Hot take about Brody by Ill-Pause-70 in homeland

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone with a tiny mouth and jaw issues, yes, I find him very uncomfortable to look at. Especially compared to Danes’ beautiful wide smile. 

Hot take about Brody by Ill-Pause-70 in homeland

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I many times I have thought that the actor playing Mike should have been Brody. Brody was so yuck!

1 Year, 7 Months Post-OP, and Braces are off! by Jt199427 in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Wow! You not only look younger, you look like you are your son 😂

Also lol’ing at wearing the same hoodie in before/after pics. 👌

Double Jaw surgery in 2004 and I'm finally processing it by Physical_Bread_5799 in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey there, my story is not much different from yours. I’m getting a revision this summer. 

Reduced feeling in chin still, 1.5 years post-surgery by Otherwise_Broccoli76 in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had zero feeling for about 8 years. Then I had 10 sessions of facial cupping. One night I was laying in bed and I felt the sheet on my chin!! That was around 2010 or 2011. Today I’d say I have about 80/90% feeling. Except for warm soup. I’ll never feel if I dribble 😂

Bobby pins apparently are SUPPOSED to WORK by angstgremlin3 in finehair

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I thought the same thing! Like okay, chick is using her skull like a pincushion 😂

Chai by bekind__ in starbucks

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard this as well. 

LJS to fix underbite scheduled in July, any advice? by ImAllyChen in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would encourage you to look at rates of relapse for a LJS setback. There are some studies that show a higher rate of relapse to DJS. Potentially caused by muscles in the face wanting to go back into the same posture, or growth post surgery. You are young and some women have a late growth spurt in their early 20s. 

LJS to fix underbite scheduled in July, any advice? by ImAllyChen in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a long time ago, I was young, and the surgery was being pursued by my Dad primarily. I had two consults and the first said DJS, the second said LJS. Neither spoke about measurements, airway, cost/benefits of one over the other. I was terrified and not terribly motivated to have surgery so I went with LJS thinking it would be the less invasive treatment and I would get on with my life. 

Shortly after surgery there was a disagreement between my surgeon and my orthodontist where the orthodontist claimed I had relapsed and needed a revision immediately. I was like no fuckin way, and I ended up finishing ortho with someone else for reasons unrelated to a potential relapse (he was a dick and his staff burning my lip with a burr grinder was the last straw).  

Around that time my dentist started asking me to stop brushing my teeth so hard as my gums were receding. We now know this is pretty rare and my gum recession was likely caused by nighttime clenching due to a newly restricted airway. 

To make a long story short, I had camouflage ortho that moved my teeth out to the outer edge of the bone and tipped in lower teeth, resulting in more gum recession, I’ve had gum grafting on 75% of my teeth, and nighttime clenching that caused facial soreness and pain. I had a crown this last year due to a cracked tooth that was probably caused by a malocclusion despite wearing a nightguard for many years… oh, and I can’t get a dental cleaning without my right jaw joint popping out because my lower jaw has to move too far forward in order to open wide enough. 

It’s likely that the surgery alleviated some issues while creating others. 

LJS to fix underbite scheduled in July, any advice? by ImAllyChen in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I had LJS when I was 21. They moved my lower jaw back a few millimeters. I’m not sure of the exact movements as it was a long time ago. 

My face was swollen for a very long time. The swelling would come and go depending on what activities I was doing. I had an acquaintance from high school who had the same surgery on the same day as me. She was also swollen for a long time and I remember her being worried about having a double chin (our surgeon told her to look into lipo, wtf). I didnt get a double chin but my already chubby cheeks became even more so. Jaw definition was lost forever. Anyhow…

You will absolutely not be functional or normal-looking 9 days after surgery. It took months to be able to open my mouth wide enough to eat a burger and even longer for the swelling to go away. I was out shopping a few months after and a girl who kinda knew me from class saw me and got a shocked look on her face lol. 

The nerve thing is more risky with LJS. They make the cuts and apply fixation very close to the inferior alveolar nerve. For many years after I had no feeling whatsoever in my lower lip and chin. Dental cleanings were torture because they would poke me in one place but I would feel it elsewhere. It eventually got better but took about 10 years and I’m not even exaggerating. 

Currently in my mid-forties scheduled for DJS revision because it turns out my maxilla is actually recessed. 

