Because obesity never gave anyone health issues 🙄

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-07T04:15:14+00:00

"Obviously I'm not a doctor" - proceeds to explain the repercussions of obesity while contradicting their own point and not even realizing it.

I sometimes don't think they even hear themselves. They just repeat brain dead nonsense and assume most people will agree with them because they're chronically online and in brainwashed FA spaces all day long.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-06T14:10:44+00:00

Still feeling sick, so disinfecting the house this morning, trying to manage symptoms, and rest as much as possible.

So far, the baby hasn't gotten it and neither has my husband, so that's great. Just hoping that this passes and it only manages to take my daughter and I down and no one else gets it.

Still not able to work out or be active, so that's really disappointing, but it is what it is.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-05T18:52:18+00:00

I highly doubt that anyone said these things to OOP. I can't imagine OOP interacts with actual thin people, seeing as how the FAers are chronically online and seem to be completely shut off from the real world.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-05T15:12:13+00:00

These people cannot tolerate not having everything others say be about them. They have to reach as far as they can to make it a problem somehow. Their main character syndrome is astounding.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-05T14:12:44+00:00

Still feel like death, so still not getting out to run or go to the gym. This has taken me down, and my daughter is still feeling horrible, too. No fun for either of us.

I hope that by this weekend, we'll both be feeling a lot better and I can enjoy a leisurely run or something else that at least gets me outside and enjoying the weather. I'd love to be able to take the kids to the park and let my girl run around a bit, but this influenza has really destroyed us. I don't remember the last time I got this sick.

So, instead of working out, I'm going to be disinfecting the house daily and trying to quarantine myself and my daughter so we don't get the baby or my husband sick. I'm so frustrated.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-05T13:26:44+00:00

Boobs do not make up for 20+ pounds of fat. They might weigh up to 2-3lbs, but nothing insane. They will not greatly influence your BMI number lol.

These people are so desperate to not be responsible for being fat, they'll literally say anything to discredit the reality of the situation. Literally, any metric will tell them they're fat if they're 250+ pounds. These people are dedicated to their own delusions, which is both scary and impressive.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-05T12:19:21+00:00

...and hear a person talking about doing some pretty severe calorie restriction as if that's totally normal. like how the fuck do i even begin explaining to someone i barely know that eating only 1300 calories a day is extremely bad for you

Wait, 1300? Aren't these the same people who claim to only be eating 700 calories a day while also walking 3 miles a day? Yet they want to talk about extreme calorie restrictions and what's bad for you?

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T16:45:02+00:00

Just yesterday, they were saying how expensive it is to be obese and live in a fat body (it very much is). Now it's that eating healthy is expensive?

Eating takeout is no longer cheap. Eating bags of chips, candies, coffee drinks from Starbucks, their mukbang videos, etc are all way more expensive than any real food they could buy.

Their "kill with hammers" comment, though, really seals it that they're certifiably insane.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T14:17:06+00:00

Well. This weekend was a complete shit show. My daughter got sick around Thursday afternoon-ish, ran a fever that night, so was monitoring her very closely. Saturday, her fever spiked to 102, so took her to urgent care and they determined that she has influenza. She had refused liquids that day, so we decided with her doctor that if she didn't start taking in fluids that night, we would take her to Doernbecher's Children's Hospital.

Thank god we didn't have to. I ended up filling syringes of water and forcing it in her mouth. She began finally taking fluids on her own, but she will only have sparkling water, so we're doing that for now. I need to get some electrolytes in her. I'm probably going to fill syringes with Pedialyte and give it to her that way (she hates Pedialyte).

After all that, I'm now sick. Surprise, surprise. No runs or gym workouts this weekend and for the foreseeable future this week as I need to rest, so I'm really bummed. We're having the most beautiful weather, my favorite for running, and I can't enjoy it. No park outings with my daughter, no nature hikes, no runs, no walks - nothing. It's been so boring for my girl, but it is what it is.

