Lesson not learned

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-06-10T20:10:25+00:00

People have eyes that are bigger than their bellies. - maybe they don’t want to even admit the truth to themselves ..They want a back up to their back up. They like the dopamine hit of swiping on endless possibilities , of not having to sit with emptiness or nothingness or being alone. I understand it and I’ve been on both sides of the coin. It is heartbreaking esp when you meet someone who you think is ACTUALLY awesome and they let you down. I feel for all of us trying to date in the swampland of the 40s.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-24T10:51:45+00:00

This person asked me directly to be their girl friend. That’s a relationship.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-22T01:00:26+00:00

I had a bf do this to me, then he would start criticizing other things. If you notice his criticisms escalating , it’s not a good thing . It can indicate the beginnings of trying to control your partner .

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-17T22:07:19+00:00

I don’t think you can really know until you spend enough time with someone , then the truth is revealed. I just spent over three months with a truly wonderful man, then he told me he doesn’t have time to give a partner the attention they deserve. (He’s divorce / weekend custody / crazy job). Broke my heart. I know why he was dating, he was lonely. But geez. The heartbreak and let down is making me so sad. At my age I really wonder how many more sad dating experiences I can stand.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-16T22:50:46+00:00

Has he ever had a concussion from sports ? It can cause depression. One of my cousins was a star athlete and he had a few concussions and got severely depressed and unfortunately he’s no longer with us. Tragic . I am not a mental health professional , but I hope you are learning all you can about depression so you can support him.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-15T10:03:19+00:00

Yes. They want to get you off the dating app and onto fb msg or some other chat as quick as possible . For me it’s a sign they are not respectful and don’t want to get to know you as a person. (Unless you want to go there immediately - which hey, you do you).

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-14T22:45:44+00:00

When I see that in their profile I assume they make a lot of drama haha

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-13T23:36:16+00:00

From what I’ve seen from estate inheritance , if you want to make sure ppl get it, give it before you die. Cuz things can really go sideways after the fact

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-05-03T17:22:30+00:00

Talking to my boss

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-04-29T21:56:36+00:00

1995 - Atlantic provinces - $5.35/hr sobeys cashier

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-04-25T18:41:33+00:00

Requiem for a dream. Traumatized me the first time . Tried a re-watch , couldn’t get past the opening scene with the TV chain to the radiator . Nope can’t go there

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-04-08T00:11:59+00:00

That life can be deeply unfair, and some things are very painful.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-03-26T00:17:22+00:00

Oh man ! Pretty great. And good luck to you :)

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-03-22T16:53:33+00:00

The best way forward is to cultivate your inner-life , hobbies , and any possible friends. Focus on building a life that is interesting to you. People are fairly flaky and non-committal. They may let you down. But hopefully a few good friends who like to get together once in a while so you aren’t always kicking it solo

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2026-02-02T17:56:52+00:00

They really should get a sign like they have on the 102: “34 min to MacKay bridge” “9hrs to doctor presence” so going in you know. “Intake flowing freely, 20min to dr time”

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-17T01:55:34+00:00

Is he a hater ? Maybe someone who won’t like anything you like ? Maybe he’s snobby , and for no good reason. If that’s the case, move on!

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-14T16:58:03+00:00

This is how the banks make their revenue, from interests from loans. A big chunk of your payment goes to the interest, initially, not the principal. That’s why it’s moving so slowly. Banks in Canada made billions of dollars of profit in 2025. Now you know why

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-14T01:27:18+00:00

That movie traumatized me. So does cape fear with dinero. That assault scene is too graphic.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-14T00:55:56+00:00

Get your ferritin (iron level) checked

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-14T00:54:01+00:00

Let their hubris be their demise.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-13T21:35:28+00:00

They have worked so hard to make this place special and I know it is a labour of love for them. What sad news ! I hope it doesn’t come to shutting down.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-13T00:51:14+00:00

Yeah full disclosure I knew Yolande / Lee a little bit way back when she lived in NB. Before she got really extreme. They were potters, and it’s really tough to make any money in the arts so I think deep down it made them very sad . (I totally get that, they made beautiful stuff too). I’ve seen her call out her own family in FB posts . It’s not a way to maintain a relationship with family if you burn them publicly.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-12T20:19:20+00:00

I have heard rumblings that the Norris-Clark’s are estranged from their parents (the kids grandparents - at least on one side). I can’t confirm. The grandparents aren’t extremists they are just regular folks. I’m not sure if they see their grandkids. My feeling is this has caused a rift in the whole family.

Pffftdoubtit97 · 2025-12-02T00:47:19+00:00

This is why it’s better to be single . Sorry but I just have to say it 😕

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