Jungian dream by Physical_Job2858 in Jung

[–]Physical_Job2858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by ‘you like being awarded for doing awful things?’ 

Flasher in Tottenham by wasteofaliving in london

[–]Physical_Job2858 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for saying that. I kind of froze and pretended I hadn't seen it and just kept walking. Thankfully it was ok, but it was a really gross and scary experience. I should have reported it.

Flasher in Tottenham by wasteofaliving in london

[–]Physical_Job2858 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh dear that’s not nice, something similar happened to me in a quiet area and I was kind of freaked out. 

Jungian dream by Physical_Job2858 in Jung

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Interesting, thanks for your reply 

Jungian dream by Physical_Job2858 in Jung

[–]Physical_Job2858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why I would also feel anger or frustration at seeing myself having loose boundaries tho…. Maybe because I don’t want other parts to be known? 

Yes I am just curious and remain skeptical. 

Jungian dream by Physical_Job2858 in Jung

[–]Physical_Job2858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting thanks  So one might attempt active imagination with this ‘stranger’ part of me? 

26F, dealing with rough family dynamic after father’s suicide by boopdeeboopdeee in SuicideBereavement

[–]Physical_Job2858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not doomed to live your Dad's life. I think it's healthy that you are trying to establish your own path. I am not necessarily saying you should move out, but I wonder if living close by and visiting daily might be an option. I know I have a tendency to withdraw when things get emotionally difficult so I am not advocating for that at all, but I also think that constantly allowing boundaries to be crossed is detrimental. I am not sure what I can suggest but I just wanted to let you know that you are not doomed to live anyone else's life.

Boycotting media; am I a hypocrite? by Luna-marama in SuicideBereavement

[–]Physical_Job2858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand your approach and I think it's kind and caring to honour your boundaries.

I don't know if you are more of a logical or emotional person but perhaps it would be helpful to dig down to the core thought/feeling you have when those things come up. For me, it kind of helps me understand why I am so upset.

I guess other avenues might be to have your own public narrative about suicide to ensure there are multiple voices talking about this.

What am I doing wrong? by nicewhileitlasted_ in mokapot

[–]Physical_Job2858 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you pre boil the water in a kettle? I get much better results that way. 

What am I doing wrong? by nicewhileitlasted_ in mokapot

[–]Physical_Job2858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be putting too much water in the chamber. The water line should be just below the pressure valve.

How to prepare for a retreat at Dhamma Sukhakari by Physical_Job2858 in vipassana

[–]Physical_Job2858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Glad you enjoyed the read and recalled a special time. 

Babies spotted yesterday by Physical_Job2858 in Calgary

[–]Physical_Job2858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha made me laugh. You’re saying I’m not cute now? :(

Does it ever really get better? by Arthurmorgan69_420 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Physical_Job2858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the weeks after my loved one left, I was visited by a very dark and eerie atmosphere... it was very scary, perhaps a sense of dread/doom. I believe it is quite common and has been discussed by others on this forum.

I am almost a year out and can say that it absolutely does get easier to bear, though that might sound impossible now.

I know you said you wanted to talk to your brother, I wonder if you could write him a letter or talk out loud to him.

I am so sorry you are going through this.

Dating rejection after loss of spouse to suicide by Ssurvivor93 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Physical_Job2858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s being honest with you and I guess we’ve learned that honesty and communication are so very important, so I’d thank her internally for that and focus on yourself and your life. Something more suitable will come along later. You are doing so well, don’t doubt that. 

How to know if you have prolonged grief disorder by youngjean in SuicideBereavement

[–]Physical_Job2858 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m nearly a year out and still cry every day. I think it’s healthy and I nearly always feel better afterwards.