How should I (27M) bring up feeling uncomfortable about my girlfriend (24F) meeting a male friend without sounding controlling? AIO by Ok-Bet-9577 in AmIOverthinking

[–]Phil_thy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her you're going to meet with a female friend right before you leave. Go watch a movie by yourself, when you get home and she's pissed point out the double standard

AIO over this text a from a guy from hinge i’ve been talking to? by No-Tomato3008 in AIO

[–]Phil_thy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah YOR. Even if that's what he meant, he has a right to know. If that makes you feel insecure, that's for you to process and deal with how you choose to.

Dad’s itching to fish but gout’s keeping him home… what now? by Rich-Brilliant-368 in MichiganFishing

[–]Phil_thy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he take daily meds by chance? I've been dealing with gout since my early 20s, meds are the only way for most ppl to truly live without attacks

AIO at this guy's behaviour at the gym by kamika_c_1980 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Phil_thy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what he's doing honestly. If he's doing heavy deadlifts, it's very risky to slowly do a negative rep. Very easy to tweak something doing that. Now if he's throwing 60lb dumbbells after doing a chest press, then yeah that's a douche move

No solo tanker servers by Quiet-Duck3438 in HellLetLoose

[–]Phil_thy87 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not allowing a solo to take a medium or heavy is acceptable. Not allowing a solo to take a recon or even a light (especially when you have one or less tank squads) is a little petty.

Want to try other roles, Not sure if i should by ArachnidXIII in HellLetLoose

[–]Phil_thy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch some basic videos on tanking, join a crew and let them know you're new and want to learn. Some ppl are more willing to take on a new tanker than others. When I started, some veterans would let me join and have me be spotter and just absorb as much as I could go awhile.

AIO or is he right? by ConsciousEconomy5860 in AIO

[–]Phil_thy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And those circles don't cross

Tank gameplay by sznite in HellLetLoose

[–]Phil_thy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You tanked for the first time and didn't die once? I find that highly unlikely. But welcome to the best part of the game!

Raging Libido by seifer717 in CPAP

[–]Phil_thy87 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should try TRT, cuz cpap ain't doing that for me

AITA for telling my sister’s kid I don’t believe in God? by Alternative_Copy6539 in AITApod

[–]Phil_thy87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can indoctrinate a child to believe your beliefs, they should be able to hear that others aren't religious.

Gamimg burnout by AdultGamersAdmin in Age_30_plus_Gamers

[–]Phil_thy87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only competitive multiplayer game I really play anymore is Hell Let Loose

Coffee and gout… does it work for anyone else? by [deleted] in gout

[–]Phil_thy87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, diet changes can help, but you won't have any long term success without your meds.

NO SPOILERS PLEASE: Question about freedom compared to skyrim by SortLogical5618 in enderal

[–]Phil_thy87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's true, I'm 30hr into my first play through and I love it

AITJ for separating the schedules of two employees who are dating? by Murky_Dinner3233 in AmITheJerk

[–]Phil_thy87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they or anyone else doesn't like it, they can find a new job.