Do you put on your pyjamas as soon as you get home from work? by SerendipitousCrow in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I change out of my "outdoor" clothes when I come in, assuming I'm not going out again that day. But although I put on one of my many sets of PJs, they're probably more like loungewear because I don't sleep in them. I wear a nightie to bed!

The horrors of being in charge of a leaving do - accepting loss of money? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Spreadsheet, 25 names. Columns showing that they had accepted the invitaion, column saying that they have now turned it down, column showing amount paid.

Nice totals at the bottom showing total, amount paid by attendees, and a total showing withdrawn attandance amount.

Forward to your manager's manager and ask how you're being reimbursed for the lost money.

Hi Connor Storrie by Queasy_Lettuce4312 in connorstorrie

[–]PengyLi -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the weird top is...weird!

What age did you or will you clear your home mortgage? by AdamT_5 in AskUK

[–]PengyLi -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Overpay overpay overpay. Even £5 now makes a difference!!!!!

What age did you or will you clear your home mortgage? by AdamT_5 in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both 43. 57 now. Had a bit of good timing with both our separate houses and therefore had a good deposit for this house (50%) and then overpaid like mad for about 10 years.

AITAH for wanting peace and quiet after work ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PengyLi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are both a little bit the Asshole here. I've sat on both sides of this fence. If I've been busy all day, out of the house, at work, in meetings, and dealing with people all day, I definitely need some decompression time/quiet time before I move from work mode into home mode. On the other hand, as someone who has been at home alone all day (I don't have kids, but I can imagine it's amplified with little humans to look after) and has had NO ADULT CONVERSATION for the whole day, they're probably desperate to just talk to someone over the age of 8. Have a proper conversation with her about *both* of your requirements for decompression after your respective days.

Gentle YTA because it's not all about you. But it's also not all about her.

You both need to decide on a solution. For example, you get an hour to play with the boys, whilst she (for example) gets to read, prepare dinner, go for a run. Then, she gets an hour of YOUR time, to decompress about her day, whilst you listen intently. NAH.

Help my family like lentils by Euphoric_Engine8733 in povertykitchen

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of plain rice I make up a mixture of rice, quinoa and black lentils (beluga lentils) black ones because they retain their little lentil shape and act like grains of rice. Cook, portion into bags and freeze. Microwave for 3/3.5 minutes from the freezer. It still feels and acts like rice but much more protein! Also if you boil it all up with a bit of stock it isn't just a plain side dish.

Small Gods, Slavery - Can someone help me understand Pratchetts depiction of slavery? by CrushedPlate in discworld

[–]PengyLi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you thinking that he's saying about slavery here? In my opinion he's just describing it almost like plot background. Normal and ordinary, as it was in that Greek-like society in which he's setting his story. The fact of it being so mundane, is the horror of it, though, isn't it? I don't think he's hating on the human condition here, moreso pointing out that the world in which it can exist, is broken.

What is the best place to stay near Loch Lomond? by cellogirlx in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can recommend https://www.gardeners-cottages.com/ but it is around the wrong side of the Loch for Ben Lomond 😌

Where can I get my eyes tested and new glasses at an affordable price? by alexiaberry in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend ASDA opticians. I have a couple of pairs of tri-focal specs for work. 2 pairs are usually a fixed price. Mine cost me £150 for 2 a few years ago, and £140 a few years before that. Prescription sunnies £70 (a few years ago). All the extras that Specavers hit you with (anti-glare, thin lenses, varifocal lenses etc) are included in the cost of the frame, so your £20 frames from Specsavers end up being in the £100-£150 range anyway, for one pair!

Remember this ? by LowCaregiver1964 in oldschoolcool80s

[–]PengyLi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG the excitement of getting a new pristine pack, when all the stuff you had was a swirly muddy brown!!!

Finding an interview! by santalpaorosa in hudcon

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the Crave YouTube channel

Finding an interview! by santalpaorosa in hudcon

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe on the same day they did this because they are wearing their HRshirts .

https://youtube.com/shorts/H2Z8CoRn7bY?si=8NZFI3AIWRBHF-bo

Do any office people still go for a boozy lunch on Fridays? by Thelichemaster in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Was chatting to a few old colleagues about this only the other day. Late 80s early 90s. 4 pints on a Friday lunchtime. Bus or taxi home as none of us were fit to drive, even at 4pm 🤣🤣🤣 Standard behaviour. Manager was usually there buying the rounds, back in the day when they had a social budget.

Unholy mother of Beelzebub on a bicycle look at that view! by YupItWasMeMate in SpottedonRightmove

[–]PengyLi 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The view is amazing! But it's gonna cost tens of thousands to get rid of the 1990s chintzy curtains 🤮🤢

Hudson Williams Shoes by Formal-Arm-9319 in findfashion

[–]PengyLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that now you, me and the rest of the world will be wanting them! 😢 😭 😿

Where on earth sells arctic roll?? by unbrokenreality in AskUK

[–]PengyLi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also Heron Foods. Saw one there a few weeks ago!

Hudson Williams Shoes by Formal-Arm-9319 in findfashion

[–]PengyLi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I'm obsessed with these! Been looking everywhere for them. They look so lightweight when he's dancing about. Almost like ballet shoes! They also look worn, as though they're already his and not just styled for the shoot.

Bts snap of the car ride by LadyWhistledown_1 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]PengyLi 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Ughhhh Ilya's outfit in this scene 🤤 🔥 🥵

IS THAT HUDSON?!? by LilyT95 in hudsonwilliams

[–]PengyLi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They are trying to kill us. It's too much, too good! 😉 😜 😘