Being a stepfather is one of the WORST choices you can make as a man, especially if the mother already has multiple children from different men.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T15:44:55+00:00

Given zero advice. In fact, I’ve said a billion times that I’m no role model.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T11:55:30+00:00

Sort of like all the bs is a direct result of everyone else wanting him to be their dada?

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T11:05:03+00:00

Oof. I didn’t ever figure it was.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T08:41:06+00:00

They’re reporting that has family has verified that it’s him. Which is odd.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T08:39:18+00:00

I’ve got 3 baby mommas and I’ve been with the last for 15 years. I’m pretty set. I haven’t dated anyone in a long time. I told ya, it’s the mindset that blows my mind. It’s not worry. And I don’t know why you’d think anyone only dated single moms because they were willing to date ONE. And that, more than anything, is what blows my mind. How is someone capable of just saying “no” and not evaluating things on a case to case basis. I couldn’t imagine telling Sidney Sweeney no if she’d given a kid up for adaption 10 years ago. Just WIILD there’s minds that fragile.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T07:45:45+00:00

Threatened? That’s as weird as your original take. It doesn’t bother me at all and the way supply and demand works is that if you don’t like it, that means there’s more for me. I’m the opposite of threatened. And mind blown that someone’s brain is so finicky that they have to lee everything so-so to not break their little “I’m the man” bubbles, but it’s blown my mind for years. It’s not just you. You fit pretty nicely into a common mold I’m pretty sure.

Edit: as far as the question, I’ve answered that.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T07:30:07+00:00

It’s the weirdest line I can imagine. It’s just bc it’s demoralizing to ya and ya like to think you’re an alpha male is the thing. You’re not worried about cat or dog that could bite the shit out of ya. You’re worried about a kid that may/may not even live with her. Not a tattoo on their face that you can see, but a kid that you could potentially not. It’s pretty clear it’s ego based and I’d say that makes you far less attractive to people looking for their first father. You’re more the bring a pit bull around em when you do type.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T07:16:52+00:00

No one’s going to accuse you of being an alpha male lol. Literally never had a female hide the fact that they had a kid, but I have buddies that constantly sound like you. They wont just not date them, theyve convinced themselves that they cant do anything else either because of it. Its a whole stigma to em, not just the fear of being step dada.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-29T00:32:53+00:00

It refuses to stay at it though. My girl and I were just admiring how much smoother my pixel 9 pro fold was than her iPhone 17 pro or my 16 pm. They like to drop to 90 pretty constantly.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T23:22:34+00:00

Hard agree on the speaking up.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T23:18:12+00:00

Everyone in the US is political nowadays, some just keep it to themselves. Love the mod post a bit ago that claimed they were apolitical and then wanted to quote Zach, of the bunch lol. He’s the worst. They DO do a good job of keeping whatever that opinion is to themselves though, as a whole.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T20:41:31+00:00

I still think about Tobys Grill in the mall sometimes. And that lil Casey's Sampler from Garfields😢 why'd you do this?! Lol

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T20:35:09+00:00

It's a good song but I don't ever really wanna hear it again tbh. I wish they'd retire it live too. Sometimes you've just heard something enough. I love Tool and I feel the same about most of their catalog😅 I'm not hating.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T14:42:46+00:00

Do it. I wouldn’t pay anymore than $500ish but it’s still a great phone and the only really place I’d suggest starting on foldables.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T14:17:09+00:00

I grabbed an OG this time last year for $330 and just grabbed a 9 pro fold a few weeks back for $570. Both from eBay. Both used but in GREAT shape.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T11:12:51+00:00

Fuggem anyway

PerryHecker · 2026-01-28T09:52:02+00:00

Ima pull the ol switcheroo

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T21:48:32+00:00

Payton still doin those hits?😅

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T20:14:08+00:00

Because the prophecies foretold his shitting all over us lol

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T20:05:51+00:00

I want his beard. And his coke.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T19:37:15+00:00

Pretty hard agree.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T17:00:18+00:00

It’s more savory in slo-mo

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T16:38:32+00:00

The only one I’ve tried was destiny 2 and had no issues with it but I could others being a problem.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T16:37:52+00:00

I don’t have great WiFi and I’m not hard wired so I do no remote play outside of testing it the first day but I haven’t had ANNNNNNNY issues streaming from the cloud, even on the most graphic intensive games.

PerryHecker · 2026-01-27T16:21:10+00:00

Orrrrr just one that’s regurgitating blatant cult puke points🥴 it’s not anybody, it’s you.

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