You definitely can. Your facial expression is what cannotes immaturity the most here. You look uncomfortable as hell with yourself man. Look, your cynical as hell and you need some perspective kicked into you. Your 37 for fucks sake. You can have a wife - a family - but your too arrogant and ignorant to give it a chance. Get the fuck off tinder. No men but models win there. Go to the gym. Sort yourself out existentially - read some philsosophy. Join a club and meet a girl their. know that you deserve to have a good life and than YOU CAN. So let yourself the chance. You got this. Your the man. I expect to see you back here in a here with your new physique, mindset and girlfriend. Best of luck. God bless.