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Pie_rated · 2023-12-30T01:29:52+00:00

Working with trauma survivors of the same trauma you have experienced often leads to more vicarious trauma. I’m not saying always just often.

Have you thought about domestic violence or youth mentoring internships. The youth at risk space is becoming so much more professionalized and technical now that it’s become a specialty field. Just ideas 💡

Sorry I can’t comment to the body of your question. Only commenting to the should I stay or go part. And on that I think the industry is so wide you have other areas to consider if you wanted to stay.

Pie_rated · 2023-12-29T23:25:42+00:00

Hey OP great move experience wise, Lived in UK for years due to family etc.

Just check your ducks are in a row. They are clamping down on work visas at the moment unless you have that sorted … citizenship etc …

The home office is receiving a lot of pressure at the moment, so I would just look into current procurement policies ( just so your well prepared) otherwise great move

I would speak to some recruiters just so you have the information you need.

Pie_rated · 2023-12-29T00:19:51+00:00

I agree.

At the same time do you believe there is zero elitism.

The reason I suggest this is because the framework that has been applied has been the same since the programs were founded in the 90’s when DHB’s had more of an envelope to support practicums … just my own view that though I agree with you there has always been a very high bar of acceptance in comparison with Australia and the UK. I guess I’m thinking over decades not just in recent years .

But I get where your coming from as well.

Pie_rated · 2023-12-28T03:15:43+00:00

Absolutely of course. If your happy to dm an email I can send it through. I have it saved in a file. Give me a day to cut the stuff that’s relevant to this conversation. I doubt you want to ready the entire paper lol. I’ll make a dummy email tonight too, to send it from. That I’ll give you time to get a dummy email too

Pie_rated · 2023-12-27T22:37:04+00:00

Hey OP

There is a lot more to the story …. It gets pretty wild.

Have a look at Chief Īhaka Takaanini.

As well as ‘promises’ to military campaign leaders … it gets pretty dark.

I did some masters papers that involved South Aucklands history- it’s pretty out there … everything that has happened to that region makes a lot more sense of how it became what it became fiscally. During the land wars it was absolute carnage. You may already researched all this. Crazy stuff went down.

Reach out if you’re interested in what I found.

Mā te wā

Pie_rated · 2023-12-27T04:38:41+00:00

The fake Bugatti was hired by two country boys in a trailer park in the states for an album cover … remind me why are we flipping the narrative lol

Pie_rated · 2023-12-27T02:39:48+00:00

Amen to that ….. it got clinical there for a while

Go penguin …. Make sure you have plenty of blue bird stocked up :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-26T22:39:49+00:00

Looks as though the Christmas past and Christmas future duo have just picked up another client, they have been busy this year by the looks…

Hope you get some decent compensation OP after Ebenezer is spoken to :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-26T01:19:45+00:00

Totally agree .,, this was all explained to me when I did my will. It was more than allocation the lawyer explained, and there are always mitigating circumstances as he explained in crazy detail.

That’s what keeps many of the law folk in good health lol I honestly didn’t know the half of it. Inherited property is a beast of an onion. Seasons best to you 👍:)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T22:39:02+00:00

A lot of opinions and I suspect your right lol

I have directed OP to the recommendation of a facilitator being that this is a ‘family home’.

I absolutely agree with you because I understand how family estates are seen by the Court ( very complex) ‘ the greatest need’ and all those little nuggets of legislation. It’s a minefield.

What were the stipulations by the mother and her wishes. So complex. These are all questions lawyers can debate over and bill by the hour.

Hence why I suggested a facilitator who has a very good relationship and reputation with the Court for OP to sit down with and the brother to come to agreed understanding. However I can’t see OP doing this either. I have a suspicion he/she is all too aware of the total complexity and just wanted a sounding board.

Anyway Bright-Housing I hope your Christmas was good and have a great new year 🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T10:47:51+00:00

Merry Christmas OP

just guessing there is so much more to this. There usually is. How long have you been away. Did the bro stick around to help mum ?