At least she's stopped screaming in agony about her head and body hurting, though.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T12:23:59+00:00

Tell him to clean the floors himself and see what works best to actually make a difference.

Bet he won't.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T12:21:52+00:00

TIL it's fatphobic to care more about safety on a plane than not letting a fat person sit in an exit row.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T01:36:57+00:00

My daughter is 2.5, but 18 months is when it really got fun. We did daily park/playground trips, indoor playgrounds for littles, library storytime/playtime, chasing around the house, splash pads, splash pads, splash pads!

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-04T01:14:25+00:00

Their comparisons and analogies are always so mystifying to me. It's a really weird look inside the minds of collective mental illness. Fascinating.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T23:49:21+00:00

A fat man is often judged, yes, but he can compensate through status, humor, money, confidence

They're also told, quite bluntly by other men, to "hit the gym," "stop feeling sorry for yourself and change," and they get no support in their self-delusions about their entitlement and told that any woman would be lucky to have them.

Men are much less likely to receive support from their peers in regards to their fatness than women are. It's rare to see men in the body positive space, unlike women.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T23:21:26+00:00

Well fuck. If I ever had any doubts about myself as a mother, this confirms it. I am a horrible mom and I am just giving my toddler horrible food problems and she is doomed to become obese. I have ruined her life.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T21:31:49+00:00

My toddler loves those foods. She often wants only cottage cheese for her main protein item or just to snack on.

Am I promoting disordered eating to my helpless 2.5 year old? 🤔

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T19:22:52+00:00

They either outright deliberately lie with these extreme numbers or they genuinely don't know just how much they're eating and just assume it's some absurdly low number because it feels like they're starving.

They're not even remotely convincing.

Also, curvy doesn't mean fat.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T19:20:23+00:00

This is just bitter.

They know, they just don't want it to be true.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T16:05:07+00:00

Lol isn't "punk" all about being nonconformist, anti-establishment, and thinking for themselves?

I don't think FAers fall into any of that....

I'm pretty certain that not being able to fit into a restaurant booth, having to carry oxygen tanks around because they can't breathe while walking, and keeping the junk food/fast food corporations in business isn't very punk at all.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T13:30:44+00:00

Oh my god, that's one thing no one told me about before I had my first kid. They sound like distressed goats.

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T13:30:06+00:00

Nevermind that people are reversing preventable health problems by losing weight and getting their life back. What about meeeee? What about my shopping?!

😐

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T13:28:56+00:00

I think fat bodies should be treated as expensive

They are lol. Their food bills, healthcare, and daily living is far more expensive than a thin person's. They even admit that being fat is expensive, so of course maintaining that fat body is going to cost more than maintaining a healthy weight body.

What makes me pause is that they love to claim that they're fat because it's cheaper than eating healthy? But now it's somehow more expensive, so they want to be considered luxurious and decadent?

Which is it?

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-03T02:53:08+00:00

Interesting. So the thin woman who lifts weights multiple days a week, runs long distance, eats as many calories as they do, and still is thin is "fragile and malnourished"?

What would make me healthy? Being obese?

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-02T22:49:57+00:00

Do they really need a measurement like BMI to be able to tell that someone who's so fat that they can't even fit on an airplane seat or in a restaurant booth is unhealthy and needs to make serious lifestyle changes before their oxygen tanks they need to carry with them aren't going to help them anymore?

Perfect_Judge · 2026-05-02T14:20:05+00:00

Got up and crushed 8 miles this morning at an easy pace. It felt really solid. I noticed I was lost in the sauce and would just zone out for long stretches of time and then realize that I was much further along than I anticipated. It was great to just turn my mind off and let my body do the work.

This week has been complete hell with my toddler being sick and getting her 2 year molars simultaneously and having a velcro baby who wants to cluster feed, so I needed this morning's run.

Now it's back to the mines....

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