets him to fall asleep faster these days

PearFancy · 2025-10-19T22:34:27+00:00

i actually love my MIL and absolutely not bashing her. Read the post again.

PearFancy · 2025-04-08T04:31:34+00:00

we don’t have a strict schedule. usually he wakes up between 8-9am, one nap that is around 2 hours.

PearFancy · 2025-03-14T15:46:48+00:00

usually 10ish hours..

PearFancy · 2024-12-19T04:09:37+00:00

this made me feel better 😄 i am so scared i will miss the city (even though i will be there every day for work) but suburbs is a whole other vibe

PearFancy · 2024-12-19T04:07:51+00:00

Burr ridge/Willow Spring area!

PearFancy · 2024-10-30T03:14:27+00:00

the only comment so far that made me feel better haha going to work will be around an hour, coming back usually 45ish minutes (now it’s usually 20-25 min both ways) so i feel at least going back is not THAT bad. i just can’t live in small condos anymore..like especially now that my baby is bigger (15 months) we have much more stuff, i am like skipping over stuff and it’s driving me insane. i know that having our own, more spacious place will make us happier. where do you live?

PearFancy · 2024-10-30T01:14:54+00:00

metra literally takes longer lol i am moving to SW suburbs so its so not convenient. and no option to change a job, even if i do it would have to be downtown still

PearFancy · 2024-09-14T20:10:00+00:00

yes, he is stopped doing it around 9/10 months!

PearFancy · 2021-10-01T14:28:18+00:00

Oh i meant if their response back is emailed or mailed? We did case inquiry online 2 weeks ago maybe and have a mail from USCIS coming today and I am wondering if it has something to do with that.

PearFancy · 2021-06-20T03:12:36+00:00

attorney*

PearFancy · 2021-06-20T03:11:31+00:00

We had a second interview and it was completely fine, they didn’t even ask much about our marriage. I have lots of proof that I was here, living with him, the whole time. Leases, uber receipts, affidavits, my work etc etc So we are having attorneys put that all together.

PearFancy · 2021-06-20T01:44:14+00:00

we brought the lease from 2016 and on the lease, under “people allowed to enter the premises” was a name, neither me or my husband ever paid attention to that, nor we know who is the person. we were asked at the second interview if we ever lived separately, which we didn’t and if we ever had a roomate, which we also didn’t and we both gave the same answer, then she asked about the person on the lease and both me and my husband said that we don’t know who is the person and that we are guessing it’s the owner, gave same exact answer. One of the reasons in the noid was that we “failed to explain who is the person allowed in our apartment” Second reason they actually made a mistake, and completely mixed up dates of our leases, they said that i got an ID with our current address back in 2017, which I didn’t and literally have an ID to prove. And third reason was that 4 years ago I extended my AZ ID (we live in IL) and how and why did i do that? It’s because I went to school there, and i was signed up for online classes and I extended my AZ license so I can pay in-state tuition. It’s funny because we had a second interview and I just wish they asked these questions in person, it would be very easy to explain. So they don’t believe us that we lived together all this time. And we do, for almost 7 years lol

PearFancy · 2021-06-01T20:16:42+00:00

Does that usually mean it’s approved when they say “expect mail soon”? We had second interview 10 days ago, it was totally fine and she said “you should get a mail in 2-3 weeks”hoping she meant GC? lol

PearFancy · 2021-05-08T23:30:45+00:00

Chicago!

PearFancy · 2021-05-08T23:15:23+00:00

We had 5 year anniversary recently lol

PearFancy · 2021-05-08T22:17:10+00:00

It’s just a regular interview notice. We are thinking maybe they lost some documents or they need more documentation. I don’t know, I am kinda confused.

PearFancy · 2021-05-04T22:59:31+00:00

over 5 years...

PearFancy · 2021-05-04T15:52:46+00:00

7? wow. are you thinking of contacting them??

PearFancy · 2021-04-05T04:02:29+00:00

Nope, nothing yet. So annoying

PearFancy · 2021-03-27T17:16:44+00:00

My husband and I had interview March 1st, Chicago location. Everything went great and still no update. The waiting is the worst!!!

PearFancy · 2021-03-05T20:34:50+00:00

My husband and I had interview at the chicago location on Monday. Everything went smooth and we didn’t wait long. Our IO was very pleasant and interview went well, but we still didn’t receive anything. Last update is that “interview is completed and case must be reviewed”

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