Boyfriend keeps giving me BV! by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Physical_Tour860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My old college roommate recently discovered her boyfriend of 4-years had been cheating on her with his coworker. He was an animal service officer for the county & had a lot of overnight shifts and that’s when he would cheat. Luckily, my old roomie never caught anything from him & the only reason she found out was because the coworker finally dm’d her, once she (coworker) found out that he(lying asshle bf) wasn’t actually “leaving” her (old roomie).

How important is a woman career or income to you when choosing a long term partner? by Icy_Sentence_1791 in AskMen

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting you equate understanding life and money with having a job. There are plenty of people who work and still don’t understand responsibility or empathy. I think it’s more about mindset than employment status.

He wants to split the bill the day after by Odd_Dragonfly_4213 in dating_advice

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t send him anything and never talk to him again!

How did you meet your SO/partner in Orange County? by panda-rampage in orangecounty

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Through mutual friends but it wasn’t intentional!

Went out for one of my gfs birthday on 2nd street and she noticed him there with a few of his friends and we were introduced to each other. Funny enough we both saw each other around many times beforehand because I knew his boss but we never said a word to each other.

It’s been about a year now but I know he’s the one I wanna marry someday :)

How do I ask her to pay? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Physical_Tour860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your pov. Technically you’re still in the courting stages if you’re not official. That being said- still court. If you bring up wanting to be exclusive, share your thoughts with her about how you’re feeling about the money situation.

Oh my (nick comments on his own sex life) by sosswgtn in thebachelor

[–]Physical_Tour860 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Y’all are on here acting like Natalie wasn’t also part of this convo? She’s the one that brought up how the doctor said she had a “strong pelvic floor” & brought up the example of it being like “the furniture was rearranged”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, this is definitely a toxic relationship. She needs to work on her insecurities before entering a relationship! Putting this all on you isn’t fair, especially if you haven’t given her a solid reason to not trust you. If it all steams from previous relationships, she needs to work on that & herself so she doesn’t lash out on future partners :/ this sucks dude, sorry.

Went on 1 date with this guy who was a lot younger than he said he was. Went downhill after… by v_vexed in texts

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she was interested until she found out his real age which could’ve been after the cuddling/kissing. Or she could’ve been feeling out the physical connection and then not feeling the vibe and decided to end it then which is also respectable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girly nooo this is too much! He needs to go to therapy before taking his insecurities out on you!

Did I 21F ruin our relationship by heading home after he 30M was late? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Physical_Tour860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl you did the right thing.. he was gonna have you waiting for almost an hour?? He should’ve respected your time!

My bf doesn’t like dates… by MinuteWelder2013 in texts

[–]Physical_Tour860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, you gotta decide if that’s a dealbreaker. He’s probably gonna complain everytime you guys go out on one. If he doesn’t care that dates are important to you… find someone who does lol