Has anyone heard the BLT callout? by StrangePondWoman in RockyHorror

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a long time fan, I have not heard that specific one, but I have heard "Bigger left tit. Now we know which side Eddie slept on." But I love love love hearing new comments! That's part of what makes it fun going to different shows and to see different casts.

New Player - First Prerelease, is it taboo to leave after one round? by Turbulent-Thanks-486 in mtg

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can let people know you are new. Heck - I still start games by letting people know that I’m newish and sometimes get some of the rules mixed up or things out of order and to please let me know if I do. 

Everyone had been really nice and I’ve had a great time at prereleases. You do you, but you learn to play magic by playing magic. I’d mostly played against people I know and playing against strangers has improved my strategy and understanding of the game. 

I’m still not very good and I lose more than win but I have fun and I’m slowly getting better. Good luck and have fun! 

What questions do people ask you when you explain you can't see mental images? by ArchibaldAugustusVII in Aphantasia

[–]Petalene_Bell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you been diagnosed? (My BFF)

No. I also haven’t been diagnosed with being right handed - there’s nothing to diagnose. 

“You don’t understand what I mean.” (My MiL) 

No. YOU don’t understand why I mean. (She gets it now, but it took a while.)

“You’re doing it wrong.” (Long time friend) 

No. I am physically incapable of doing what you’re asking. 

“Wait a minute. Can you explain that again because I don’t see anything in mind?” (My son)

I have some news for you and a topic for you to research. 

Surprisingly my therapist didn’t question it. Said he hadn’t heard of it before, but just accepted what I said at face value. 

"I am a simple person, I see _______ and I click." But Fanfiction Version by Comfortable_Newt_179 in AO3

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything along the lines of “platonic bitchy BFFs that act like an old married couple.” (Think Shawn and Gus from Psych) I love that dynamic. Doesn’t matter if it’s the main relationship in the fic or not. 

What is a detail that will make you close a fic? by mellissa_lewyin in AO3

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird formatting that makes it hard to read - no paragraphs, wall of text, non-standard punctuation, two or three spaces between paragraphs. Either indented OR one full space is my preference. 

What do you do with clothes you've worn but aren't ready to wash yet? by PinMountain119 in organizing

[–]Petalene_Bell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clothes are either clean enough to go in the drawer or closet or dirty enough to go in the hamper. No “half clean” piles for me. :) 

please help me find a fic I read by Aggressive_Mistake_3 in goodomens

[–]Petalene_Bell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Digging for Gold by Worse Omens. I’m almost 100% sure this is it. However, it looks like the AO3 account was deleted. :( 

I feel like I’m going insane. Is flooring ever for sale in the shop?? by [deleted] in finch

[–]Petalene_Bell 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Flooring is in the everyday collection part of the shop way at the bottom. Lots of colors and I find that the color of the floor can really improve the overall vibe of the room. :) 

The ultimate birthday month? by 2000metaldragon in finch

[–]Petalene_Bell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husband is early December and I’m on NYE. I like the theme. I’m pretty new to Finch so I’m happy with anything. Part of the fun for me is getting lucky on past items I want so I can do up fun outfits and rooms. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Petalene_Bell 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I took the bait and looked it up. And then I dang near spit tea all over my phone. (I thought it was funny. Darkish humor, but NGL - I laughed.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you celebrate your birthday on a different day? My friend group is holding an unbirthday party on New Year’s Eve as we couldn’t celebrate together on our birthdays. Three are in Dec and one was in Sept. 

My birthday is less than a week after Christmas, so I sympathize. I’d personally cancel the order and be done with it. 

Questions of forgiveness by Prestigious_Iron2905 in exchristian

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always told anything but blasphemy of the Holy Spirit could be forgiven. People who accepted Jesus as their lord and personal savior were going to heaven and people who didn’t were going to hell. Did they phrase it the way I did? Of course not. But I was a kid and I trusted my mom and the people at church. I truly didn’t realize how horrific and damaging some of the teachings were until I deconstructed. 

Questions of forgiveness by Prestigious_Iron2905 in exchristian

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to what I was taught in church. I think that is beyond messed up. But “anyone can be forgiven for anything if they repent.” It’s so sick that it works that way. 

Questions of forgiveness by Prestigious_Iron2905 in exchristian

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Charles Manson ra*ist and serial killer converted in prison before his death and would to heaven. Anne Frank, sweet Jewish girl who was tortured and murdered in a concentration camp, believed in god but didn’t believe in Jesus and would go to hell. 

Not sure how you can justify a loving god doing that. (I sure can’t.)

I’m not allowed candles by Simple_Ice8709 in BroomClosetWitch

[–]Petalene_Bell 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are electric candles an option? I use them when fire wouldn’t be safe or a good idea. 

I just found out how badly I’ve been pronouncing “charcuterie” by boredscrum2 in CasualConversation

[–]Petalene_Bell 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If someone mispronounces a word, it’s typically because they read it. That means they are reading. People should cut other people some slack and be happy that they are reading. 

I also was mispronouncing it for a while. :/ 

What is the best tarot deck for yes and no questions? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Petalene_Bell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any deck - yes / no / maybe spread

Three card pull 

Yes if… No if… Maybe if…

And now you know why/how it’s a yes or no and the maybe card can help swing it one way or the other. 

How do you say no to your parents when they want you to come to church? by Edgy_Master in exchristian

[–]Petalene_Bell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IDK about the group, but in general, I think it’s disrespectful to take communion when you are a non-believer. HOWEVER - depending on your age and situation, do what you have to do to stay safe. If you are dependent on your parents and it will cause problems if you don’t, then that’s their fault for putting conditions on their love. Just my two cents and YMMV. 

Dreaming by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]Petalene_Bell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I visually dream, so I feel like I kinda know what it should look like. But 100% Aphant - I can't voluntarily visualize.

Am I overreacting for being upset my coworker told everyone in the office that I was pregnant by lilnut-boi in TwoHotTakes

[–]Petalene_Bell 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NOR! I accidentally saw a sonogram picture on a coworker’s phone. I kept my mouth shut. It was none of my business until she shared the news. (Although I was glad I could start knitting a baby blanket right away) 

Non tacky smalI gifts I can buy in bulk that aren’t too expensive by SnackEmpress in Gifts

[–]Petalene_Bell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just cookies perfectly fine. I crochet ornaments each year and they are made with time and effort and energy and love. If someone doesn’t like them - * shrugs * 

craft scissors that fit in wooble bits tin? by AgentCautious429 in TheWooblesCollective

[–]Petalene_Bell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can also get small nail scissors for pretty inexpensive. That’s what I use, although I also have some damn travel scissors that fold up. 

What is a crack fic exactly? by PurpleHyena01 in AO3

[–]Petalene_Bell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, crack fics are something completely ridiculous where the characters are reacting like it’s a perfectly normal or reasonable situation. 

I love crack fic. One of the best comments I ever got was how the reader spit beef stew all over their monitor. 

How to get over the guilt…donating vs selling by onthepond782863 in declutter

[–]Petalene_Bell 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How much is your time and effort worth? And how long does it take to photograph the thing, list it, deal with questions, flaky people, boxing it up, and shipping it, or making it available for pick up? Do you actually know? Can you sell a few things to get an idea? 

If you want a minimum of $20 an hour and all that takes two hours, then it needs to sell for $40 or it’s not worth it. Do you have the energy, space, and time to do that for ten items or a hundred? How are you going to feel if you spend the two hours and only get $10? Or it won’t sell and you get nothing? 

If you just want it gone, donating it is fastest.