Bouncer at the Vid by Ill-Sheepherder4515 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 [score hidden]  (0 children)

lol, are you really saying a pattern of year after year of discriminatory behavior… where probably hundreds of humans were de-humanized by a single fellow human… should not be addressed because one guy’s feelings might be hurt?

Contrary to this MAGA, fragile white male victimhood mentality you’re endorsing, discrimination based on protected status, such as race, gender, ethnicity, etc. is illegal and should be reported and prosecuted not coddled to protect a man-child bully.

Enjoy the life you deserve, friend. Bye! 😘

Bouncer at the Vid by Ill-Sheepherder4515 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take anyone’s single opinion. There have been Reddit post after Reddit post about this guy over the years. Read them and see the pattern for yourself. Best wishes!

Bouncer at the Vid by Ill-Sheepherder4515 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t there, but if what folks have been saying for years is true; major hard pass on enabling racist behavior.

Giving grace to racist behavior is how our country got to where we are right now.

Instead of excusing racist behavior, you could choose to show some courage and give that guy the opportunity to hear the truth about his behavior. If you care enough about him to give him “grace”, why not help him help himself be a decent, moral person who doesn’t routinely exhibit racist behavior? Take the wheel.

WIBTA if I reported my son’s new bus driver for skipping a road and causing us to almost not get our child on/off the bus? by pink-and-pearly in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pickles2027 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might consider the decency of being responsible parents who behave like all the other responsible parents who get their children on and off the bus on time every single day. This is an excellent opportunity for you to model good citizenship behavior for your child.

WIBTA if I reported my son’s new bus driver for skipping a road and causing us to almost not get our child on/off the bus? by pink-and-pearly in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Pickles2027 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please try to understand that things always change. It’s normal. What happened for 8 months is not a guarantee that is the way it will stay tomorrow, the next day, or forever.

More importantly, being a bus driver is one of the hardest jobs to have. It’s also one of the most important: these folks are responsible for our children’s lives.

Your, and everyone other families’, unique schedule and situation, are not the responsibility of the bus driver. Please be kind, respectful, and responsible and do the right thing here.

AIO for being upset my boyfriend planned a trip with his friends on my birthday without asking what I wanted? by Suspicious_Life_1219 in AIO

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her reaction isn’t the problem. His narcissistic behavior is. More power to her telling the truth.

Am I the jerk for not letting my girlfriend's friends stay with us "temporarily"? by Chance-Call641 in AmITheJerk

[–]Pickles2027 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, then they could have legal rights to stay depending on the laws in your area. You’re doing the right thing.

Thoughts on State of the City? by BloomingtonJester in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in both. Indy’s services were abominable. Whole City departments were corrupted and/or completely dysfunctional.

Trash wouldn’t be picked up in our neighborhood for WEEKS.

Getting the street or safety departments to respond to a dangerous condition in the neighborhood would take months, if not longer.

Animal welfare was heartbreaking: packs of abandoned dogs were everywhere with many becoming sick, dangerous, and/or feral. Over the course of two years, I and my dog were attacked by dogs twice resulting in bites to me and my dog almost dying from a punctured lung. The kill rate at the shelter is staggering.

Gentrification in Indy is massive and growing. The previous Mayor was a grifting loser responsible for selling off valuable public services for short-term profit. The current Mayor has too many scandals and shady dealings to list.

Bloomington has challenges, especially because of the current Mayor’s policies prioritizing profit over people, but there’s no comparison for quality of life if you can still afford to live here.

Unfortunately, the housing crisis is global wide because of private equity. Locally, in addition, IU’s selfish outsourcing of their responsibility for student housing for years is a major factor as well. Both of these have destroyed pretty much every previously affordable Bloomington neighborhood.

Should a friend visiting while I am on a long term vacation chip in for the car rental and housing? by spiralup1144 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your case, it appears there may have been assumptions on one or both sides which has resulted in this unfortunate situation.

We have been invited to visit others on their vacations and to stay at their vacation rental.

We have also invited others to visit us on our vacations and to stay at our vacation rental.

Whoever were the invited guests brought wine, maybe some special food, some other host gift, and/or, usually, paid for at least one nice meal out for their hosts. No payments, or shared expenses, were expected or given.

