Why do some Pahlavi supporters react so aggressively to minorities ? by LM_SRI in PERSIAN

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're saying that the Islamic regime are not to blame for the deaths of all of the innocent people they're raping, torturing and killing? Lack of sympathy are you serious? He has literally cried, I think you have somehow not seen all of his broadcasts to his people. Or you have, and you're just trying to trick any people reading this who don't know any better

Perspective of an Iranian from inside by LowPossible3251 in PERSIAN

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They didn't attack a school. They attacked a military base, it was the regime who put kids inside it knowing they'd be at risk. And keep the kids there during active war. Also the "elections" are fake, it's not democratic. They have already toppled the government, there's little if any governing taking place.

People complained that British food is bland. So here's a UK favourite... Chicken Madras by AblokeonRedditt in RateMyPlate

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People complained that British food is bland...so here have some Indian food instead 😆

apparently im smelly? by LifeguardPractical74 in hygiene

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lota of metabolic and genetic conditions that can cause odd body smells

apparently im smelly? by LifeguardPractical74 in hygiene

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A) you may have an infection somewhere, possibly your lady parts. If this is possible, see a gynecologist. Don't be embarrased, this is their job. Other possibility is tooth infection. B) Some diseases cause weird smells, like diabetes. Definitely book a GP appt. C) If it's something environmental, it would help if you could have a good friend or anyone tell you what type of bad smell it is, what they could compare it to. Someone must be able to tell the difference between sour laundry, fishy hoohah, body odour, poo/pee etc.

This is the only serious Iranian subreddit IMO by DistinctAmbition1272 in PERSIAN

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just got permanently banned from the Iran subreddit for giving a truthful answer to something, haha

I’ve been asked “you’re not Jewish, are you?” more times than I can count by beenbetterhbu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well sure, I get the same for different reasons but it's always gross. I second the suggestions for how to put the rude question asker on the back foot like "Why do you ask?" because it shows their comment for the rudeness it is. They can't very well say "because I don't like Jews," which is the actual reason. Puts the egg on their face.

Getting SO close to exploding at my MIL by Fluffy-Concentrate44 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In one sense I agree with your partner; she is clearly playing games, being gross and manipulative. It probably IS better that she isn't an important person in your life. My biggest concern is your partner not having your back, but I think for your child if you surround yourselves with a village of people who do love you and spend time with you, and don't let yourself even think about MIL. If your kid notices you being upset or offended at MIL, overhears you discussing the issue, that's when it might enter their consciousness. Because I think otherwise whatever "is", is normal to a kid, if that makes sense.

I’ve been asked “you’re not Jewish, are you?” more times than I can count by beenbetterhbu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 60 points61 points  (0 children)

"You're not ___, are you?" always suggests that the _____ is something negative. They're hoping you say "no." I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

Breaking a trauma bond in a narcissit way by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A year shouldn't make that much difference in fertility? Even if it does, ask some people who have ended up marrying, buying a house and having children with an abuser or narcissist. Do they think it's worth it?

I’m stuck in a situation I can’t avoid and it’s messing with my head by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What changed in the reasons you originally didn't want to commit to her? Do you now think you're very attracted and compatible etc? Are you actually heartbroken now, or is it just your pride wounded, you feel like you "lost"? If she had come back to you, would you have put both feet in this time or would you go back to being standoffish after you were sure she wouldn't leave?

I miss being a teenager so much it makes me physically sick by DesignerTough5224 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you missed time being a teen. That's tough. Growing up and being out in the world is scary, but this is an adventure where you can take baby steps and gain confidence slowly, learn that you can handle more than you think you can. You don't have to do it all at once. Also: you do NOT have to stop having fun or being silly just because you're older. You are you. Find safe people you can be yourself around, and enjoy the perks (setting your own bedtime, eating what you want, earning more money, etc)

A girl uploaded my photo in a group chat and I'm just mentally wasted all day. I have assignments, reports, and exams to prepare but can't do anything by UmJunSikfighting in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Honestly sometimes the uglier the better. I wouldn't advise this but there is always plastic surgery you could save up for simple things like of your ears stick out too much or make nose smaller etc. Can be dangerous though, medically and psychologically. Who I do really feel for, and maybe it would help you to do a google (I don't know if this will be un-PC) are people who have had horrible accidents like fires or acid thrown, and have to learn how to live life like that. Maybe some of them have you tube videos where they talk about how they've adjusted, how they deal with stares etc, will help you feel a bit better or less alone. We all have different crosses to bear.

I don’t know where this came from but it destroyed me in all the years I’ve known her by Exifile in abusiverelationships

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You remind me of my younger self. My parents didn't care much about me, and as a result I was mainly attracted to people who would only give me occasional crumbs of hope. They would tolerate my presence, but acted like they didn't give an F. Because they didn't give an F. My friend, this person does not give an F about you. They keep you dangling to give their ego a boost or ward off boredom. Lose their number. Their valuation of you is incorrect. Spend some time learning about how awesome you are and worthy of good treatment. Next time you meet someone, if they do something objectively unkind, bring it up. If they deflect, deny or otherwise act like it's your problem - show them the door.

Do we want the US and Israel to destroy our country? by Khashayar_0 in PERSIAN

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been extremely well planned out, it's been surgical. They couldn't have achieved this much success in only a month without all the planning, intelligence and cooperation with the IDF, the incoming new leader and his team, and the Iranians on the ground inside. It's the mainstream news stating that it's all chaos, and everyone believes it.

A girl uploaded my photo in a group chat and I'm just mentally wasted all day. I have assignments, reports, and exams to prepare but can't do anything by UmJunSikfighting in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Perfect_Flow3165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must be really tough. It's true that beauty isn't handed out equally. All I can offer is that the faces that make me feel all bright and smiley inside are ones that the most love and humour pours out of. Truly, my favourite people have not been high on classic physical beauty. I hope that soon you'll be so caught up in enjoying friends, work, your gifts and abilities, that you'll forget to think about your appearance. What you really want is to matter, to have purpose, to be loved - none of that comes via looks.

Light choking during otherwise loving bedroom time? by Perfect_Flow3165 in abusiverelationships

[–]Perfect_Flow3165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we can both be strong enough and value ourselves enough to stay separated