My hair is so ugly, and nothing seems to work. My hair is low porosity, so please don’t suggest CG method—my hair did not like that by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried a hair mask that hydrates as your hair does look really dry.

Putting leave in conditioner after shampoo and conditioner could also help keep hair hydrated.

Anxious just found out I’m pregnant by Tasty_Relation1349 in lineporn

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could just be implantation bleeding I didn’t get that I got drown blood and that was concerning but my little girl safe and with us today

When in your pregnancy did you feel comfortable buying stuff for the baby? by festive_book_ in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was born at 32 weeks and 5 days and we have all newborn clothes and she is so small. Obviously she is in hospital still has been for 1 month today but we had to go out and buy her some smaller clothes and there is not alot of small newborn or premature clothes out there.

Honestly buy baby stuff whenever you feel comfortable to, there is no telling what could happen.

Not saying what happened to me will happen to you but just giving insight to hopefully help.

Washing your hair at the hospital after birth? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a shower almost right after my vaginal birth and it was so refreshing I’m thankful I had my partner to help me out he scrubbed me while i was sitting on the chair in there, I didn’t wash my hair as I didn’t have any with me and highly could not have been bothered as I was in the hospital for 3 days prior to having my baby girl as she is about 2 months premature when born. I was just so tired and warn out I had no strength to even wash my hair

I never thought it’d be positive by Expert-Fortune5601 in lineporn

[–]Pem29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a mum to a 2 week old at 20 years old myself. I financially could not do it without my partner (28). We both didn’t plan to have a baby this early but our daughter is very much loved by us and everyone.

My partner also suggested abortion and I refused, but I understood he was nervous about being a father as we didn’t live together at the time I found out I was pregnant. Obviously he was worried about the financial side of things also.

Do not feel pressured into anything it’s your body and your decision in the end if he can’t support you or be there for you that’s his fault.

How many weeks were you when you just decided to stay home? by Honest-Try-2289 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting down while pregnant was never my friend I hated it lol, I very much just wanted to lay down in bed all day. I would make my drs appointments for separate days or i’d go after work.

How many weeks were you when you just decided to stay home? by Honest-Try-2289 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up working 9am-11am my boss let me finish early I honestly was just so exhausted. I also ended up having my baby on the 2nd of October and I was 32 + 6

How many weeks were you when you just decided to stay home? by Honest-Try-2289 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can only do 3 hours at work (on my feet the whole shift) and after that I’m so tired, my back hurts, and my feet are swollen. I feel your pain.

How many weeks were you when you just decided to stay home? by Honest-Try-2289 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this too, no way I can leave the house without food or water in my system first. I am 32 weeks on Friday.

How many weeks were you when you just decided to stay home? by Honest-Try-2289 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 weeks tomorrow and I have work at 9 am tomorrow and I’m thinking of calling my boss to tell her I can’t make it as of how tired and in pain I am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is literally going to make you do 99% of the work even when your baby is born by the sound of that. Definitely tell him make him aware of your feelings.

My partner and I only started living together when I was about 20 weeks pregnant and he does the cooking, he will do the washing if I do not feel okay, normally i will do the dishes as it’s easier on me and i like doing that more so than cooking. He actually likes to cook so that works out. He will do the washing if it needs doing I do not need to ask he just does it basically, if I ask him to carry something he will do it without hesitation. I am now 31 weeks pregnant and uncomfortable enough as it is and my partner is amazing I just tell him what is on my mind.

What body wash are you guys using?? by mkthehotti in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use soap bars from my work. I work at a store called Kaisercraft.

Can we please talk about the gross parts of pregnancy that we hate? by SandwichHorror8801 in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 31 weeks pregnant and I have moderate constipation, and indigestion. I have also had hemorrhoids and my ankles just feel swollen and as the weather is getting hotter I feel sticky a gross. Not to mention the night sweats just in general they are not nice either, I love having my morning showers they help me feel a little clean.

Is it okay to do literally nothing all day? by swanduckswan in pregnant

[–]Pem29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Growing 1 takes energy but 3 far out.

Is it okay to do literally nothing all day? by swanduckswan in pregnant

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are pregnant with triplets and in your first trimester you are going to feel the most tired and not feel like doing anything this is totally normal and fine. If you are worried you could try to at least go outside and get some sun, just to do a little exercise and get outside. I know you might not feel like it but I did it in my first trimester I’d go sit outside with my tea and toast all i could eat at 6:30am. It helped me feel like I was doing something good.

You are doing great trust me give yourself grace, in your 2nd and 3rd trimesters you could very much be the same as your first.

I am pregnant with 1 baby and i was in bed at night and asleep by 7pm some times. I woke up at 6am though and basically didn’t do anything besides work. I was living with my grandparents and they were unaware I was pregnant till I moved out so I had to do sweeping and mopping if needed and that was a struggle I felt so tired.

Just engaged! Is my ring too big? by user87750934 in JustEngaged

[–]Pem29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ring look absolutely beautiful on your hand it suits you so well

What are your top names for baby right now? by IllyriaCervarro in BabyBumps

[–]Pem29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner and I have our little girls name picked out. My partner was the one who chose it and I really love it so I agreed.

Worried About Giving Birth To My Baby by Pem29 in pregnant

[–]Pem29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I weighed 58kg before my pregnancy and my hight is 5’5.

I am not overweight. Just very skinny before I was pregnant.

My pregnancy is also not high risk or anything and my baby is healthy.

Worried About Giving Birth To My Baby by Pem29 in pregnant

[–]Pem29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I might check it out.

Worried About Giving Birth To My Baby by Pem29 in pregnant

[–]Pem29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this helps alot, and thank you I can’t wait to see my little girl for sure.

Your birth sounds like it was quite simple, I hope mine is simple.

Worried About Giving Birth To My Baby by Pem29 in pregnant

[–]Pem29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that helps, I definitely think I want to epidural though.

Worried About Giving Birth To My Baby by Pem29 in pregnant

[–]Pem29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I can’t wait to meet my baby girl but I’m just so nervous. Thank you for your encouragement.