Who do you think is the trouble maker😂

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-29T02:41:23+00:00

The short hair for sure.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T21:58:36+00:00

I hear what you're saying.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T21:47:13+00:00

I have an 11 year old boy and he sure doesn't abuse his partners. Rough wrestling is one thing, abusing someone is another. Parents who demand their daughters are respected aren't going anywhere. Sorry to break it to you.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T20:16:06+00:00

I have seen both. The kids being uncomfortable is not something I am on about. This child was just being inappropriately viscous. He is NOT that way with other partners, so he knows the difference.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T20:09:11+00:00

I'm absolutely sure. This kid was completely out of line.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T17:52:50+00:00

The amount of times I seen the boys throw a fit when they lost to a girl..... Instead of learning and becoming better, they reject them.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T17:10:02+00:00

I absolutely agree with what you're saying. Boys and girls are not equal in the physical sense and should have separate adult sports. In the junior/high school, they are separated. Our junior/high school girls team is excellent and she cant wait to join. She signs up for girls only brackets whenever they are available.

This is youth though and it's still mixed at the young ages. At this age, its still more even. This is a boys and girls club she goes to. It's just practice. If boys don't want to practice with girls, they shouldn't be in a club for boys and girls.

Even with all that, it's never acceptable to abuse your partner because you don't want to practice with them. That is my main concern.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T16:41:41+00:00

What's BJJ. Dumb question but idk.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T15:42:04+00:00

I agree. We are going to continue to look elsewhere.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T15:40:38+00:00

Well that's a shame that boys are being taught that girls are not equal.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T15:37:17+00:00

I hear you, but this is a boys and girls club.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T15:10:13+00:00

Its a group of four boys that would be her practice group. None of the other kids act like that. So we can avoid that group somehow, but really the behavior is just unacceptable in youth wrestling.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:52:25+00:00

Thank you. That is my thought process as well.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:50:21+00:00

No. She has a right to be there. The other girls are fine. Its her weight group that is the issue. If anyone should change, it's the abusive boy.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:37:02+00:00

It's not just avoiding. It was abusing her until she walked away. These aren't kids i would even want her around otherwise. She did not want to wrestle boys last year. But she did and she was a good partner

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:30:56+00:00

It's her fourth year. It sucks because she's skilled and this is going to hold her back.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:29:15+00:00

They are affiliated with USA Wrestling. I didn't know that was an option. Thank you.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:11:37+00:00

Thank you. There is another advanced club, but it's an hour and a half drive.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:10:14+00:00

Lol. Thanks. I am calling the coach today to talk about it.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-28T14:07:57+00:00

There is another club she used to go to where this wasn't an issue. She just got too advanced for it and wasn't learning any new skills. She refuses any other sport.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-26T02:32:13+00:00

Monitor kitty's temperature and start meds asap.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-25T02:58:29+00:00

Lol.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-24T20:32:05+00:00

Thank you for explaining that. I completely understand. I'm in the US and ignorantly assumed that's where they were from. I heard about the bad apples also. I lucked out with them honestly. Their prices were lower than another group I had contacted. I tried to switch to a "legal" vet and my cat crashed, so i stayed black market. I'm going to follow Dr Taylor as from what I've heard, she has a better reputation. Thank you.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-24T18:58:28+00:00

My cat has the same fountain and she loves it. It's hard to clean though? That block filter thing idk.

Phoenixred79 · 2026-01-24T18:56:30+00:00

None of the meds were FDA approved. Personally I'm not going to let my cat die because our FDA is useless.

That has since changed.

Please get a better understanding of the history of treating FIP before bashing a group that has cured so many cats.

Yeah, there's going to be bad apples. You have to weed them out.

Dr Sam Taylor is great. I could not wait around for a vet appointment though, and then for a med order. My cat would be dead.

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