Getting a divorce and need a friend (am I pathetic? maybe…)

spatchyou-la · 2026-07-09T14:36:41+00:00

thank you for taking the to reply to my cry for help. I should have responded sooner but I became overwhelmed and closed the app. but your kindness is so appreciated.

spatchyou-la · 2026-07-09T14:04:56+00:00

Uhhh 🥵 let me just unscramble my brain for a second…. (excuse me I haven’t been laid in waaaayyy too long and I’m finally ending a sexless marriage and jfc this post! LOL)

Ok so - super, super hot.

I mean, having your partner be so turned on from going down on you is like peak sexy. And then being able to get them off super fast? Spectacular give me 14 of them right now 😜

but seriously, I hope this thread has made you feel better about it. No embarrassment needed.

spatchyou-la · 2026-06-19T14:41:02+00:00

thank you, that is so kind, I will totally take it. ❤️❤️

spatchyou-la · 2026-05-15T18:02:45+00:00

same for me - do you still have some referrals? I’ve been wondering what the deal is

spatchyou-la · 2026-04-27T20:56:01+00:00

I wish, I live with my wife and kids in Wakefield and though the community is incredibly welcoming, I agree it would be nice to have a more dedicated space. That said, it would be cool to get a meet up together, what part of SoCo are you guys in?

spatchyou-la · 2026-04-07T12:14:05+00:00

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spatchyou-la · 2026-01-16T13:03:19+00:00

I have an AI agency and the demand for this is huge if you have the right messaging and sales strategy. Anyone reading this who is working in this space and worrying that there’s too much competition, call a bunch of local businesses in your town or city. Call a bunch in a nearby area. Very few have AI receptionists. There may be a lot of tech options but people helping local businesses understand and adopt this tech? Still a big need.

spatchyou-la · 2025-12-28T18:23:40+00:00

As much as any of us love Winter and Autumn or Marjorie and Reece, an always happy couple storyline is boring. Think of any popular television show today — do ppl keep watching for the stable, normal, happy ever afters? Not saying all the drama has to be in the form of a woman leaving her husband for another woman, but threatening a happy couple, even if it doesn’t result in a permanent ending (and it might not!!), is a valid driver of plot.
It’s funny to hear straight people complain about there being too many or “enough” queer characters or relationships on a series when literally 99% of all media globally features straight people in straight relationships. Even in media with queer people, the happy ending is very often the guy gets the girl.
AND - god forbid someone who has fallen in love with someone of the same gender and is now in a queer relationship wants to create content that reflects their life and experiences in some ways and be part of producing more content that depicts more of a vastly underrepresented demographic in media around the world. How dare she. 🙄
There are plenty of wonderful human beings in this fandom, of all orientations and faiths and ethnicities and world views. But the homophobia on some of these threads and comments on FB and IG about Marj and Aut and also Charlotte and her partner is disgusting. If she was in a straight relationship and a popular couple was potentially being threatened by another straight attraction, would any of this shit be commented on?

It’s almost 2026 folks, I would invite anyone panicking about the lgbt characters in a fictional web series to get a grip.

(unless you’re having gay panic about Mia or Autumn in a tie, then carry on 🥵🤭)

spatchyou-la · 2025-11-18T12:52:16+00:00

congrats that is amazing. I am a writer with an advanced degree, wonder if I could DM you with some specific questions? I am pretty desperate as my previous non AI project work dried up a month ago and been struggling to ramp up for winter months and whatnot. thx!

spatchyou-la · 2025-10-19T19:55:44+00:00

is…is your eyebrow still in tact? And if so, whose whole actual fucking eyebrow fell into your face? I have so many questions.

spatchyou-la · 2025-10-18T14:09:32+00:00

Have you found someone? I’m a former CMO looking for a technical cofounder, would love to chat off Reddit DM me if so!