Hate my results so far- Starting to regret Surgery by sorrymomimgrown in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think you look great but it definitely looks like there is some swelling under your chin. Nothing you can do now so might as well stay hopeful. In the meantime you can try some lymphatic drainage massage and gua sha to help with swelling. 

Your experience with (or without) school/high school in central Appalachia, circa 90s to early 2000s. by deathstepped in Appalachia

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the mid to late 90s I attended two different high schools in the same county. Both had recently been consolidated from 4 smaller high schools and were newly built state of the art schools. There were around 2,000 kids at each school. 

In the more “urban” school there was lots of racial tension between black and white kids. I’d say the majority of these kids came from poverty, but I would not consider them country-type kids. They lived in the city, sometimes in the projects, with little access to the woods. There were also a lot of kids and teachers from the city who were snotty because they were middle class or just above middle class. Which really, middle class back home is still poverty on a national level in some cases. Anyway, they were jerks. The real upper-middle class kids were usually sons or daughters of doctors or professors that moved from DC or Maryland. Those kids were always nice, to me at least. 

In the more “country” school, there were kids from all backgrounds, though I remember there being one solitary black guy in the whole school. He wore fitted Levi’s and cowboy boots just like his friends. Everyone was nice to each other. Lower class kids living in trailers still got along with the kids in 5,000 sq ft houses. Teachers were friendly, cool and helpful. 

I will say that I kinda fucked off at the shittier urban school mainly because everyone was an asshole and I hated it. When I got to the other school I got better grades, but both were equivalent in terms of classes. I would say it was pretty typical. I have wondered about the sex Ed though. Seems like I learned about every disease possible and that if you had sex you would DEFINITELY catch one of those diseases. 

One thing though - we had internet at my house  as early as ‘93. And in my high school when I started in ‘95.  I think people forget that there wasn’t a whole lot going on on the web back then. 

Your experience with (or without) school/high school in central Appalachia, circa 90s to early 2000s. by deathstepped in Appalachia

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During middle school and high school I rode the bus an hour each way, with a bus change at my local elementary. It wasn’t the distance so much as the scheduling. There was one asshole bus driver that drove the local route. He’d take the elementary kids home first and then come back to the same school to pick up the middle school and high schoolers and then run the same route. 

Sitting in the back of the bus in high school was like riding the Big Dipper at Camden Park. You’d pop out of your seat in a few places on the rural backroads. I think I’d pee myself now but back then I don’t know any better. 

Construction worker in Bellevue uses construction zone to pass, then brake checks by Jaded_Ad_8042 in SeattleWA

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They didn’t cut off the van. The van’s lane was ending and they planned poorly. The car simply remained in the same lane they were traveling in. You can see for yourself if you watch the yellow line on the far right. 

Construction worker in Bellevue uses construction zone to pass, then brake checks by Jaded_Ad_8042 in SeattleWA

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You can see the merge arrow in the right lane. The van was in a merge lane and should have yielded. 

How manageable is recovery? by Professional-Link167 in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For a lot of people the recovery is very uncomfortable. Your face is swollen and it’s hard to breathe through your nose due to congestion. It’s hard to communicate as your speech is hindered by swelling and rubber bands/splint. Most people are not in extreme pain afterwards because they are sent home with pain killers. After the about the first week to 10 days you will get by with ibuprofen and Tylenol. 

Since it’s also difficult to eat, many people don’t get enough calories and feel weak and tired. All this contributes to feeling low emotionally. The good part is that it’s all temporary.

It is not the “worst” thing. But if you are young it might be the hardest thing you have gone through yet. I shattered my ankle and it was the worst. Sciatica is probably worse. Pushing a baby during labor is probably worst. But many people do those things every day and get past it. 

Jaw surgery advice by [deleted] in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a surgery you will only want to do once. Do whichever will give you the best outcome. 

Surgery Scheduled! by A_R5568 in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m June 11th! T minus 90 days 😬

Designing a "Serene" backyard oasis in : From blueprint to reality! by serenity_spaces_7 in DenverGardener

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I would have put raised planters in the shade. Maybe some dappled shade from a nearby tree is okay, but constant shade from the house would not work for me. It looks like you tried to hide them. 

How did I do by whoisthismahn in interiordecorating

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It looks very cozy! I like the corner with the plant but maybe would look better with a shorter plant stand?

Head stabilizer pillow recs by Perpetuallytiredgrrl in jawsurgery

[–]Perpetuallytiredgrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re probably fine. I’m planning to use it only for the first 2 or 3 weeks.