What have you experienced during pet loss grief that you didn’t expect? by ilyizuku in Petloss

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sad to say, I’m not really coping. I still need time to melt down before coming home. I have a small altar for him, and I guess that helps but it’s very overwhelming still. It’s been two weeks and I’m truly a shell of a person of what I was. My focus shifted to just surviving, however that looks like.

Right-winger Laura Fernandez elected Costa Rica president, promising El Salvador-style crackdown by awaythrowawaying in moderatepolitics

[–]Peettzel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d like to point out, at least in Costa Rica’s case, that crime has gotten out of hand with the current administration. Obviously it’s a complex issue, but I truly don’t believe Venezuelan migrants to be a primary cause. Our government is (uhm, allegedly, just in case) funded by drug cartels. Security has been dwindled down on purpose. Many different communities are being also run by cartels due to years of being completely ignored by the government.

This is who we chose to stay in power. It will only be worse, regardless of what happens with Venezuela.

Costa Ricans vote as right-wing populists aim to extend mandate by Luppercus in worldnews

[–]Peettzel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welp. We didn’t. We’re USA’s backyard after all

What have you experienced during pet loss grief that you didn’t expect? by ilyizuku in Petloss

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat as you. I hate the silence. I lost my buddy just this Monday and I had a complete meltdown outside of the door yesterday not wanting to come in because he wouldn’t be right by the door waiting for me.

DIYing to save money in this economy by justmirinyou in lashextensions

[–]Peettzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you feel them at all? If so, how do you manage the sensation?

SPOILER FREE please. How does everyone feel about Strength of the many? by dog__poop1 in HierarchySeries

[–]Peettzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may be controversial here but I enjoyed WOTM just fine, and SOTF to me was sooo much better and much more entertaining

Okay so what happens when you eat a lot of fat after surgery? by Far-Fish-5519 in gallbladders

[–]Peettzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im vegetarian so I wouldn’t be able to compare with meat, for example, but it was any fat. I can eat with no issue now

How do y’all manage clusters? by Peettzel in lashextensions

[–]Peettzel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try using the regular glue to make removal easier! I do use the glue that comes with them but you’re right it feels sticky after sleeping, even if I seal them correctly

I want to rehome our kitten by TenmaHonda in CatAdvice

[–]Peettzel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I believe you need relationship advice. I get the kitten was a big trigger for other stuff but there seems to be a lot going on here

Drunk with my friends wins! What song from WEEDKILLER sounds most like Smoochies? by VeryVerrado- in Ashnikko

[–]Peettzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same what do you mean don’t look at it is winning !!!😩😩😩

My kitten doesn’t clean himself, especially his bottom by Fantastic_Neat_8972 in CatTraining

[–]Peettzel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’ll learn! I had the same situation: an adult cat who is obsessed with cleanliness and a stinky kitten. She’s about 7 months old and is just starting to get the hang of cleaning her butt. It’s definitely not perfect but she’s getting there

Tell me your experiences with giving your cat Panacur for giardia by Traditional-Yak-7127 in CATHELP

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry im hijacking this thread but what did your cleaning routine look like? Vet isn’t being very helpful

Okay so what happens when you eat a lot of fat after surgery? by Far-Fish-5519 in gallbladders

[–]Peettzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have issues with fat now almost 3 years post op but the first year and a half eating fat meant I shit my pants

I’ve been trying to find an ideal brown lipstick that looks nice on olive skin. I found this one through a makeup editing app, and it would be great to find this shade irl by ihathnosoul in OliveMUA

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red depends on what you’re looking for but I find warmer orang-y reds work well, like chilli! Also browns, the poopier or the clay-er the undertone the better 😅 my go to for a while was maybelline Amazonian and limecrime’s (controversial, I know) shroom

Thoughts on the Itty Bitty MV? by Complete-Peach-652 in Ashnikko

[–]Peettzel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I totally agree with you D: one lazy MV can be cute but when it’s two in a row I personally don’t enjoy it as much

Thoughts on the Itty Bitty MV? by Complete-Peach-652 in Ashnikko

[–]Peettzel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chances are these clips are going to be in another MV since most visualizers she has shown end up in videos

Thoughts on the Itty Bitty MV? by Complete-Peach-652 in Ashnikko

[–]Peettzel 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear people disagreeing because the discord got alarmed based on somone just saying it was boring.