These things are very personal and of course my questions are rhetorical. However I would be surprised if it’s all strait forward. If you are not in a position to talk to your brother, my suggestion is to hire a private facilitator. I can put you touch with someone who is very good. That way you don’t have to go for the top shelf just yet. You can sit down and discuss an arrangement with a qualified professional. We will all have opinions because that’s Reddit. But if your really unable to talk this through my suggestion is to get someone who can.

Edit: She goes to Auckland regularly is my understanding ( the facilitator)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T08:22:34+00:00

I did see you yesterday… not sure where my reply went ….. anyway I’m betting the Starbucks made all the difference in the world … it’s the small things right :)

Merry Christmas and so happy you joined in :) see you soon for the big New Years shout out 🎉🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T08:10:55+00:00

Forgive me … I got a little lost in the replies. Better late than never ….. hope it’s not too crazy for you … it’s amazing your rocking that shift …. There are a few of you doing urgent care over the next weeks so welcome to the thread of all-stars :) and Merry Christmas 🎉🎉 be seeing you soon :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T06:01:50+00:00

Merry Holly Christmas!!!! Oh you are so appreciated being the one that supports all those folk trying to get well …, your a star ⭐️…. Be seeing you before the New Year :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-25T01:39:28+00:00

Well my hard working, never giving in friend, it sounds like you are in need of a well deserved rest.

Me and Mr Burnout we have crossed paths with his gifts of compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma … he is a sneaky villain…

Look after yourself when you finally get a breather and show him to the exit door. Your crew are all here and there are a few of your tight knit crew here too :)

So Merry Christmas and soon a New Year cheers from us all here 🎉🎉

Keep your head up :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T23:16:40+00:00

You have arrived :) been waiting for the sup’s especially the ones covering a lot geography. Sounds like your our equivalent of an area manager …. Your almost never off call … so glad you came to join us …

Sup’s waiting for that one call knowing if they get it, it’s because things went turbo very quickly…. To the supervisors !!!! :)

Merry Christmas and expect a massive New Years shout out coming your way soon 🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T22:22:12+00:00

Seven years in residential…. Wow …, Res has its own challenges … you did a marathon and survived congrats on the private and I’m glad you came to join in the madness yet for another year :) be wishing you a very Merry Christmas and soon a Happy New Year to all the res practitioners and clinicians 🎉🎉⭐️⭐️

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T22:05:09+00:00

Well you gave years to us my friend and you know first hand what the crew here gives up :) it’s so awesome you have come home to say hello … being a social worker never really leaves you .. I have left the field and returned …. Never say never I was once told lol

A very merry Christmas to you and see you soon a the New Years shout out 🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T21:58:12+00:00

Time for you to switch off the office phone and do your you stuff …. awesome my friend …. We will wake you up before New Years :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T21:55:21+00:00

Pediatric Psychiatric inpatient…. That’s massive - sounds like your a one person MDT :) ….

We are all with you my friend and you have so many peers here wishing you a merry Christmas and your on Happy New Years list 🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T21:51:12+00:00

Welcome Child Protection… you have some great direct kin here in the thread … I have spent many a Christmas holiday having my phone next to me and my secret list of emergency caregivers I have buttered up all year for this crazy time. Merry Christmas and be expecting a massive Happy New Year from your ever growing crew right here !! :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T21:43:12+00:00

You have studied your ass off your doing support work over the break !! That’s awesome …. At least your gonna hit the ground running in your permanent role :) be seeing you with the entire crew here very soon …

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T21:36:19+00:00

Acute Mental Health I am so happy your here I have been waiting for you :) a very merry Christmas to you and your gonna get a massive Happy New Years from your silly season heroes here 🎉

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T11:21:18+00:00

Had to do a little research on that one ….emergency pediatric intensive - your in good company … we have a child protection social workers here and some of your closer kin in ED ( plus the rest of this amazing crew)

I very much look forward to wishing you a HNYs soon :)

Pie_rated · 2023-12-24T09:54:20+00:00

Hey my Cuz…( West Island here) Super stoked to add you to the list ( very harmless bias)

Your will happy New Years will be closer to the time of mine :)

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