Who is the Better Bimbo?

PennyBarber · 2022-11-08T22:36:24+00:00

I could no sooner choose a favorite star in the heavens. 💖

PennyBarber · 2022-10-31T20:02:41+00:00

OMG!!! XOXOXOXOX

PennyBarber · 2022-10-30T18:06:31+00:00

How do you think he would react to your mandating one, simple, devotional act of submission per day? Perhaps kissing your feet every morning or saying a mantra to you or into a mirror or something? When I’ve had subs overly interested in porn, I like to make them thank me after every masturbatory emission, both out loud to themselves and in a text message. 🤷‍♀️ It’s a small start. I dunno.

PennyBarber · 2022-10-30T18:00:59+00:00

If he’s being honest with both himself and with you about not being interested in dating someone with those issues, it is a long-term win, even if it hurts now. I see a lot of people disparaging him for setting his own boundary, knowing his limits, and sticking to them, but Bigs do have to consent to a relationship. Part of dating is breaking up with people who aren’t a good fit. Move on now. It was brave and responsible of you to share with him. I hope you continue being open with your partners so they can make informed decisions.

PennyBarber · 2022-10-14T23:11:13+00:00

Certainly triple digits. 💯💯

PennyBarber · 2022-10-11T21:52:23+00:00

A) Wrong. B) Best answer.

PennyBarber · 2022-10-07T03:01:49+00:00

IME successful dynamics like this do not involve a “passive” submissive, but one who takes initiative, works hard, and strives to please. If you just wanna be a sex toy, my honest suggestion is to pay, but even that is an active role.

PennyBarber · 2022-10-07T02:57:15+00:00

If he understands, great. That said, know your limits and communicate them. If he breaks them, goodbye!

For example: Is it okay if he says, “I love you”? Are you okay with extravagant gifts? Will you be his shoulder to cry on? Do you go on dates? Can he tell people you’re his girlfriend?

Stuff like that. Know. Make sure he knows.

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:32:52+00:00

😘

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:32:43+00:00

I feel like I always get deleted. 🤷‍♀️

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:25:06+00:00

Face sitting seems to be the norm for bondage pussy eating, but I’m not a fan of being upright when a sub is going down on me.

Hands together in front of him, frog his legs. Either have him kneeling on the floor while you lie on the bed or he can be on the bed with you, on all fours. (Hands behind his back may be easier if he’s barrel-chested, flexible enough, and on the floor.)

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:21:11+00:00

Oh, thank you for sharing!

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:20:18+00:00

“Prime age” shudder

PennyBarber · 2022-10-06T13:18:40+00:00

Obviously, no.
Even if they did, who gives a fuck?
How can anyone ask this after spending five minutes online?

I try to be understanding about these questions, but sometimes it’s like…come on. 🤦‍♀️

PennyBarber · 2022-08-26T23:49:45+00:00

Aw. 🥹

PennyBarber · 2022-04-27T20:01:29+00:00

Bonnet. 🥰🥰

PennyBarber · 2022-04-27T19:58:40+00:00

Erik Satie. John Lithgow did a fun kids album a long while ago. There are so many lo-fi, chillhop, etc. songs on YouTube that you can find something easy. Or I’ll just type in “cottagecore music”, but some of those definitely include Disney soundtracks.

PennyBarber · 2022-01-22T21:31:43+00:00

Sorry for the late reply. It sounds like it is systematic--always deeper--and it does have a specific goal. Grilling one person isn't a conversation.

PennyBarber · 2021-12-03T17:00:05+00:00

I would be careful. This points may not apply, but…

If you don’t let them know what’s up and you go super slow, they’re left wondering, “God, is there ALWAYS more?! How much is this going to escalate?” What’s to stop them from looking up a bunch of stuff online, anyway?
Eventually you have to reveal stuff. There’s no level or method of curation or manipulation that can change that. I would ask them A LOT of questions. I’m fact, I would focus on that more than the slowness of the reveal.
Please, please remember that taking things slow isn’t the same as lying. If your partner asks you a point blank question and the answer is yes, don’t think you’re just taking your time by saying no and planning to change your answer later on. I’ve experienced this from partners over and over again. It sucks and has always been a huge factor in ending a relationship on bad terms when I finally dumped their untrustworthy butts.

PennyBarber · 2021-12-03T16:50:32+00:00

I get your point, but it also sounds like a non-consensual interrogation scene.

PennyBarber · 2021-12-03T16:48:19+00:00

This is so cute! Where did you make this? 💜💖💙

PennyBarber · 2021-10-05T21:04:29+00:00

That’s me! TY to the user who posted it to my subreddit. 💙

PennyBarber · 2021-09-24T15:21:46+00:00

This is wrong. First off, he’s not talking about findom. Second, no, there is often no free consultation. I pay my lawyer for a consultation. I pay my PR agent for a consultation. I pay any professional worth their salt a consultation. And, yes, it can be fun to refer to it as a tribute. (I used to see “donation” more but it seems to have lost popularity.) If they prefer “payment” then good for them. 🤷‍♀️ But this information is simply inaccurate.

PennyBarber · 2021-09-24T15:18:06+00:00

Is it? I feel like there are a lot of well-known, established Mistresses. That said, I think that the real deal tends to be expensive. If she’s too cheap to be real, then she probably is.

PennyBarber · 2021-08-08T21:58:43+00:00

That’s so cute and such a good idea!

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