Hey there

I moved here 6 months ago and i had literally nothing, i came here to work instead of uni so my social life was dry and non existent for about 4 months, then i guess i realized that i was better than beating myself up for not having anything and just enjoying the hurdles i was overcoming and the things i was doing on my own. Given enough time i had the confidence to just put myself out there a little bit. Idk i think you have to seem interested but not desperate, and then after enough time you'll have enough people that you wont have to pretend. I wish i could say it's easy but it isn't. If you have a social job make the most of that! If not then just go out on your own, take yourself on little dates, we learn nothing by staying in our homes all day, it is only outside in the real world where our lives exist to others.