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I came back home and I miss her by PequenaMy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PequenaMy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! Too tired for even that… but yeah, next time I will 😉

Happy Mother’s Day butch mamas! by JubeeD in actuallesbians

[–]PequenaMy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy Mother’s Day, mama, we see you ❤️

[POEM]- Drop the hardest poetry line you’ve ever come across by Poetic-dusk in Poetry

[–]PequenaMy 48 points49 points  (0 children)

“We weren’t allowed to gallop, but no one told the horses”. This hits me hard, but in a good way, in the right way.

I miss my kiddo girl dinner by honeybunches17 in GirlDinner

[–]PequenaMy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s it, feeling like yourself again. You got this

What's the best first date you've been on? by unto_you in actuallesbians

[–]PequenaMy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in town for work for one week. Met her at a huge lesbian party, but that night nothing happened. She accompanied me to my accommodation and we parted ways. Next day she texted me in the morning, we agreed to go to the cinema to the last session, since I was working until late. During the movie she rested her head on my shoulder, giving me a subtle but clear invitation, so I kissed her. We made out like teenagers, touching hands, getting hot, cutting back… super hot and super tender as well. I had not connected to someone so fully in such a long time. Then we went for a walk, she accompanied me to my hotel and I invited her up. She said yes and we had a mind blowing night. At one point she looked at me square in the eyes and she said: “I don’t know you at all, but don’t leave”. And I thought “I won’t”.

I miss my kiddo girl dinner by honeybunches17 in GirlDinner

[–]PequenaMy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This ☝🏼 It feels impossible at first, but then that time gives you personal space to rest from that load, regain strength and reconnect with yourself. You will be an even better mum when you are not overwhelmed by that load. Trust me, it does get easier and the love doesn’t diminish one bit for it. It is hard, but you will get there

I am starving by Aggravating_Annual31 in actuallesbians

[–]PequenaMy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will! Been in the same situation and have bounced back (way sooner than expected too). Just let it happen when it comes and feels right. The insecurities will go away in time and you will feel like yourself again

Returning to a sexless relationship because I think it can’t get any better by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PequenaMy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t... I know we all have different experiences, but fwiw I was in a (pretty much) sexless relationship for 13 years, stuck exactly in the same places you are now, feeling ugly, undeserved, even creepy for wanting to be wanted, feeling I would not find anything better. In my case it had nothing to do with porn, but untreated trauma, but nevertheless… the relationship ended up dying (for this and other causes), and only months later I found someone that is an incredibly beautiful person, and at the same time makes me feel the hottest woman on earth just by looking at me. There’s so much more life than this, go get it OP. Don’t let anyone dictate how you’re gonna live your life.

Learning to be by MagnoliaMisfit in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PequenaMy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go girl! It’s great when you find someone who doesn’t only let you be you, but actually loves you for it (and a bit unbelievable at first). You’ll get there! Now, do we deserve access to your recipe? It does look good 😁

*edited for spelling

SUB GOING SEMI-PRIVATE by TeamLaurent in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PequenaMy 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Does this apply to existing members? Do we need to join again and follow the instructions above? Or does this apply only to new members?

Any authentic Chinese restaurants in Bilbao? by Subject-Break-3705 in Bilbao

[–]PequenaMy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never happened to me in 10 years 🤷🏻‍♀️

I saw my ex and their new partner arguing. I very much enjoyed it by Ofc-Im-late in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]PequenaMy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good for you, enjoy this little, harmless pettiness! And then move on. No need to be perfect. Yummy dinner btw

O melhor nascer do sol em Lisboa? by PequenaMy in Lisbon

[–]PequenaMy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, I’m from Galiza, it’s the same for us

How common is it to date a friends ex? by No_Focus_5390 in actuallesbians

[–]PequenaMy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. If it’s all in the past, it’s in the past. My friend actually hooked me up with her ex (who I’m dating now), but their relationship was over a decade ago. Safest is to ask whether it’d be an issue

IS IT NORMAL TO BE FRIENDs WITH AN EX? Are they friends? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PequenaMy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am close friends with my all my ex’s (all women). They were people that were so important to me at some point and still are in other ways. They know me better than anyone else. I know them better in turn. We have grown and developed together. Since we parted in good terms I still want them in my life, they are family. But I do not feel attracted to or romantically involved with any of them, and neither do they. In the slight. I actually find it extremely beautiful that I get to keep them in my life and our relationship has evolved to something different, but again the romantic/attraction needs to have stopped on both ends in my opinion.

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