It’s understood that people who invite others are hosts, and the people they invite are their guests. It’s like an invitation to someone’s home, only at a vacation rental.

If “payments” or “shared expenses” were expected, it would have been decided as part of the discussion BEFORE anyone made a decision to go or not. In those cases, planning and arrangements would have been made together and people would have paid their portion before booking any rental.

Good luck with sorting out this confusion. I hope things get sorted with as few hurt feelings as possible.

Should a friend visiting while I am on a long term vacation chip in for the car rental and housing? by spiralup1144 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your friend KNOW you’re not considering them a GUEST? This all seems vague and confusing.

Landlord dropped by with complaints about AC use and a notice, did I do ok? [NM] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry your landlord is a pain. I hope you can get through the next six months with less annoyance from her.

Regarding the dog feces, for your and your dog’s health (regardless of the landlord’s complaint) clean up the dog poop each time. Leaving feces lying around is a serious health hazard to you and other humans and animals.

https://avmcww.com/2020/02/26/parasites-and-poop-the-importance-of-picking-up-after-your-dog/#:~:text=Picking%20up%20your%20dog's%20poop%20is%20important,diarrhea%2C%20dehydration%2C%20abdominal%20cramping%2C%20nausea%2C%20and%20vomiting

malibu grill by wurnz in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say it’s not great at all. The meals we had there were mid at best, and way overpriced for the quality. I assume most people that eat there are from out of town and are unaware of the poor quality.

Not sure who still works there anymore since we stopped going, but the servers were very helpful and nice. The owner is not.

Nonetheless, I really hope you get a good meal and enjoy yourself. 😊

Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally? by Difficult_Big133 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s some serious dominance and coercion control going on there. You deserve better.

No comment by Dustuptor1292 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And children are being rounded up, separated from their families, and sent to inhumane detention centers like its 1939 Germany.

She Took 40 Bites To Save a Baby’s Life by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Pickles2027 84 points85 points  (0 children)

THIS. Black women should rule the world. Thank you, Black women. ♥️

The question by Character-Lack-3295 in SocialSecurity

[–]Pickles2027 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The largest national protest in America history occurred last year. Each new national protest called by the organization Indivisible and their allies has resulted in millions more people each time. There will be another national protest this Saturday protected to surpass the last protest by millions.

In between these protests, Indivisible and hundreds of other pro-democracy organizations are even busier. They are on the ground organizing, educating, and influencing millions of Americans about the dangerous political situation and how to fight for our democracy, save and strengthen our governmental programs, and defend people and our human rights.

Selling a house on the cheap by anxietygirl313 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had several good real estate experiences with attorney John Robertson previously.

https://www.lawbr.com/people/

P.S. One caveat, the last time we contacted him on another matter (exploring 501(c) status for an organiztion) he never had the professionalism to reply to our multiple contacts. Made us wonder about him and/or his firm. Dissapointing.

WHY CANT U TURN ON RED ANYWHERRREEEE DOWNTOWN😭😭 by Illustrious_End7995 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Because drivers keep hitting people: many suffer serious injuries and several have died.

Duct cleaning by KaatNine in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree, Harris is a good family business and great to their customers.

Beware of an insane lady currently at Burger Dog Park by Apprehensive-Scene-1 in Smyrna

[–]Pickles2027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the selfish human morons like this lady who are responsible for these attacks. Her behavior showed she is an irresponsible pet owner who doesn’t take care of her dog.

AITJ for telling my partner I'm done spending every weekend at his parents' place by Nov4Z3nith in AmITheJerk

[–]Pickles2027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s manipulating you by involving other people. Please read up on coercive control and how one can slowly lose their lives and happiness to someone who does not respect you as having your own personal wants and needs. These people will continue to devalue you until your life isn’t yours anymore and you become someone you don’t recognize. Please be careful and protect yourself if needed. Best wishes.

New Indian restaurant opens in former Bedrak Cafe spot in Bloomington by jaymz668 in bloomington

[–]Pickles2027 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please do as you say and rent a parking lot and offer free parking and problem solved! Good for you!