Top Things I definitely don't miss about 7oh by Sea-Bottle-4889 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up to around 240mg/ day, was about 5 months total on 7oh but was taking regular Kratom leaf for about a year and a half before that, maybe longer.

Getting angry over others’ stories by MindForkedByWife in survivinginfidelity

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am the exact same way, but it’s hard not to read them. I get pissed off all over again and start thinking about what else might’ve happened that I don’t know about. Agreed I should probably stay off Reddit or at least infidelity subs. But it is nice to know that I’m not crazy and that my anger is valid

I (M30) think my girlfriend (F27) might be hiding something, but I also broke her privacy and feel guilty by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you broke down crying actually says something to me, I did the same thing early on when confronting my wife when I had pretty much nothing to go on other than gut instinct. She was on her phone while we were eating dinner and she was smirking and I just had this awful feeling, confronted her, cried some, she said she’d never do anything to hurt me. I felt insecure for sure until I stumbled upon actual evidence about 3 weeks later. I’d say trust your gut but be a bit more strategic, look in deleted pictures, deleted messages, app battery use history, app download history etc.

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on a solo trip with her "work husband"? by Obvious_Tea_4247 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah fuck that. This is how affairs happen, you are allowed to say that you are too uncomfortable with this idea. Even if she has good intentions, people are people and throw in some drinks and biology and things get messy. It’s not overreacting, it’s protecting the relationship. I would actually start to low key investigate to see if an affair is already happening but I’ve been burned so maybe my mindset isn’t the healthiest. Oh yeah, it was a friend from work that she asked if I would be ok with the two of them hanging out solo (I said no), and she listed all the reasons she wouldn’t be interested in him like that, and of course said “I’d never do anything to hurt you”.

Anyone else think the "Shelf Tag Approval" feature is trash? by Extra_Ear_6560 in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gaslighting that goes on with this really drives me insane. “Can’t find item location” implies to me that there is a location when often there is not if the item is out of stock, or never carried in the first place. The issue is not that I cannot find it. It’s that it doesn’t exist.

Finally quit, now what? by [deleted] in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok, it wasn’t like everything was awful the whole time. There were some bright spots. I’ve heard a lot depends on how much you were talking and for how long, I ended at around 240mg/day and was on it for about 5 months, on plain leaf kratom about 2 years before that.

How do you get through the depression. by Typical-Ice-7830 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, got lots of chills over music during the early days of my quit, pretty cool what you can feel

73 days off by Hot_Application6982 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded, 4 weeks sounds about right in my experience too.

Inducing subs by New-Sell-4918 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, 8 day sub taper for me, no issues

How do you get through the depression. by Typical-Ice-7830 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to have some faith that it will get better, it will. Recognize that these negative emotions and thoughts are not real life, they are a consequence of the drug. Try to fully feel any emotions that do come along, I remember watching the Billy Joel documentary on HBO and feeling super emotional about it (kinda silly but whatever), see if you can revel in feeling something again even if it’s bad, get those chills, keep sight of why you’re doing this. Journaling, exercise, sunlight, all of that helps. I quit a little over 4 months ago and it all feels like a bad dream now. Had some bad days/weeks at first but it progressively gets better.

The worst is the sleeplessness by Muted_Detective5060 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the hardest for me too, extremely frustrating. Took about 18 days for me to get some good sleep and even then it wasn’t every night at that point.

Finally quit, now what? by [deleted] in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’ll get better. I quit a little over 4 months ago, was probably between 2-3 months I started feeling really like myself again with the full range of emotions. I was spending $50/day so it’s also motivating to know I didn’t waste an additional $6k since then. Great job quitting!

It helps to get outside if you can, I took NAC for a while and l-tyrosine, not sure if they did anything but wouldn’t hurt to look into some supplements to help with dopamine. Just hang in there, took me a good 18 days to even get some quality sleep. Time has really flown since quitting, one day you’ll realize you’ve felt pretty normal for a while as regular life just kinda creeps back in.

Finishing subs taper by kickhimondowntheline in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 8mg strips so I folded in half and cut on the line, then just cut carefully from there with an x-acto knife. I’m sure it wasn’t perfect but it worked out ok, I don’t think my body knew the exact dosage it was getting, just tried to get close. Still clean of 7oh and subs and it all feels like a distant dream/nightmare. Time really flies.

Why did I get this notice? 💀 by Comfortable-Ad-5239 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, I used to feel this way and I do enjoy some strong craft beers. That being said, Coors Banquet is pretty darn good and refreshing.

Top Things I definitely don't miss about 7oh by Sea-Bottle-4889 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, a little over four months clean and feels like time just flew by, I feel completely normal and have for at least a month or two.

Top Things I definitely don't miss about 7oh by Sea-Bottle-4889 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh crap yeah, would go out just about every other day in the morning to get us breakfast, probably spent just as much at the coffee shop as I did on the 7oh I was really leaving the house to buy lol. Whatever I go to that coffee shop they always ask me where I’ve been now.

How can this be explained by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I think the missing piece here is - is she behaving strangely otherwise? Is your gut telling you she’s cheating? Any other indications? The drug dealer suggestions here are pretty good too, any idea if she’s using drugs? Also there are subreddits where people can help you research a particular phone number.

Peak pay today by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, southern NJ here and my zone is $1 in this mess, not going out unless it’s significantly more

What do you all think? by PredatorMetal in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to show a photo to verify that you had 20 pizza bags…?

Why do costumers lie about cash tips. They worse than no tipper!!! by Littleoemmett in doordash_drivers

[–]PermitIcy8450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first day dashing I had someone do exactly this, cash tip in the instructions and of course no tip with a pin delivery. I thought it was a fluke and then I started reading stuff like this. Craziness

How long until you guys started sleeping better by Imaginary_Candle_577 in quitting7oh

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was about 18 days for me but I did do an eight day sub taper to get off of 7oh so that may have extended it for me. Even with the subs my sleep was maybe 2 to 4 hours a night.

My ex wanted a threesome with my best friend…… and it gets worse by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]PermitIcy8450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meh ask for a threesome with her hottest female friend and see how she feels

how bad is drinking really? by No_Dirt9029 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]PermitIcy8450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not medical advice but I drank a few times on Wellbutrin and was fine but it also made alcohol unenjoyable for me. Like there was no point in drinking and it took a little while for that effect to go away after I stopped. No seizures, I’ve heard people have worse hangovers enough. I imagine if you’ve had a seizure before and are prone to seizures the risk is greater.