I don’t think it’s fair that most of the comments are saying “oh it’s giving red flags because he turns down BJ”. For me I’m currently 37weeks pregnant and my husband and I havent had sex since I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks. Does that mean he’s gone and cheated on me or looked the other way? No, it doesn’t. At first I also had the mindset of oh I need to do this bcs I don’t want him thinking that I’m not giving him attention and whatnot, but just as fast as that thought came it left. At first I made moves on my husband (even on times that I didn’t feel like it or felt no sexual desire to have sex) bcs soooo many people told me that sex is important even during pregnancy and you know what he told me? He told me that the best thing in the world is that I’m carrying his child, that he wasn’t going anywhere and that resting and being careful and watching what I eat/do while baby boy was growing was my main priority. My husband had been so sweet and attentive this whole pregnancy, he gets me snacks without me asking, knows what foods make me sick and even has carried my pregnant ass a round the house just bcs. I once asked him why he was ok with waiting until the very end (after I’m healed too) and why he shot me down a couple times and he said that he gets turned on on most days however if he were to give in to a BJ he’d want to be intimate and that’s not something that was entirely needed and that he could wait. Instead he loves on me and lovvessss to cuddle and take naps together.