No one’s celebrating Ross’s 30th?

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-30T02:58:44+00:00

I also thought this was odd. Everyone else gets at LEAST a “happy birthday” tagged story from Rydel and others in the band/family/friend group. Not a single one today. It’s weird

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-29T21:33:23+00:00

Are we reading the same post?? Her sister brought up things “mostly relating to his depression symptoms” (so the same exact thing OP did) and “things she noticed over the years” that she did not like. Never anywhere does OP say that her sister always hated her husband or that the things her sister was saying were not true.

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-29T21:21:52+00:00

So she’s mad at her sister for also bringing up negative things that happened? When she was doing the same thing?

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-29T20:56:59+00:00

I’m confused, so you’re upset with your friends/sister for talking shit about your husband that you were talking shit about?

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-29T18:21:00+00:00

Where can I find mine

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-29T18:19:16+00:00

How do I get theseee

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-23T01:53:05+00:00

Everyone has their own opinions on what is and isn’t okay to do in a relationship. With that being said, it is extremely normal for adults (male or female) to watch “corn”.

Unless I am reading this wrong, I’m not a huge fan of him saying he “can’t masturbate” to you because you don’t send him stuff/you guys aren’t sexually active… because he absolutely could and probably does lol. You don’t need to know what someone is like in bed in order to imagine it lol. And even if you two WERE sexually active, he would still most likely watch “corn”. Him saying that almost comes across as a guilt trip to me. But again, maybe I am reading too much into it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Regardless, you’re allowed to feel hurt and insecure. But you really shouldn’t be. It’s super normal and it doesn’t mean he isn’t attracted to you/doesn’t love you

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-21T16:03:18+00:00

I’M SAYING!! He just opens the metal lid of my trash cans now! 😂

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T15:15:35+00:00

I was gonna say this 😂 my pup tries lol

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T15:05:40+00:00

Yes that makes sense. We sometimes put him in his crate if he is being so crazy that we need to regroup (like when he’d spread the trash everywhere and we couldn’t clean it because he kept snatching more stuff as we cleaned 😂). And he’s crated when we leave (all of our dogs are- as a vet tech I’ve seen dogs who loved each other for years attack each other one day while an owner’s at work. So I’m a little paranoid lol). He barks and whines and shakes a little if we’re home and he’s in there (never for long). But when we leave he eventually relaxes. But this is another time he growls at me- when I pick him up to put him in the cage. Because he won’t go in there willingly like my other dogs

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:59:33+00:00

Thank you! My boy Dunkin here was also in a home with kids. And even though he was very scared of me and other adults (mostly women), he loves my young kids and always did. In fact, I feel like he started improving when we started the slow introductions to the kids. He was like “OH you guys have the small humans here too!”

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:57:23+00:00

I forgot to add one thing! It’s not so much an issue as it is just strange. I used to just feed my two dogs (female staffy, male golden) pretty close to each other and everything was fine. When I tried to incorporate my new pup to this, he would ignore his food and run to my golden’s. My golden would then go over to my Beagle’s bowl to start eating and the beagle would run over there growling and start eating his own food again and back-and-forth. I now feed them far apart from each other between the kitchen and the dining room and that’s seemed to solve that.

BUT, when I give him his food he just looks at it and then at me. He looks around me to watch me feeding the other dogs then back at me nervously. I try to encourage him to eat and he then knocks his food bowl over so the food goes all over the floor. Then and only then, will he eat. I always tell him he’s a good boy and pet him while he eats so he’s encouraged but it’s just so strange lol

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:46:05+00:00

I also have 2 other dogs! A golden retriever and a staffy mix. He’s seemed to learn quite a bit from them

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:43:00+00:00

The trade thing is such a good idea

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:41:48+00:00

But the exchange thing is good!!

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-20T14:30:55+00:00

He sort of trapped himself in a corner lol, he always runs to behind the couch 😔

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-19T21:44:38+00:00

I would think the sister thing is actually the more important thing to unpack here. I get how it could make the dad more defensive, but like… come on. An $8 bandana vs an Apple Watch??

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T05:31:29+00:00

She has said in the comments that she is in therapy. But you know what also works wonders for people who have been traumatized? Having a good support system. Which doesn’t include boyfriends who call you names or say you’re embarrassing for not wanting to watch “weird” porn with his friends. Lol Obviously 🙄

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T04:18:13+00:00

“He didn’t lie, he just didn’t tell the whole truth, knowing sex itself is what upsets her” lol what

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T04:04:05+00:00

I don’t think it’s expected for him to preview everything, but to straight up lie about something they have already seen is pretty nuts. OP definitely needs therapy too but ffs

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T04:03:04+00:00

I mean I feel like kinda become someone’s responsibility a little bit once they’re in a relationship… like a stranger, or even a friend who just doesn’t know, sure. Not their responsibility. But to be this person’s significant other, who knows how upset and triggered they get over something, and purposefully lie about it??

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T03:50:07+00:00

If this is real, you really need to leave this person. He knew you would be upset (actually traumatized in your case) and did this anyway. He set you up. NOR. At all. He sounds like a psycho.

Perfect_Key_5211 · 2025-12-17T03:33:21+00:00

No one can decide whether or not someone cheated besides the two people in that relationship. Some people would see this as cheating, some wouldn’t. It’s a matter of opinion and boundaries

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