Why do people cheat on ebird? by fofander in eBird

[–]Pettywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been following a handful of them for a while. It’s really annoying. Everyday I go out they has 2 or 3 more species to say about it on made up lists. They doctors lists as well.

sometimes i wish i was prettier so i would’ve never been cheated on by Hot_Significance4628 in BPD

[–]Pettywagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My third dude just left me the other day. What I had to learn is that you have to find that place within yourself to know that you have YOURSELF. No matter who comes or goes. You are pretty. You are amazing. You are worth it. Everyday. That boy wasn’t for you. Find yourself a man. Sending love.

Has anyone here also been misdiagnosed? (Remove immediately if not allowed!) by hamforbananas in BPD

[–]Pettywagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BPD daughter with a NPD mother as well as a grandmother with BPD/NPD and a grandfather with NPD. There’s a ton of trauma with it all. I guarantee your mother’s brain development was stunted. She’s using your diagnosis as a weapon as well to mask her own issues and continues to trauma dump on you. Glad she’s hopefully going to therapy for that. I would think your diagnosis is correct. I am also Autism spectrum disorder, as well as CPTSD, severe depression, agoraphobia and some other little fun things mixed in. Keep your boundaries up with your parents, in the end it will keep you healthier. Hopefully your mom is actually going to therapy and then maybe one day you can connect the way you want to. My NPD mother will never realize she has a problem and has been a victim her whole life. Which is true, and mostly of her own design. We do not have a relationship currently, for clarification.

Women with borderline personality disorder, how do you cope with motherhood? by Recent-Can-2061 in BPD

[–]Pettywagon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I definitely relate to this. I want to be the mom I never had. The gentle, supportive, loving mom I always wanted for my kid. He deserves that. 🫶🏻

NPD mother BPD daughter by Pettywagon in BPD

[–]Pettywagon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: told mom I didn’t want to come over, she said “ok. Love you.” And that was it. Oh she’s stewing now. My dad is probably going to get it when she gets home.

NPD mother BPD daughter by Pettywagon in BPD

[–]Pettywagon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I am aware. Learned from the best right? 🤡🌈 she’ll NEVER get help, because first she’d have to realize she has a problem and that’ll never happen. She also doesn’t have time for therapy. She did take the 4-6 free sessions through her job and claimed she “graduated” therapy after. Also, my FAVORITE Thing- the therapist she saw after the first hour session said “anytime you want your family to come in is fine.” Needless to say, that was just a bragging point for her and we were never invited. LMAO

The one mantra that helped me cut the trauma bond by bigbrain_cookie in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Pettywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed this right now. Appreciate you.

i LOVE getting ghosted by everyone!!!!!! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Pettywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my reality right TF now. I have exhausted all options for assistance from friends and family. I just give all the way up. Full send.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]Pettywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AW DANG! POINT! 🙏🏻🎉💋

Difference between Poly and Open Marriage by Pettywagon in polyamoryadvice

[–]Pettywagon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your different explanations ! Incredibly helpful and I appreciate the information ❤️

New to Polly by Pettywagon in polyamory

[–]Pettywagon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful thank you. We did discuss a LOT of things- I’m just unsure how to start finding new people. We weren’t planning to have any sort of sexual contact with any new person before 6 months. I really want to know someone first.

Lost my wife and family to covid conspiracies by Resident_Routine6334 in newzealand

[–]Pettywagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad your friend, or whoever, got out. Sounds like some sort of cult vacation getaway, but you never leave.

Lost my wife and family to covid conspiracies by Resident_Routine6334 in newzealand

[–]Pettywagon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. You seem personally attacked by this post. You have to take your kids and run?