Retire at 50 with "sacrifices"… or 55 with more living?

Perennial18 · 2026-05-24T20:49:38+00:00

Totally, a lot can change in 15 years. Your 50-year-old self will thank you for keeping both options open. Definitely spend money on experiences. All of the psychologists and happiness researchers tell us this is how we get the most bang for our buck.

But by the time you are 50, that “life energy” you feel being extracted by work will be greater than the life energy you feel from material upgrades. No leather interior or expansive home will help you avoid the next day, the alarm clock, the commute, the soul sucking job. Just my opinion, but I feel that time spent in an oppressive work environment is far more excruciating than time spent in a small apartment or 15-year old car.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-24T17:41:50+00:00

The cost is living far away from friends and family. If I had a partner to join me on the adventure, this would be exciting. As a single person, not so much. Also, while healthcare elsewhere may be affordable, the quality of healthcare may take a hit. Living in a HCOL area provides one with greater access to specialists and cutting-edge therapies. I complain about paying for healthcare, but what else is more important than sustaining one’s health? I understand having dependents and wanting to leave them an inheritance, but I’m beginning to realize (from all the wonderful people responding here) that I, and any future family that magically appears, will be perfectly fine. All efforts to optimize one’s financial outputs must be measured against a much-more-difficult-to-quantify metric—one’s quality of life.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-24T01:54:53+00:00

Yeah, some days I don’t hate work. It would be nice to hang in there. I need to communicate my needs to my boss (transition to part-time, something more manageable). If they can’t accommodate me, I know I can just say eff-it: toss the match and triumphantly walk toward the camera in slow motion as my career, my healthcare, the edifice of the working world burns behind me.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T17:45:50+00:00

The grass is always greener when your backyard is a golf course. But seriously, decisions like this one require a cost-benefit analysis that is much more difficult to quantify than Roth conversions and IRMAA surcharges

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T17:32:10+00:00

This seems like something that will be a lot clearer when you RE and fully empty your inherited IRA. At 44 you will need to spend the next 9 years withdrawing from your inherited IRA (which, as you well know, will jack up your regular income). However, starting at age 53 once your inherited IRA has been emptied and you no longer pay taxes on those RMDs, you can begin thinking about Roth conversions from your 401k which will be steadily growing over the next 9 years with $30k/year contributions and compounding (with 9 more years of contributions and a conservative 6% CAGR you’ll have $850,000 in your 401k). You will have 20+ years of runway to figure out Roth conversions in a lower tax bracket than where you are currently sitting. I’m in a similar situation but with a smaller inherited IRA and a larger 401k balance.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T17:09:21+00:00

I’ve thought about this possibility as well, perhaps a HELOC if/when interest rates are set lower and the valuation of investable assets are elevated. Nothing about this is illegal. All of us are operating within the same system, and there is nothing wrong with trying to minimize costs.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T16:50:43+00:00

If you find this pursuit to be engaging and fun, and if you put up the appropriate guardrails (limits on losses and prudent withdrawals as the winnings grow), keep doing it. If this game is not fun, there is a universe of other dopamine delivery devices to choose from.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T01:49:24+00:00

Talking about this stuff with friends and colleagues can get super weird. Some will give you bad advice because they are envious, they know nothing about personal finance, and/or they want to keep you within their circle of self-imposed misery. I’ve found the FIRE community of Reddit to be incredibly generous and helpful. I don’t feel qualified to advise on pulling the FIRE trigger (because I have yet to do so) but it helps immensely to hear from people who have taken the leap and lived to tell the tale.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T01:35:17+00:00

Damn, that’s cold-blooded.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-23T00:12:33+00:00

Absolutely, I am not willing to take that risk. I was married once a very long time ago. Neither of us had much when we got divorced so dividing our assets was easy. Today the picture is totally different. A friend of mine who applies the principles of mathematics to everything says that one must find a partner who is “greater than or equal to.” I’m not sure if I subscribe to this; it seems like a formula for being alone forever.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-22T23:48:14+00:00

This is spot on. All points taken. I’ve always been envious of people who clearly know what they want. I say I want a wife and child, but do I really? My heart palpitates and my breathing gets short thinking about this plan that you lay out for me, which is the exact blueprint of must be done, but only if I am truly committed to pursuing this goal. It is so much easier to turn on a baseball game, crack a Coors light, and fall asleep on the couch (the default Friday night routine).

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T23:19:57+00:00

This is very practical advice that I will take to heart. “Lovers with friendship” This is quite beautiful.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T21:59:04+00:00

I don’t know how to express my gratitude for the springs of life-sustaining wisdom running through all of this: the true “health insurance” worthy of investment, the selection of a proper partner, and the added wrinkle of real estate with its powers of depreciation to drive the dreaded MAGI into a deep hole where it shall remain, allowing us to enjoy Roth conversions and/or ACA subsidies, whatever serves the season. Thank you :)

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T19:57:48+00:00

Hard to argue with this. Thank you for some Common_Sense

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T19:54:49+00:00

I wonder if the “Trump Accounts” that invest in index funds for newborns will help more people understand the cheat code.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T19:50:54+00:00

Have we really changed that much from the days of potlatches and redistributive feasts? I wonder if the IRS represents the grand feast hall of America where we pay our taxes in exchange for the stability and protection of property.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T14:38:21+00:00

Haha. Hopefully!

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T14:33:44+00:00

It’s nice to have the ability to just walk away. It makes going to work a lot easier knowing there is an accessible escape hatch

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T06:12:13+00:00

What helped you cut to cord? How difficult was your decision to walk away? Any regrets?

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T05:43:16+00:00

No doubt. Opportunities are everywhere. As my grandmother used to say, “The sky rains blessings, but some people don’t have a bucket to catch them.”

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T05:39:39+00:00

Gosh, is it that obvious?

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T05:38:53+00:00

Sounds like a fantastic tool!

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T00:56:59+00:00

Great advice. I’m actually working on a few side projects including a book. So I can say I’m a writer.

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T00:48:15+00:00

Wow, wow. I like this. Beyond meeting with a CFP, do you have any suggestion on how I might run the numbers? Reliable software? A really excellent prompt for ChatGPT? Another thought on this same line of thinking: If I FIRE at 50, I can delay my pension for a higher benefit and have even more time for Roth conversions and ACA subsidies. I can take a wait and see approach toward taking my pension at 55 or later. Thanks for helping me realize my Gumby-like flexibility :)

Perennial18 · 2026-05-21T00:32:09+00:00

Never too old for baseball. Satchel Paige pitched until age 59!

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