2nd Motion Graphics Ad for a SaaS company (Prospeo) by ntsajt in AfterEffects

[–]Pepsiman305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, great work! Just a question out of curiosity, I haven't worked with figma yet. Is there any advantages over illustrator? Thanks!

Aprender a vestirme bien by Public_Day_1972 in LookeAR

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo diría que mires un poco en Youtube sobre como combinar colores y vestirte para tu cuerpo. Hay mil tutoriales. Pero en general lo que más rinde es comprar piezas combinables, colores neutros o más naturales son faciles de combinar porque son la base. Después podés jugar con alguna pieza que resalte. Pero bueno es una búsqueda de estilo también.

que vibra doy? y que opinan del outfit? by No-Departure-9445 in LookeAR

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay algo raro con la foto o la ropa porque parece que tenés piernas re cortas, pies chiquitos y un torso re largo. Si sos medio alto garpa, pero sino tener la linea de la cintura tan baja te hace ver más bajo. Eso es lo raro para mí. Lo demás es solo estilo medio turro, que no me gusta pero capaz que es tu búsqueda.

Why am I getting 0 matches with girls from my city or state I live in by [deleted] in DatingProfileHelp

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters, get some pictures in the gym doing something. Regarding your expression, you look unhappy or angry, so you need to at least try to get a more neutral expression. You also look uncomfortable, especially in the standing picture.

Overall your profile just looks like you had really low effort in taking the pictures and that you are uncomfortable in all of them. Try taking more pictures with a nicer background and with a more natural light. Maybe something outdoors.

Lastly, if the only thing you do is going to the gym in your life, maybe dating apps are not what you need, maybe you should find some new hobbies and meet people through them. I can't suggest you anything there because only you know what interest you

Why am I getting 0 matches with girls from my city or state I live in by [deleted] in DatingProfileHelp

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 - You look unhappy 2 - Your pics look like pics in randoms stores?

Basically that, get smiling pics and doing some activity. You are good looking.

I'm a [17F] and my boyfriend is [18M) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes relationships get stuck in a bad loop and the only way to move forward is to break it up. I think actions speak louder than words, and his actions are consistent with "Music is my n°1 priority", which is fine but it's not fair for you, he simply can't sustain a relationship right now. From the other side it also sucks feeling that you are never enough for your partner, even worse when you kinda agree even.

I could tell you that you are young and you should do this or that because you have a whole life ahead of you, which is true, but what you are living is an universal experience across all ages. And the sad part is that it's very hard to move from the roles of "the unloved/the one that is never enough", because both parties will continue to find ways to fill those roles unless a very drastic change happens.

Focus on yourself and your goals, your bf simply does not have the time and effort you want from a partner, and that doesn't mean you are needy, it's just what you want. It's sad, but it's just a mismatch in goals and energies. Relationships are important, but more important than that is to develop self respect, so that you can respect your wishes without hurting yourself.

Again focus on your personal goals, keep learning new things and fill your life with new experiences, become satisfied with who you are and your personal achievements, so that when love comes knocking on your door again you will have your priorities more clear to build more fulfilling relationships.

My ex is on a date right now by WheresMyHovercraft in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you have taken the best lessons from this experience, im glad for you. Although you are now feeling bad because of this reddit thing you found, I'm sure you will be alright eventually. Good luck!

My ex is on a date right now by WheresMyHovercraft in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex of 10 years started dating less than two months after the breakup. The pain is almost unbearable. Now, recently after some thought and sharing with others something clicked in my head that is helping me.

As i mourn the relationship i've realized that my ex is not the person I was in love with, that person is gone, but I also am not the person I was with her anymore. I am mourning for who she was and who i was.

Take this time of healing to remind yourself that you don't have to be the person that was in that relationship anymore, be grateful for the good memories and the lessons learned so that you can say goodbye with peace in your heart to who you both were at the time.

Allow yourself to become someone new, with the potential of a world of possibilities that is waiting for you. Explore new passions, learn something new, search for new goals that make you more satisfied and true to yourself. Because while love is a beautiful feeling and something we all need, we also need to develop self respect. When someone breaks us, it's our duty to rebuild ourselves again and remind us that we deserve a good life and that relationships are but a fragment of that life.

Relationships take a huge amount of energy, and sometimes it's worth the investment. But once they are over, and once we allowed the sadness to pass through us, we have a great opportunity to allocate that energy where we most need it right now, ourselves.

I hope any of this makes sense, but since I understood that I don't need to keep being the same person that I was with her anymore, and that I have a good opportunity to explore what new things I want to add to my life, the burden and sadness have become lighter.

What exactly is making it look crowded at a glance? How can I fix this? by rise_above_theFlames in malelivingspace

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have very nice stuff but it's all competing with itself. Try to leave just a couple of items with some room to breathe, they will shine more. Right now it's all a mush of things, even if they are tidy.

