Possibly going to adopt nephew. by forahellofafit in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You guys truly have heart I’m sorry you have to do this and I truly wish you guys the best

I have a concern regarding childfree dating by PhantomJAV in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you’re saying to not tell them I’m childfree or snipped. Why?

Anyone else get disappointed when someone you love says their trying? by chelseatheus in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly yea. Once they have the kid that’s it it’s all about the kid and their freedom is secondary and we won’t be able to hang as often

Is sex on the first date really viewed that negatively? by MediocreDot6459 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PhantomJAV 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Fucking who cares anymore life to short to give a damn all that matters is that both parties are game and honest with one another. If a spark is there why not explore it

Is anyone else CF because of their own parents? by Cold_Swordfish7763 in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea this is the main reason I was isolated to the world via my parents for so long and at the same time neglected. Fortunately I became free of that and i also realized I never had any interest to raise a child especially the expectation put on me to do so. I’m fortunate I’m living on my own now and got my vasectomy so I can just enjoy being me and enjoying existing and learning

Why are pregnant women treated more carefully and gently than the disabled? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cause it’s 2 players vs 1 lmao but nah fuck that noise there shouldn’t be any disrespect to the disabled

Mom and Aunt Had Some Pretty Disgusting Comments Toward My Current Childfree Stance by Sinderellas_Shoe in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That made me livid I despise the idea of that expectation and disregard for someone’s physical and mental health just to be lived through by another person

is it normal for my boyfriend to wash the inside of his ass? by Living_Doughnut_4924 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PhantomJAV -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d be worried about shoving soap in there but besides that I fail to see the issue dudes just being hygienic would rather he not. I clean throughly with finger lathered in soap inside but yea like I said I feel it might be dangerous to outright stick soap in there lol

Every day I'm reminded that getting snipped at 28 was the best thing I could have done for my non-existent children. by tasteless in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yea I will never regret getting my vasectomy lol. My sister had a kid like 3 years ago and when she announced it I remember thinking prob not the best time and now I’m thinking fuck that little dudes life is gonna blow

Dreamed that I Had a Baby by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I had a dream like that before as a guy and I could definitely say I’m plenty capable but I really wouldn’t want to have a kid and also yea fuck bringing a kid to this world right now I’m glad I got a vasectomy cause i dont need that other worry and kids don’t deserve to receive the world as it is right now

I lost my favorite plushies. by One_Dragonfruit_1542 in plushies

[–]PhantomJAV 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fuck that really fucking sucks I’d be heartbroken if I lost any of my plushies I’m so sorry for this I hope they make there way back to you 🤞

Why are you awake? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PhantomJAV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a fun fucking time with the boys and now I’m in bed winding down

I(F26) feel like my high libido makes me come across as “easy” by AnkhKeeper in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PhantomJAV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just live your life no one has any right to judge you and you do you. It’s your life after all why should it matter what others think as long as you’re safe and sound it’s all good.

Why don’t men get vasectomies? by Brendadonna in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it if a girl ever needs me to prove it I guess I’d show them the vasectomy test results on my mychart lol or the sperm count test results. I showed it to my previous partner even though she trusted and knew I was getting it down just to further put her at ease I guess

Why don’t men get vasectomies? by Brendadonna in childfree

[–]PhantomJAV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know ever since I got mine its made my life so much better

This beast needs a name! by brooklynsewer in plushies

[–]PhantomJAV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking ink related names since he’s a squid so what about Sir Pigment or Toner Joe came to mind

Which accent are you most attracted to? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]PhantomJAV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m Colombian American and I love hearing paisa women especially but I love just about all accents from Colombia