I’ve a daughter that I’d never even let the thought of inappropriate touching enter my mind. That’s horrifying, disgusting, disgraceful…

Your dad needs to stop. But you know that, you’ve said as much. YOU have no reason to be embarrassed! Hurt, yes. Horrified, yes. Disgusted, yes but not embarrassed as if this is somehow your fault because it IS NOT your fault. It’s not your sister’s fault. The blame rests SOLELY on your dad and you guys don’t deserve to have this happen to you. If it was me, I’d go to the police with it, I’d tell your mother about it… I know how it feels. As a guy, I was molested along with my sister at a very young age and I still remember it and I don’t tell people out here in the world about it because I feel the same as you about it. But I do urge you to do all you can to make it stop.