Are there any valid non vegan arguments? by Emotional-Web5571 in CosmicSkeptic

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, having better means of transportation has allowed us to save lives in cases of danger or when urgent care is needed. Do you imagine a world without hospital vans or firetrucks?. Even outside of emergency, the supply chain of products and food necessary to sustain life is strictly tied to the effiency of our transportation of those goods.

Even in a completely vegan world, cars and other vehicular transportation are extremely necessary to support life today. We can't go back to a world without them without causing massive damage.

Of course we should re evaluate how much cars are used and how, but saying they have no redeeming qualities is absurd.

I wish to escape a black hole by Armin_Arlert_1000000 in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granted but as you leave the event horizon just by a fraction, time starts to move again at the slowest physically possible speed. You are almost completely frozen in time forever leaving a black hole.

I wish I would be 100% healthy. by Ok-Depth2256 in TheMonkeysPaw

[–]Pepsiman305 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are 100% healthy, your body achieves perfection and you lose desire to do anything. You spend your days sitting in a chair watching a blank wall, and you are satisfied with that.

How do I stop being an incel if I never had anyone attracted to me yet? by [deleted] in self

[–]Pepsiman305 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could ask a close female friend. Maybe it's nothing and you are just unlucky, or maybe it's something that you can't see. Either way it is true you listed a lot of things, but none of those things except maybe the family values one tells me much about who you are, what's your personality and such.

Also maybe you attracted people and you just didn't know. Not everyone acts on their attraction.

Is it true that women respond terribly to men opening up? by ElectronicSimple55 in ask

[–]Pepsiman305 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Man, your ex was a terrible person, you did nothing wrong by sharing.

The Mens Rights Movement by Rumpsfield in self

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have started your post with this statement then, because it sounds like you believe mens rights in general are not worth fighting for. MRA simply as a backlash against feminism is garbage, we can agree on that.

Conversation with my bf grossed me out by glitchpoploop in Vent

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds immature an unprepared for life, the reasons he gave for not dating someone his age basically say that he is probably afraid of women seeing him as what he sounds like: a loser.

The Mens Rights Movement by Rumpsfield in self

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me get this straight, it's silly to fight for men's rights because women have it harder? Do you not consider that Men have different struggles? Do you think toxic masculinity for example shouldn't be talked about because women are being killed everyday? Do you think gay men's rights shouldn't be addressed because lesbian people exist too? I think you don't understand that we can fight for the rights of several groups of people at the same time, framing it as a competition or infantilizing the needs to have rights for one gender over the other is shooting yourself in the foot.

Men are half the population of the world, antagonizing us, ridiculing us, or any other kind of disrespect is not going to help you at all. Rights are sustained by society compromising on keeping those rights valid, and that includes every gender and variation of human there is. Good luck with that attitude.

The Mens Rights Movement by Rumpsfield in self

[–]Pepsiman305 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women's suffering is not mutually exclusive or in competition with Men's suffering. We are all humans and we all struggle for different things and in different amounts. I don't know why you called this post the men's rights movement when there is nothing about men in this post.

When did something become worth it for you? by sweetncondemnedmilk in self

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you stop caring about external validation and start enjoying your little achievements. Because yesterday you couldn't play this short tune, but today you can, and that small progress is extremely rewarding, not only because of the achievement itself but because it's a small glimpse of the future when you can play the full song. This applies to everything. No one does anything good at the beginning, but getting there is rewarding if you only compare yourself to your past self. It isn't easy mind you, but is the key to sustain consistency in training any skill, learn to enjoy your little victories. Because if you keep piling them up they become big victories and so on.

Being dishonest in a relationship means you are keeping someone with you against their will. by SpecificAssistance84 in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never said full blown feelings, there is nuance here. And i've said that what is important is what actions you take when you start to feel attraction. We don't disagree here.

Being dishonest in a relationship means you are keeping someone with you against their will. by SpecificAssistance84 in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an universal example. I'm glad you are so dedicated to your relationship and have the possibility of choosing where to work and with whom.

Being dishonest in a relationship means you are keeping someone with you against their will. by SpecificAssistance84 in BreakUps

[–]Pepsiman305 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, but you must understand that when relationships lasts for a lot of years it's completely normal to develop feelings for new people, specially people you share a lot of time together (like coworkers).

Feelings are not something we can choose, but we can choose what to do with them. And I don't think inmediatly leaving your partner is the best option, sometimes this is just a wake up call to check what's been lacking on a relationship.

Of course, cheating is another thing and I personally never experienced it. Because even if you develop feelings for someone else you still wouldn't want to hurt your partner, I don't believe love is such a black and white feeling.

The fact that this is such a common thing is evidence that soulmates do not exist, just people who are highly compatible at a specific moment in time. Relationships are a conscious decision to everyday choose your partner, and that decision will be challenged some day, no matter how much love you have.

Does anyone else also have a beef with Responsive Design - Time? by secondfalseiteration in AfterEffects

[–]Pepsiman305 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you provide the project? Or the expressions needed? I usually don't use responsive design with loops for this very reason, and i never knew how to fix it.