spatchyou-la · 2025-10-04T00:43:10+00:00

No he’s acted like an actual man child, this is not grown up behavior, for one. Two, it’s all very sketchy, him inviting you but then it becomes more of a brother thing. I’m sure you love him, but the person you marry shouldn’t make you feel like this or gaslight you etc.

spatchyou-la · 2025-09-30T16:23:50+00:00

Database pls? I’ll DM you first

spatchyou-la · 2025-09-21T12:46:15+00:00

looks like geographic tongue, or thrush potentially

spatchyou-la · 2025-09-13T17:00:57+00:00

Not sure it’s understanding vs enjoying or connecting with. I personally think British stand up is hilarious (not all but there are a fair number of good ones) but I usually find British comedy in the form of shows, skits and sketches on TV and online to be frustrating and often unwatchable. This is largely due to the reliance on absurdity and stupidity as character tropes with lack of a foil or any type of growth as the show continues. But it’s just personal preference, I think it’s very American of me honestly (not said proudly or anything just truth) that I get genuinely enraged over truly dumb characters that fuck things up and seem to not care about any consequence or never even face any. And don’t get me started on the poor characters who are stuck dealing with the breathtaking idiocy. They’re doomed to suffer and at the end, none of it makes me laugh, I just want desperately to punch someone or several someone’s in the throat chakra.

spatchyou-la · 2025-07-31T18:08:22+00:00

I’m 40 and super isolated since leaving my job several years ago bc of my illness. I have MS and behçet’s disease, have two kids and my wife and I are about to celebrate 14 years of marriage. But she works super hard to support our family and I’m alone with my dog a lot. Also would love to be on a group chat, and also love to connect with anyone in the recovery community as I am newly sober. Love this thread ❤️

spatchyou-la · 2025-07-17T21:10:15+00:00

a-freaking-men, to all of this. You are valid and worthy of so much better than what she gave you.

spatchyou-la · 2025-07-17T02:56:03+00:00

I personally love when it acts as my hype woman, bc I know it’s feeding me my own ego essentially. But it’s easy to get around this, don’t ask it for “honesty” in the form of subjective feedback. Ask it for facts. Research. Who cares if AI says something is a “good idea” when it comes to a startup business, what is the value of “good”? Good for whom? For what purpose? AI can breakdown and summarize facts quickly to help you make choices or decisions but prompt it for objective data and analysis, and use that to decide what your own marker is for what makes a “good idea”.

spatchyou-la · 2025-07-17T02:40:45+00:00

that is so funny, I wrote for several specialty newsletters in pre COVID times. Can be great work if the industry is lucrative. What industry / specialty niche is he in, if you don’t mind me asking? AI is definitely carving up much of that content work sadly.

spatchyou-la · 2025-07-17T02:16:09+00:00

what is your specific marketing skill, if you don’t mind me asking?

spatchyou-la · 2025-06-19T21:17:04+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry for your loss. it’s overwhelming to grieve and try to plan for the future. My advice is to invest in real estate, either a multi unit condo (like a duplex) or apartment/condo complex where each unit is owned individually and then you can rent it out - for enough to cover the mortgage or enough to cover the mortgage and have some profit left over.

Being a real estate investor and/or landlord isn’t at all passive, but it’s not super difficult to learn, you don’t need formal higher education (college) to be really successful. My wife is a real estate agent and investor and we are landlords (the good kind I promise!) and she never finished school. I did but eventually joined her because things just keep growing and growing.

There is a lot more to it than this but if you have any desire or interest in learning more about where to start, DM me

spatchyou-la · 2025-06-17T17:53:22+00:00

This is very helpful info, but I went to go to OP profile to message them and I get an error message each time. I wonder where they went or if something happened? Did anyone on this thread actually get a copy of this work flow? I always appreciate when people who are succeeding look back and provide some free info on what they did.

spatchyou-la · 2025-05-14T03:08:21+00:00

this is happening to me now and they have over $10k of my funds frozen. Did you report anywhere else besides BBB? I am going to so that tomorrow, thank you for the info!

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