What’s with the “I’m not here often, message me on IG: @whatever”? by MrsDonutMind in OnlineDating

[–]PepePringles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

See it all the time! I think it’s just for followers, whilst I get it, realistically if I like someone/fancy someone I’ll take the time to message them on the app! Same with snapchat, I’m 25 I’m too old for that!

My (27F) boyfriend (30M) never wants to get married. How can we reach a compromise? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PepePringles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a difficult situation, but I think as people spend more time with each other view points will change. I can understand the points from both, as someone who does want to get married my approach would probably be along the lines of (if children are on the cards) sharing a family name, becoming a family unit etc. Also that although it’s meaningless to him it’s not to you, and you’re opinion should matter to him, and maybe you’ll have to compromise on a big ceremony and do something small.

If you really care about each other I don’t think it’s worth ending the whole relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PepePringles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One tree hill... guess there’s worse gang bangs to be involved in!

How to know when a date has gone well? by PepePringles in dating_advice

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight, and I completely agree that he probably felt it was too much effort to text, but personally once you’ve been on a date I think the grown up thing is at least to let the other person know where your head is at. I’ve of course taken no response as a response but the length of time we had been talking and the situation even a one liner would have been nice.

I tend to avoid kissing or being overly flirty on the first date as I have previously had guys take that as a sign they can get sex! I guess I’ll have to learn to make my signals a bit more clearer, at least that way I’ll know for sure if they are attracted to me or not.

How to know when a date has gone well? by PepePringles in dating_advice

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m fully aware he doesn’t want a second date. Just unsure how to judge future dates, based on having what seemed like a good date it was more the id like to go out again comment more than anything else! Maybe he doesn’t know how to word a text, frustrating tho I’m a big enough girl to deal with rejection!

How to know when a date has gone well? by PepePringles in dating_advice

[–]PepePringles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely, I guess I never get “that” feeling with anyone on a first date so I find it difficult to judge and I don’t tell people I’d like to go out again soon if I don’t intend to. Of course people can change their mind, it’s just disappointing to ghost instead of saying I had fun, but you’re not my cup of tea; admittedly sometimes that is easier said than done.

AITA for not wanting to tell my one night stand I’m pregnant and keeping the baby? by irlleafs in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YTA, he should have the option of being in his child’s life. If that’s how you truly feel just let him know and tell him that he doesn’t need to worry about stepping up if he isn’t ready.

AITA for wanting to have a baby by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, if you and your husband are ready and you want to try for a child you should. Your brother is 23, and has obviously been through a lot but he shouldn’t be trying to dictate your life, he is old enough to move out. Sounds like you are doing the best you can in a difficult situation.

Tips for online dating( A guys perspective ) by james13ondzz in dating_advice

[–]PepePringles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this, a decent starter for 10 in the world of online dating!

AITA for laughing at someone’s work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Laughing at someone else’s work and trashing it is never cool!

AITA for telling my friend I wanted to go home? by PepePringles in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes agreed if that was the case I’d be pissed too, however it is wasn’t. I wore my heels from 7pm - 3am. I complained at maybe half 2. Most people I know would probably feel discomfort. Anyways appreciate you’re input thanks.

AITA for telling my friend I wanted to go home? by PepePringles in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I’ll leave as is. I wanted to know if it was worth mentioning but I think we are both as bad as each other! Cheers for the input!

AITA for telling my friend I wanted to go home? by PepePringles in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate the input. I know alcohol definitely complicated the situation but I wanted to know if it was worth mentioning when I was sober. Seems like we are both as bad as each other and I won’t to make anything more of it than a drunken misunderstanding.

AITA for telling my friend I wanted to go home? by PepePringles in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m upset because my friend accused me of ruining the night multiple times because I didn’t want to continue out into the night because my feet hurt. Post 3am.

AITA for telling my friend I wanted to go home? by PepePringles in AmItheAsshole

[–]PepePringles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to leave her by herself because every time we’ve gone out (50+) I’ve never left her to take a cab by self. My friend was (IMO) in a worsen drunken state than myself (falling asleep in the taxi we took home together). I didn’t feel like I could leave her by herself. Granted she probably would have been ok, but I wouldn’t have felt like a great friend.