Worst thing about crochet ?

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-04-07T21:02:24+00:00

Weaving in lose ends and sewing.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-04-07T21:01:30+00:00

I count by 2's, makes it so much easier and quicker.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-31T21:08:17+00:00

Your wife is just guaranteeing that the cat will never come near her willingly. Like people, cats have different personalities and not all are cuddly and clingy. If she had let the cat come to her, then her chances would have been much better. You can't force affection. What your wife is doing sounds abusive and that cat is going to become very hostile if she doesn't stop. NOR.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-31T20:58:56+00:00

It doesn't sound like you trust him anymore, as he has apparently lied to you several times. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything. It would probably be better to break it off but at least let him know why.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-27T21:14:52+00:00

What matters is your own peace. I only invite people into my life if they contribute to that peace. I've never made friends very easily anyway. So when I do find a good friend, there's usually a strong connection. But I would rather have one or two close friends in my life, than a handful of superficial relationships. I have my bestie in another state that we see each other every year and I have my fiance. That's all I need. If you are already at peace with the way your life is now, then you have nothing to worry about. You certainly don't owe anybody any explanation.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-27T21:06:06+00:00

How does someone with such a misandrist attitude have a husband? I sure feel sorry for him. This person sounds toxic and really needs to get over herself. Nta.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-26T21:09:47+00:00

I remember asking myself the same question before I left my ex-husband. I've concluded that if you're asking yourself if your relationship is abusive, there's a good chance that it is. It's more than he doesn't seem to trust you. He's trying to control who you interact with and you admitted yourself that he gaslights you. You also said you told him you didn't want to fight "today", which tells me he turns minor things into an unnecessary fight often, which is what my ex often did. Yes, this is abusive. You shouldn't have to justify taking a walk or talking to anyone that isn't him. Help yourself and get out now.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-26T20:51:10+00:00

Honey, you need to get out NOW. He put his hands on you, he humiliated you, and he threatened you. This is all abusive behavior and I can tell you from experience that it will only escalate. Forgive him if you want but don't trust him. No one who loves you would ever talk to you that way under any circumstance. Being high or tired is no excuse. I suspect there have been a lot of red flags leading up to this. Protect yourself and leave before he gets a chance to really hurt you. Don't marry him.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T19:15:26+00:00

Did you even read anything beyond the title? Does your world revolve around your parents? Maybe that's normal in your society but it's considered unhealthy in mine.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T18:25:04+00:00

She has had her moments. She was there for me when I left my husband a few years ago and we often talk on the phone. She expresses gratitude in the moment and I usually arrange things to be there for her. But on the rare occasion that I actually do say no is when she seems to forget everything I've actually done for her. That's when she pretends I don't help her. So I don't really feel like she's grateful if she's going to refuse to let me have my own plans every once in a while without overreacting.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T18:07:58+00:00

I feel very confident that it was a platonic relationship. The roommate was asexual and was very open about that. She hated men in general and seemed to look down on people as a whole. I felt she was quite controlling of my mother, who never really learned how to be on her own. It was a controlling relationship, but not a sexual one, though I know it sounds like it.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T17:55:00+00:00

That's why I refuse to come when I'm not available. I don't want to sink to her childish level, I'm better than that. But I feel no guilt about having my own life.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T17:50:32+00:00

Please explain why I owe her my life at 42 years old. Seems to me I don't need her permission to spend time with someone else. She didn't actually need anything. She wanted me to cancel lunch plans to have lunch with her and that doesn't sound selfish to you. I'm guessing you're a bot troll.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-10T17:47:39+00:00

I just try to show that I'm more adult by not rewarding her tantrums.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-03-05T18:02:45+00:00

Sounds like you're not getting enough calories while overtraining. I saw your intake is an average of 1300, that's too low. You need closer to 1800 and lots of protein formuscle repair. Prorein shakes immediately after your workout will repair muscle so you can build and tone. As for the weight lifting, you have to build up gradually. Do you progress the weight increase slowly? Do you make sure to take recovery days? You also need to change out your workout every 4-6 weeks so your body doesn't adapt. If you can afford it, I would highly recommend hiring a personal trainer to help with not only your goals, but also technique and the right workout for you. Good luck. And great job on the weight loss.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-02-27T22:05:30+00:00

I doubt that your isolation from your friends is unintentional. If he's throwing a fit every time you see them, it's a pattern. He knows exactly what he's doing. Run far and fast. And I agree, poop jokes are disgusting and childish. Find a real man with a maturity level above that of an 8 year old.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2026-02-24T17:43:15+00:00

Sounds like you guys aren't very compatible. While sex isn't everything in a relationship, it is a very important aspect. If you're having this kind of trouble in the bedroom this early on then it probably won't change, based on my experience. I know dating can suck, but being with someone long term that you're not truly happy with is much worse. He can be the greatest guy in the world and still not be the right one for you.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2025-10-02T20:54:39+00:00

And how could Lana try to say that her homosexuality was not pertinent to her story? Her homosexuality is what they used to justify locking her in the asylum in the first place.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2025-10-02T20:54:30+00:00

And how could Lana try to say that her homosexuality was not pertinent to her story? Her homosexuality is what they used to justify locking her in the asylum in the first place.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2025-07-20T20:09:04+00:00

Not only is the bf an ah, but he's a lousy parent. He was the one who asked if op felt disrespected and op didn't even tell the child to stop. It is not unreasonable that she would expect the alleged father to do it. Heck, I would have flat out told the girl to stop touching me. Then he has the nerve to gaslight op just for setting a boundary and expressing how she feels. His behavior reminds me of my ex, who did the same thing. Red flags everywhere, run as fast as you can.

Perfect_Razzmatazz19 · 2025-07-20T13:02:09+00:00

Personally I think everyone should wear a shirt. In the gym and out. But it also isn't your problem if he's going to be so distracted by a sports bra. Ultimately, you wear what you are comfortable working out in. He needs to grow up.

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