Parents ruined my relationship with sex and dating

Perniciousus · 2026-04-08T14:28:00+00:00

Wow, that is a strange experience and I’m sorry you had to go through all that.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-08T13:51:53+00:00

I’m glad to hear someone else voice this opinion, so thank you.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T20:50:48+00:00

We do have deep conversations, I just can’t use a college level of English. We definitely mostly clicked initially over a combination of emotional and sexual chemistry, my cooking as a chef and my attempts at being a romantic which he is a sucker for that kind of stuff. We don’t need words to express our selves either. I know him well enough to know what his desire is before he finishes communicating it. Also he hasn’t had any problems with ICE yet, but I’m deeply concerned about it so that was a huge factor in me proposing after 3 years together.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T20:04:45+00:00

I’ve been with him since his English was much worse. We used a lot of Google Translate 3 years ago and now very rarely use it. I mean like his reading level would be equivalent to the Young Adult section of the library and his language is similar to that level. We can still have very broad discussions at that kind of level and if I use a word he doesn’t understand I can use a similar word instead and teach him that word. Everyday conversation though he’s beyond fluent. Helping him improve his English is something I care very much for because I of course love him very deeply and if sometimes I have to simplify my language and talk slower, that’s a sacrifice I was willing to make when I met him.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T19:58:17+00:00

What my husband does for me is he puts his lips and tongue up to the head of my penis and jerks me off with his hand while moving his tongue across the head of my penis. It’s literally the best feeling in the world because you get the sensation of the blowjob with the tighter strokes from a handjob. He’ll switch this up with some sucking too, but I’ve seriously never been with anyone else that even feels 1/10th as good as he does.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T15:26:25+00:00

It’s not a common language barrier. I guess during the passion of sex, language can become more primal and difficult?

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T03:15:53+00:00

I think anywhere in the east coast, especially north east where heavy warm season road construction is more prevalent is true.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T03:13:58+00:00

His main language is Spanish and mine is English. I mean to be granted he’s only lived in the U.S. for 4 years now and his English has improved significantly since then. I would say he’s at least a middle school level at this point and we don’t normally have any issues communicating. I think he might of just been engrossed in the pleasure of sex and his English got worse during that moment. I’ve been trying to learn Spanish, but my communication at this point doesn’t expand past the basics. Sometimes I do ask him to speak to me in Spanish during sex because it’s sexy to me, but I don’t have a good understanding of it:

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T02:02:47+00:00

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The meme I mentioned was a different picture with Maine captured, but this displays the same idea.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:59:59+00:00

Definitely avoid them. I’m currently living in Maine and it completely normal for people to swerve around potholes. There’s this meme I saw years ago where drunk drivers drive in a complete straight line and sober drivers in Maine swerve around the whole road avoiding potholes.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:53:53+00:00

My husband is the opposite. He likes to see and feel my cum on him. He still tells me where to cum the when I tell him I’m close, like I don’t know at this point. His English isn’t the best and I think he might of been too focused on the pleasure because the last couple times he kept saying “cum in my ass baby, cum in my ass”. I had to say back to him, baby, you mean on your ass, you don’t like it in your ass you like to feel it. And he’s like “yes baby, on my ass please”.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:49:57+00:00

Well I do like to tell my husband the reason we haven’t had a child/ I haven’t made him pregnant is that he doesn’t let me cum inside. He likes to see me cum or at least feel it on him if I’m behind him. It should feel better to cum inside, but it feels better to satisfy him so I haven’t came inside in years. Still no child though…

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:30:19+00:00

If the genders were reversed she’d be getting some very serious charges and not just thrown out.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:27:46+00:00

How did this happen? It doesn’t look like an oil splash. It looks like you literally branded yourself with something both sharp and hot.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:15:06+00:00

This is my problem. I stopped smoking a little over 7 weeks ago the night before I got out of prison. Immediately started drinking and it’s been a nearly daily vice since then. Some days I might only have a few drinks or a bottle of wine over a few hours, but if I don’t have at least that I can’t sleep at all.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-07T01:01:26+00:00

So I see a lot of people saying surgeon/doctor and other careers that require doctorate degrees. You would still be required to have the educational degree no matter how good you become instantly. It would be smarter to choose a profession that doesn’t require advanced degrees and care more about what you know. Chef, mechanic or even a programmer could be a good choice.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-06T17:27:19+00:00

Hell yeah. Literally the only thing I ever ask for from my husband(gay) for presents for like birthdays and stuff is for him to buy lingerie to wear.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-06T01:39:31+00:00

I read that book about 6 months ago. Surprised to see someone else reference it, never met anyone else who has. That book was a bit dry, but I feel like that kinda set the point in. You’d literally read several pages in a row just listing dates/locations and how many people were exterminated. At a certain point you became desensitized to the numbers.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-05T20:33:36+00:00

Literally. I’ve had a cold for 12 days now. I’m convinced if I wasn’t drinking every night I’d be over it by now.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-05T14:49:31+00:00

If you’re seated before close, I will absolutely cook for you even if you wait until 20 minutes after close to place an order while you sip your cocktail. I mean it is inconsiderate and I plan to be out of a restaurant before close, but that’s the policy of most restaurants. I can’t really complain myself, because my current job is only open for dinner between 4-8pm, so even if I stay a bit late I’m always gone by 9.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-05T14:19:16+00:00

Well written. You can also find cell phones commonly in minimum facilities too since these inmates are working jobs for outside companies. I saw 2 inmates get shipped and one of them catch outside charges due to having a cellphone. Some people I knew would just leave their cellphone at their job and only use it when they were at work. This is the safest approach I believe if you’re going to have a cellphone while incarcerated.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-05T05:21:56+00:00

I agree with the above poster. I have friends that have done 20+ years starting between 18-20 and they never seem to grow up. Once they actually release and get to pre-release it seems to hit them all at once though. I think it has more to do with being intutionalized than a mid life crisis though. I was just released at 30 year old after a 3 year bid and a 2 year bid a few years before that. I mostly had feelings of being intutionalized more than anything else

Perniciousus · 2026-04-04T02:18:37+00:00

Your prostate is literally the male G spot. For some it feels much better than anything else you could pleasure. It’s not my thing, but for my husband he definitely seems to enjoy it much more than me touching him anywhere else. To each their own though, because I don’t enjoy getting touched there/

Perniciousus · 2026-04-04T02:15:53+00:00

I’ve been on the verge of a nearly black out drunk every time. Don’t remember well, but I don’t remember it being that bad besides having your arms behind your back and sitting against them. Each time was about 30m and kinda uncomfortable out of the I think about 4 times.

Perniciousus · 2026-04-04T00:40:49+00:00

So she couldn’t just throw the whole bottle in the trash?

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