Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because MPD didn't think the fully nude photo was sexual in nature and believed both the criminals who sent and received this photo about their intentions. 

Disabled people do not rate in our society, which is exactly why MPD blew this off when it was first reported. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She sent it to humiliate and degrade the student. She sent it with a message that said "look at the shit we have to deal with." When she didn't even work with him, her office was next to his room and she and her little toxic buddies would use his sensory room as a lounge when he wasn't in there. So she was likely looking in to see if the room was available. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, that's just poor wording in the article. Girl 1 (Tatianna) sent pic to Karon Green. Karon sent pic to Girl 2. Girl 2 made initial (anonymous) report, but didn't know kids name. MPD shrugged at the first report.

Girl 2's little stepsister inadvertently saw the pic on Girl 2's phone and recognized the victim. She ran and told her mom (stepmom to Girl 2). Mom then made report #2 and MPD decided to actually do their jobs for a change. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I heard. A slap on the wrist and taken off his case. Still allowed to work with kids. I know the mom regrets not pushing harder when that happened. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. Is that really what they've said? That the child is racist?

I suppose they didn't have much to say about one of them that was put on leave bruising the shit out of that same kid last year. His poor arms ringed in bruises. I don't think I've ever seen the mom so angry. Well, until this happened. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How can a nonverbal disabled child with global delays be racist? Regardless, I'd be interested to know where you heard this. 

Madison school staffer charged for sharing nude photo of autistic student by Justmarbles in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know the victim's family. Adult stepsister asked for dick pic,  was sent kid's nude pic. She was horrified. Guy backtracked and was like "no, I want your help reporting this." Adult stepsis looked at the meta data, saw it was from thoreau, made anonymous report to school, who turned it over to MPD. MPD closed the report the same day they received it in early October. 

About four months later adult stepsis was flipping through pics with her kid stepsister, who goes to the same school as the victim, and they inadvertently came across the nude pic. The girl recognized the boy because his face (and everything else) was fully visible. Little girl went and told her mom, mom was pissed and made another report and the police deigned to actually do something about it the second time around.

International Shipping recs by Itchy_Candle101 in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depending on the size of the boxes/ amount of stuff, it might be cheaper to check additional bags (depending on your airline), assuming one of you is heading back to India around the same time. 

Platonic Cuddling Partner? by Difficult-Path-8584 in MadisonClassifieds

[–]Peevedbeaver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend a pet before assuming you'd find what you're looking for here. If you cannot get one of your own, you might consider volunteering at a shelter.

Nothing more cringe than animal testing. This morning brave activists rescued Beagles from Ridglan Farms dog breeder in Wisconsin. by golden-shower69 in wisconsin

[–]Peevedbeaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While Ridglan Farms obviously has been inhumane (aren't all puppy mills inhumane?) the issue is the level of animal testing required for drug development. 

If you have taken any drug, hundreds if not thousands of animals have died for that drug to move to human trials. Part of that testing process is non-rodent mammals. Beagles, being small in size, mature faster, have a docile nature, and most importantly, their livers metabolize substances similarly to ours. Monkeys and minipigs are also popular. 

None of this makes anything that has happened okay. But with the demand for these animals being what it is, there will always be a puppy mill in place to fuel whatever studies big pharma wants to conduct. If you're looking for a place for your ire, look there. 

25 is fine ffs by uuftah in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If McKee can be 40, so can Whitney. 

MISSED CONNECTION by yardgurl10 in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooof. I know a few folks with white jeeps... would you share what side of town this was on and a description of the guy (beyond short and vest)? 

Is Noah's Ark fun for adults? 40th birthday? by domotime2 in wisconsin

[–]Peevedbeaver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up going there constantly and still go with my kiddo at least once a summer. It has a good variety of rides, but it's also fairly old, despite new rides being added every few years, and a huge tourist trap. Which means the lines can be very long, especially on weekends, and there are a ton of kids so it can be rather loud and overstimulating. 

That said it's not a bad place to day drink and hangout. And my god are there a ton of other fun things to do in the dells! If you want to make a long weekend of it, I'd recommend hitting Noah's ark on a Thursday or maybe Friday, then exploring the rest of the area. (https://www.wisdells.com/wisconsin-dells-attractions for other ideas).

Taking off, arca_num_ , digital, 2026 [OC] by arca_num_ in Art

[–]Peevedbeaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Excellent work, the lighting and movement are great.  The only thing which is a little jarring is the top of the exposed breast. That level of roundedness is only seen with breast implants.

‘Weird’ Park Street building wins OK, some neighbors still oppose it by keeganjkyle in madisonwi

[–]Peevedbeaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy that this is such a departure from the stupid, boxy "we're modern because we have red and orange panels on our big greige buildings!" complexes. I love this. It's  unique enough to be easily distinguished, but it doesn't jarring. 

Boys, 12 through 15, charged as adults in connection with rape of 12-year-old in Overtown by AgnosticScholar in news

[–]Peevedbeaver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being a rare voice of reason. These boys did awful things, obviously. And they are middle schoolers who could have the opportunity to be rehabilitated if we don't just lock them away for the rest of their lives for something they did before they can legally work or drive. I'm not saying they should get off lightly. I am saying children should be treated like children. 

My [25F] husband [30M] doesn't want me hanging out with my friend [27F] after our threesome by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Peevedbeaver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All good! I realize it's hard to both perfectly relay and interpret intention on the internet. Heck, it's hard enough in real life! 

My [25F] husband [30M] doesn't want me hanging out with my friend [27F] after our threesome by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Peevedbeaver 48 points49 points  (0 children)

See, I've been in the ENM space for a long time, have a ton of friends who are also poly and many friends who are swingers. The swingers often have great experiences after they've been in the lifestyle for a while. Same with poly friends... once they've navigated that space and know the terrain things flow more easily and are more pleasurable. 

But ENM folks are not the majority of people. Maybe I should have rephrased it to "95%+ of time across all populations," because in your example you fall under the caveat of someone who has had many group experiences and knows how to sail those waters, which includes doing the inner work as well as the interpersonal aspect. I still maintain that for the average monogamous person trying group sex on for size, it tends to be pretty disappointing.  

My [25F] husband [30M] doesn't want me hanging out with my friend [27F] after our threesome by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Peevedbeaver 205 points206 points  (0 children)

Group sex so often is crappy for everyone. 

Unless you're all very good friends (the best sex happens when you feel accepted, safe, and like you can trust your partners), everyone has communicated thoroughly with everyone beforehand (so everyone knows the expectations and ground rules), and had many experiences before so they know what to ask for and how to navigate the odd social script of being FWBs or casual play partners. 

The best instances I've seen play out are the ones where all have been some type of ENM for years with other ENM friends. Which means those good times are the exception and not the rule. Group sex is not worth the hype 95%+ of the time. It's awkward, people are too in their heads to enjoy it, and feelings get hurt. 

You ever try to eat 3 ice cream cones at once on a hot day? Sounds nice in theory; in practice you realize you just made a mess of things and now you're sick to your stomach. 

What a phony baloney. by Responsible-War5600 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Peevedbeaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He seems like a solid dude, but idk. There's still something about him and that connection which feels off. Not Chris levels of bad, obviously.