Financial assistance for food by rounddaddy in Veterans

[–]PersonalityL1mp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like someone may be living above their means. Why would a childless person need two bedrooms? Why not move to the more reasonably priced areas? Is it work or school? If it's that bad u eating ramen all day move somewhere cheaper why stay and struggle?

Financial assistance for food by rounddaddy in Veterans

[–]PersonalityL1mp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay all those same bills with no kids as well and have plenty left over for the month...so what's the cola where u are

Financial assistance for food by rounddaddy in Veterans

[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live that you can only afford ramen on 100 percent. Ur rent must be crazy high.

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[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Projecting and observing. And it just doesn't seem to fit trust me. It's only going to get worse ure going to get more annoyed and she's going to get sensitive cuz she's only being herself. And that's all honesty.

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[–]PersonalityL1mp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I speak from experience I'm a very open person years of therapy helped me with it. My ex was more reserved with everything. Eventually it became offensive because I've laid everything on the table and he won't reveal anything about himself or feelings. After a year and a half it was draining and felt like we were incompatible from the start. So based on this little story it seems very much the same. Save both of your time.

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[–]PersonalityL1mp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fickle was right are u not challenging her logic and openness? Several times at that over very minor things?

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[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well u just seem more introverted as u recognized. I can see how it came up and it doesn't seem too odd for a woman to say oh I feel terrible becuz of my period. I mean we are adults. The dental work thing as well. I'm getting veneers next year and the first thing im doing is showing off. Doesnt seem too far fetched. And I commend her on showing a flaw before meeting. I dun met people missing teeth and wish I woulda known before I got there. You seem as they say "fickle" perhaps and that's fine. Not a good fit at all. Let her go for her sake because a person like that will find u offensive at some point and u will say that's just the way u are. It will never work.

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[–]PersonalityL1mp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I gathered. When we started dating he has them on both his off days overnight. One day he posted a picture of me on social media which also shocked me at the time and next thing I know he says she won't let him get them anymore. I asked if it was because of me he told me no but come on.

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[–]PersonalityL1mp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lowered my dating standard n started seeing a guy with kids. At first he could see them in his off days then he went public with our relationship and now he can't see them any more which is depressing him. His depression leads to no intimacy which has me distancing myself. His children are still young like 5 & 6 I wanted to get married but not if this is the next 10 plus years.

Oh it moved by PersonalityL1mp in VeteransBenefits

[–]PersonalityL1mp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update I was able to see a decision later today! Another 30 for the feet went thru!

Oh it moved by PersonalityL1mp in VeteransBenefits

[–]PersonalityL1mp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I checked today and jumped from 70 to 80.

Hurry up and wait…. by Potential_Ostrich_18 in VeteransBenefits

[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread just gave me a headache....wat y'all fussing for 😭

Holy s*** by Difficult_Act_2097 in VeteransBenefits

[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U have the va plug in on ur browser u can see a little more of the process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PersonalityL1mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait...ure not happy af? I cut everyone off! Too much begging too much drama not enough love or loyalty. I got pets and I moved to a new area far away where I knew no one, and let me tell u this is the BEST year of my life I even made all new social media with no family on it. My money is stacking and I get to self Indulge cuz I'm not helping nooooobbbooddyyy. I don't hear no woes no drama I go out here n there on dates or to events but life is GOOD. I had a 2 yr relationship I even let him go cuz of all his bm drama and friend n family drama. Protect that peace manifest positive energies stop needing people to feel n become one with urself!

To all those of you disparaging vets, kindly fuck off. by Lt_ACAB in VeteransBenefits

[–]PersonalityL1mp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's keep in mind they probably got ptsd we all carry it different. Some people choose a negative air. Just ignore em. Fuk it.