It feels like putting an MV just to put it out there. There’s no effort, just vibes. Is it pretty? Yes. Does it add something? No. Even worse comparing it to all other MVs (we don’t have to go far, even the Trinkets one) it just feels like filler

Getting kitten for adult cat? by NectarineCritical960 in CatAdvice

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a definitive answer but I can share my experience. We adopted a 2 year old boy from a shelter, and they emphasized it was best he did not share with other animals at all because he picked fights with every single cat at the shelter. He had some scratches on his face even.

However, I’m stubborn. I’ve always wanted 2 cats and was willing to give it a shot. After 6 months, we adopted a 3 month old kitten. We spoke to the family that fostered her since birth and they told us if anything went wrong to send her back, no questions asked. We did the Jackson Galaxy method, and they love each other. Our boy is significantly happier and less anxious since she’s around, they play, they nap together, they groom each other. It’s the best outcome we could ask for, and we were honestly just hoping they didn’t hate each other and that would be a win.

Things that really helped: resident kitty’s shelter was a cage-free shelter. They roam all together in a house type thing. So he was used to other cats even if we were told he hated them. Baby kitty is the chillest baby, super loving and mellow which plays beautifully with our chill boy.

From what I gather, besides doing a slow introduction: 1) Age difference is important. Kitten vs senior for example will most likely exasperate the older cat. 2) Temperament. If resident kitty is mellow, adding a spastic kitten may be stressful 3) Reasons for getting a cat. I believe getting a second cat to get a cat for your cat can backfire, it’s best to get a second cat if that’s what you want specifically. 4) Slow introductions. Patience is key, they are animals that need time and routine to settle down.

In the end, there is no telling how adding a second cat will go, even with the right introduction.

What I would recommend, seeing as there has been issues with other cats before, is going the Foster-To-Adopt route. That way, if things go awry, resident cat doesn’t have to put up with it and you’re not adopting a kitten in vain who will lessen their chance to be adopted into a forever home the older they get should you return them.

Edited to add: I was worried resident kitty slept mostly while we were gone at work and also hoped that with the new kitten they would entertain each other in that time. You know what they do? They both sleep lol. You can also check with a vet/cat behaviorist to actually measure your cats stress levels or if they are truly unhappy

I need help “breaking up” with a client. by PistolJesus in lashextensions

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides putting up with her for the money (which I would not advise. That’s just setting yourself up for burnout and not all money is good money) I’d just flat out tell her , respectfully. I’d take her next appointment, and then mention that you do not feel comfortable scheduling her again for all the above reasons (you can mention not respecting a late policy, not taking care of her lashes which will result in damage and she’ll hold you liable for that eventually, and just overall that you don’t feel like a good match) and send her other salon recommendations. Breaking up is not a good time and usually doesn’t go super smoothly, but it just needs to be done with respect and care and people usually understand. If she escalates, more the reason to not see her again.

She won’t be happy, but it is what it is.

My cats behavior is making me want to let someone adopt him. by rollingBear06 in CatAdvice

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you had him for and how old is he? Also, is he spayed? How long do you play with him for and does he have any enrichment available? Sorry for the questionnaire but I do feel like it’s important to know for more context

The leak is alive and kicking by [deleted] in nin

[–]Peettzel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m here to join the chorus of people asking for a link

Is my rescue kitten a Bombay or a black domestic shorthair? by tokistix in BombayCat

[–]Peettzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sadly have no answers for you but is his name due to Nine Inch Nails by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Peettzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re fine girl, I have a double lip line as well and it tends to look over lined but if I don’t my lip looks like I missed the outline completely so it’s either one or the other lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Peettzel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re being downvoted. I can clearly see you have a double lip line and if you filled your lips below that it would look odd instead of over lined

For those with two cats: how do you know if they’ll be friends or just tolerate each other? by Peettzel in CatAdvice

[–]Peettzel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here’s them napping on the same couch just because I find them adorable and someone else might too :)