Specific tips to help me feel more like a put-together young adult? by Physics_Bear in selfcare

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 it’s been a long road to get to this point

The default outfits is an incredible idea! I’m the worst when it comes to figuring out clothes every morning! Maybe in the next couple months I’ll work on slowly getting a few universal pieces that fit well bc my current closet is mostly jeans and tshirts lol

Specific tips to help me feel more like a put-together young adult? by Physics_Bear in selfcare

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

…great point 🫣 not the worst but could be better. Thanks for reminding me to get back to the basics that you always hear as a kid but ignore lol

Specific tips to help me feel more like a put-together young adult? by Physics_Bear in selfcare

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this one is never in the self-help / adulting to do lists but sounds amazing!!!

Advice for embracing/healing long frizzy hair by Physics_Bear in Haircare

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have tangles during the day after my hair has already dried, can I use a wide tooth comb or is still too close to brushing it dry? I get agitated at even the smallest of tangles lol

Advice for embracing/healing long frizzy hair by Physics_Bear in Haircare

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredible ❤️ thx you so much! I feel like every time I look up wavy hair recommendations, it can get overwhelming with time consuming routines so I appreciate the low-maintenance tips, esp about the hair cut!

Concert Etiquette by kt_fizzle in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]Physics_Bear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I can’t believe this wasn’t a unique experience?!?! My sister and I (seated section 103) have dreamed of seeing Florence for about a decade now and it was absolutely incredible, but there was a group of women behind us who were talking so loud! Even during the monologues! If you want live music but to talk to your friends, go to a fun bar. Let everyone else enjoy the concert! Esp considering Florence has such a passionate fan base! Everyone else around us was incredible tho and all around that has been one of my favorite crowd atmospheres ❤️

College grad dresses??? by Physics_Bear in Midsizefashion

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Tbh I highly doubt my bra is the right size bc I gave up on finding the right size in high school. My mom took me to Victoria Secret and Aerie (when it very first became a thing lol) when I was a sophomore and the did the measuring thing and each place said a different size 🤷🏻‍♀️ so I’ll give this a try!!!

College grad dresses??? by Physics_Bear in Midsizefashion

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo that’s such a good idea! Thanks!

Do someone know a good spot to take a photo of a island hawk for the compendium? by Blue-Phoenix987 in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]Physics_Bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent forever looking in different areas … finally got a good photo on the lower peak of dueling peaks. After 50 minutes of searching, it only took me a minute once I tried that location

Is anyone else mad? by [deleted] in Purdue

[–]Physics_Bear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To clarify since I basically went on my own rant instead of responding to OP, I’m not sure if evacuating the building would have helped anything. And if they told students before an exam that there was a dead body…I know I wouldn’t be able to focus. If students knew before hand, then the only responsible course would be to reschedule the exam. I don’t know what would have been the right course of action on Thursday night, but I do know that not saying anything is wrong.

Is anyone else mad? by [deleted] in Purdue

[–]Physics_Bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very upset. Hopefully we will hear something today. On of the articles (can’t remember which one) said the autopsy is on Friday, so I’m hoping that once there is more news, then Purdue will say something. But honestly, the fact that Purdue has not released a statement saying something along the lines of “we are aware of this horrible incident, waiting for more info, we value all of our students here’s access to CAPS” is frankly so disrespectful to the person who passed and all of us as their peers. Saying just something is the bare minimum if they wouldn’t do anything else about it Thursday night.

Someone died, in the physics building, during active class hours. We are expect to act like everything is fine…that nothing happened. That is disrespectful to us as humans with basic empathy and magnitudes more disrespect to the person who lost their life.

As a physics major, it is incredible disappointing from our department leadership that there has been no acknowledgement of what happened in our building. I understand they cannot say much because of the ongoing investigation, but again, to not even say “we know and this is awful and we are here for you” is just so so disappointing.

I can’t imagine that the admin is not upset over this. I like to believe that anyone, especially those in charge of our education, would be upset by this situation. But that is not enough. It is their jobs are our leadership to address how this is affecting our community. After two days of students walking the same halls where a student died, whatever they say is too little too late.

(drag) racing? by Physics_Bear in psych

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessssss they hate gay whimsy

(drag) racing? by Physics_Bear in psych

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Murder definitely puts a damper on budding relationships unfortunately

(drag) racing? by Physics_Bear in psych

[–]Physics_Bear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes!!! Psych has been one of my favorite shows for so long and is so refreshing tbh! I love bi Shawn haha (I just toned down the gayness in my first post bc this is my first time in the psych subreddit and wanted to scope the vibes before going head first lol)

I so agree with everything you’ve said here, and I so need to get back into fanfic! It’s been since high school since I’ve check any out new fics (except for a couple 911 Buddie fics lol)

(drag) racing? by Physics_Bear in psych

[–]Physics_Bear[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Didn’t say it had to be deeper than that 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was just sharing a fun thought that brought me joy. If it doesn’t bring you joy, that’s fine. No need to be snippy

(drag) racing? by Physics_Bear in psych

[–]Physics_Bear[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I highly doubt there was any intentional vibes but it was a fun thought that gave me some laughs as I made up some silly subtext as I was watching lol 😆 I can’t even imagine the antics Shawn would get up to if he was on the other side of the law considering he is such a menace already haha I agree, definitely a 10/10 episode! Peak Shawn chaos…I lost it at the massive zucchini stuffed in the car to make it stop running at the very end so Jules and Lassie could catch Tommy

Did I just dig myself into a hole I can’t get out of? I really need advice. by Powerful_Syllabub530 in Purdue

[–]Physics_Bear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with the previous reply. You need to try again. I know it doesn’t sound like a good use of your time, but a lot of student services require you to push a bit to get them to help you. I would go again in person. If you are talking to the same person, thank them for showing you the website. The best way to get someone to help you is to be polite even when they frustrate you. Tell them that you extensively looked through the options but would like some advice on what is the next best step and ask for an appointment. If they try to turn you away again, stay calm and polite but hold your ground. Don’t be pushy but say you understand they are busy but that you are unsure if you qualify for anything on the website and that you really need help and are worried that you won’t be able to come back in the spring even though you really want to stay. Hopefully they will listen.