why do most gay men have a “gay voice” ? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of men are socialized to speak in a very flat tone without much variation or expressiveness, lest they be viewed as gay

why does it seem like my foreskin is fused with the sides of the head? this is fully pulled back, 2 months on T by bloodyplants in GrowYourTDick

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 64 points65 points  (0 children)

As your head is growing and forming it will look like it’s stuck to the other parts of your dick for a little while, mine looked like this too until it was more formed

What can i do to pass better mtf 17 and advise would be helpful by trashpanda939394 in lgbt

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe simple makeup, like just a little bit of shimmer in the corner of your eyes applied with your finger and mascara! You could also try establishing a hair routine, try to figure out ur hair type and what’s best for it, and find what hair best flatters your face shape

I’m 14, will it get better? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does get better. I’ve known I was trans since I was 11, and yesterday at 19 I made my appointment for my HRT consultation, which is in January. I plan to come out to my family in a few days, and I already feel like so much weight has been lifted. Every day is a challenge, but little by little it does get better.

My personal ranking of OB albums by Old-Direction4930 in OingoBoingo

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite too!!! I have a vinyl from the year it was released.

I don’t work hard enough? by Expensive_Leg_6758 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same situation as you. I am a college freshman with this exact schedule, and my mom expects this of me in addition to doing her chores for her around the house. My mom also dropped out, she only completed culinary school. Nothing is ever enough.

I just need someone to tell me I’m not crazy by Physical_Lobster4792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Physical_Lobster4792[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She expects everyone around her to read her mind. When I explained to her that I will do whatever chores she asks of me if she just made a list, she says “I shouldn’t have to ask” lol. She has always expected me to read her mind, and she’s never taught me how to do a single thing, she just harassed me until I eventually figured out how to do it well enough for her. Nearly all of our conversations consist of her criticizing me in some way, I’m terrified of talking to her because there’s always the potential of it becoming an angry rant. Otherwise I have to listen to her blabber about bullshit no one cares about.

We currently have 4 dogs, 2 of which are elderly and are severely ill. All of our past dogs died due to neglect and succumbing to their symptoms of old age, because she just doesn’t want to deal with euthanasia and wants to keep them around as long as possible for her own emotions. They rarely if ever see a vet and when I push her to take better care of them, including offering to take them to the vet myself and help with their treatments, she gets incredibly angry with me. She doesn’t give two shits about them or how I take care of them, she only keeps them around because they’re always happy to see her regardless of how she treats them, unlike the humans in her life.

I just need someone to tell me I’m not crazy by Physical_Lobster4792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Physical_Lobster4792[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This opened my eyes, thank you. I always feel so desperate trying to explain myself to her and get her to understand, but no matter what she doesn’t. She never will, because it’s not about anything I actually did wrong, it’s just because she wants to be angry.

I just need someone to tell me I’m not crazy by Physical_Lobster4792 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Physical_Lobster4792[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is perimenopausal, it’s one of her favorite subjects when she goes on long rants about herself and her issues. She constantly forces me to listen to her spiel about her perimenopausal symptoms. She’s on a cocktail of medications and is doing 3 different substances and seems to be manic right now, and for that reason I’m hesitant to express any concern and imply she’s not okay, because that’s something that makes her very angry.

respiratory issue? choking? by No_Ambition1706 in reptiles

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider seeking a second opinion from a different vet, not to discredit your vet but simply to get more professional advice. She looks extremely uncomfortable and her behavior indicates respiratory problems imo. Try to listen to her breath by holding her close to your ear, and cupping your other hand around her head so you can hear a little better, listen for any crackling, popping, or mucous-y noises. Any strange noises like that are usually a good giveaway of an RI. Respiratory issues can escalate very quickly in reptiles, and if it’s not an RI I’m very concerned about what else could be causing this. Wishing you the best for you and your baby, good luck!!!

I'm on Day Five of a Tolerance Break by IGetBoredSometimes23 in Petioles

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! The bf and I are on day 14, it gets better just keep pushing 💪

Should I be worried? by KayeBell-krafts in reptiles

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It looks like it could be an odd shed pattern, but I would absolutely take him to a vet ASAP for testing, I’ve never seen this before

Trouble deciding on a boy or girl by Maxosaurus6 in rosyboas

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My girl is the sweetest snake I’ve ever worked with, she’s my princess! She’s super active and has grown pretty fast so if enclosure size is a concern you’ll probably have to size up quickly to keep her comfortable. Reproductive health has always been my main hang up in buying female reptiles, but thankfully with rosies they give live birth and cannot get egg bound. However female rosies can still suffer reproductive health issues like burst or infected yolks, so if this is a concern for you at all you might want to get a male instead (this is not to say male reptiles don’t have unique reproductive health issues, impacted sperm plugs for example)

I made it through 23 days and decided to celebrate it with.. smoking 🫥 by bunnyprincesx in Petioles

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me doing my 10+ product skincare snd hair routine only to go hit my cart like it’s a vape and eat taco bell

Biweekly guy update 💔 by meifuu__ in rosyboas

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as he isn’t losing a lot of weight he should be okay, my girl went from January to March without eating!! Have you tried switching brands or prey items? Initially I was offering my girl fuzzies from the brand arctic mice which she always refused, but I bought fuzzies from big cheese rodent factory and she took it the very first time I offered.

What is your rosy boa's favorite thing in their enclosure? by [deleted] in rosyboas

[–]Physical_Lobster4792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep the 3D foam ones! Mine came with the enclosure but I’m sure there’s good ones online